Emotional Intelligence and Its 
Role in Education 
(Resource Person) 
Dr.Shazia Zamir
Today’s Training Will Help You 
Understand emotional intelligence and it’s importance in 
education. 
Recognize important competencies you can work on to 
increase your level of emotional intelligence. 
 Listen to and employ your emotions for better decision 
making. 
Use your energy and enthusiasm to motivate others
Emotions of the present moment 
 Happy, Depressed, Surprised, Anxious, Angry, Creative 
 Content, Sad, Shocked, Fearful, Enraged, Imaginative 
 Ecstatic, Suicidal, Dumbfounded, Worried, Sarcastic 
Resourceful 
 Other-------------------
What is Intelligence? 
"Intelligence, as a hypothetical construct and global capacity of 
the individual to act purposefully, to think rationally, and to 
deal effectively with his environment” 
Role of IQ 
Predicts school grades relatively well 
Does not predict success in life 
Predicts job success 
Culture-bound, Gender Bias, Racial controversies 
Gets you in the door 
Professional schools (medicine, dentistry, law) 
Can help you get hired (Harvard MBA) 
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Emotion + Intelligence = Emotional Intelligence 
Emotion is defined as a complex state of feeling that results in 
physical and psychological changes that influence thought and 
behavior. 
As emotion is an important aspect of one’s’ life and its 
disturbance creates fears, worries, anxieties, annoyance, anger, 
resentment and irritability and makes it hard to achieve the 
desired goal. 
There is an intelligence based on emotion, and people who 
have this capacity are less depressed, healthier, more 
enjoyable, and have better relationships
Emotional Intelligence 
 A form of social intelligence that involves the 
ability to monitor one’s own and others’ feelings 
and emotions, to discriminate among them, and 
to use this information to guide one’s thinking 
and action. 
• EI is sometimes referred as “people smarts” and a 
very important personal attribute.
Emotional Intelligence 
EI is a form of intelligence 
 Ability to think about emotions 
 Ability to think with emotions 
 To help you cope and grow well 
Five main Clusters of Emotional Intelligence 
Self-Awareness 
Self-Management 
Social Awareness 
Social Skills 
Empathy
Why EI? 
EDUCATING THE HEART IS AS 
IMPORTANT AS EDUCATING THE MIND
EI: An Essential Part of Whole Person
What is the Difference between IQ & EQ? 
 IQ ensures your success in school 
 EQ ensures your success in life 
 Suppose you find out about a problem at your office. You 
know the facts and the reason behind the failure. That is 
your IQ 
 When you use these to motivate your employees, that’s 
your EQ. 
 If you know the facts, but are unable to empathize with 
your employees, berate and de motivate them, you have a 
low EQ. 
 When you try to convince someone by facts alone, it 
shows your IQ, but when you appeal to his emotions and 
reason together with the use of facts, that’s your EQ!
The Five Essential Competencies of 
Emotional Intelligence 
• Self-Awareness 
• Self-Regulation 
• Self-Motivation 
• Empathy 
• Effective Relationships 
Relate to Ourselves 
Relate to Others
Self-Awareness 
Self-awareness – the ability to know one's emotions, 
strengths, weaknesses, drives, values and goals and recognize 
their impact on others while using gut feelings to guide 
decisions. 
The key in this area is the ability to be critically self-reflective.
Self-Management 
Self-management – involves controlling or redirecting 
one's disruptive emotions and impulses and adapting to 
changing circumstances.
Social Awareness 
Social awareness – managing relationships to move people 
in the desired direction 
Empathy 
An ability to feel and see the world from another’s 
perspective by building a mental understanding of others in 
your own mind and take an active interest in their concerns.
Relationship Management 
The ability to listening and sending clear, convincing and 
well-tuned messages, the proficiency in initiating new ideas 
and leading people in a new direction
Goleman’Model of Emotional Intelligence
Ability Model By Mayer-Salovey-Caruso 
Identifying Emotions: identify emotions in faces , pictures, 
voices, and cultural artifacts 
Using Emotions to Facilitate Thought: the ability to use 
emotions to facilitate various cognitive activities and use 
emotions to solve problems 
Understanding Emotions: figure out what makes people 
“tick” 
Managing Emotions: make optimal decisions
Identifying Emotions in Faces (MSCEIT) 
How much is each feeling below expressed by this face? 
1. No Happiness 1 2 3 4 5 
1 2 3 4 5 
No Fear 
Extreme 
Happiness 
Extreme 
Fear
1. Happiness 
1 2 3 4 5 
2. Sadness 
How much is each feeling expressed by this picture?
What mood(s) might be helpful to feel when meeting in-laws 
for the very first time? 
Not Useful Useful 
a. tension 1 2 3 4 5 
b. surprise 1 2 3 4 5 
c. joy 1 2 3 4 5 
Ability 
Generate an emotion and solve problems with that emotion 
How the Ability May Be Used ? 
Creating the right feeling to assist in problem solving, 
communicating a vision, leading people.
Tom felt anxious, and became a bit stressed when he thought 
about all the work he needed to do. When his supervisor 
brought him an additional project, he felt_______________. 
a. overwhelmed 
b. depressed 
c. ashamed 
d. self-conscious 
e. nervous 
Ability 
Understand the causes of emotions 
How the Ability May Be Used 
Being able to predict how people will emotionally react.
How to Enhance EI? 
Emotional Literacy: refers to convert the feelings of fear, 
aggression, and anger, into hope, courage and willing 
cooperation. (practice or by stimulation technique) 
Pressure Handling: Achievement oriented behavior creates 
an unwanted pressure on child’s mind which influences the 
emotional state of mind of a person.(help of humor, self 
confidence and self management) 
Parental Guidance: the foundation to students’ emotional 
behavior was laid at the age of 3-15. 
Reflective practice: deep thoughtful process to understand 
and mastery into one’s life.
Strategies to Tackle Classroom Emotional 
Problems 
Self awareness- Understand your strengths and 
weaknesses. 
Prepare and structure your class delivery. 
Self management- Be on time for classes, be fair- use 
very fair guidelines in assessments so that the students 
realize why they are getting low or high scores. 
Self regulation and Social skills - Plan surprises and 
rediscovery. 
Keep evidence of classroom activities. 
Understand the needs of the students- personal and 
academic. 
Build relations- Develop a relationship with your 
students, Emphasize competencies like sincerity, hard 
work, leadership and other co-curricular activities.
A technology for humanising education 
Nothing to do with ICT!!! 
The quality of the human relationships in the classroom 
is central to good teaching 
Teachers need to value students, tune into them, show 
them empathy and communicate very positively with 
them 
Teachers are more successful if they know their pupils 
very well and treat them as human beings in valuing 
relationships, rather than as pupils to be taught a set 
curriculum 
Designed a whole set of teacher behaviours in class both 
to analyse classroom relationships and to support 
teachers in using a more empathic approach
What is Social & Emotional Learning? 
Recognizing one’s emotions and 
values as well as one’s strengths 
Self-awareness 
social & 
emotional 
learning 
Social 
awareness 
Responsible 
decision-making 
Relationship 
Skills 
Self-management 
and limitations 
Making ethical, 
constructive 
choices about 
personal 
and social behavior 
Forming positive relationships, 
working in teams, dealing 
effectively with conflict 
Managing 
emotions and 
behaviors to 
achieve 
one’s goals 
Showing understanding 
and empathy for others
Activity 
Why do some people with high IQ fail 
in life, while others with moderate IQ 
succeed?
Some of the Applications of the EI 
 Recruiting high 
 Risk management 
performers 
 Self development 
 Retaining high 
 Change management 
performers 
 Re-shaping culture 
 Teambuilding 
 Stress management 
Managing diversity 
 Career planning 
 Leadership 
 ------------------- 
development 
 Coaching 
 Performance 
management
Effects of Intelligence (EI) on Career 
Success 
“IQ” “EI” 
CAREER 
ADVANCEMENT 
LOW “EI” 
CAREER 
DERAILMENT
ADDING THE TOOLS TO 
THE TOOLBOX 
•CLEAR 
COMMUNICATION 
•EMPATHY 
•SELF AWARENESS 
•DECISION MAKING 
•PROBLEM SOLVING 
•SHARING 
•PATIENCE 
•LISTENING 
• CARING 
• GETTING ALONG 
WITH OTHERS 
• GENTLENESS 
• DETERMINATION 
• SELF MOTIVATION 
• SELF CONTROL 
• ----------------------
Role of Emotional 
Intelligence in Education 
Emotional Intelligence and Social Emotional Learning at 
School: 
Empathy (feeling cared for) 
 Accountability (sense of follow-through) 
 Respect (considerate behavior) 
 Trust (belief in the people and institution.). 
 A positive school culture leads to school’s overall success 
on all fronts….especially academic success. 
EI helps children to face the tests of life and NOT a life of 
tests!
Role of Emotional Intelligence in Education 
 Psychological and physical well-being (anxiety, depression, 
blood pressure, suppress the immune system, increase the 
risk of heart attack and stroke). 
 Academic performance as well as job performance 
 Ability to face the state of frustration in exams 
 Job satisfaction 
 Mood regulation 
 Control on the inner self and feelings 
 To make the person an optimistic one 
 Healthy relationship at work, academic and in personal life
Role of EI in Education 
Feelings matter in school, at work and at home. 
School is generally designated as the prime location for 
the promotion and further teaching of emotional 
intelligence. 
avoiding risk behaviors 
Decrease in violent behavior 
stronger friendships 
staying in school… higher graduation rates 
less disruptive behavior; fewer discipline problems 
improving health, happiness and life success 
------------------
How to control emotions? 
Step 1: Recognize and Accept that You Are in Control of Your 
Emotions 
Step 2: Identify the Reasons for Emotional Outbursts 
1.Love of world 
2.Lack of proper nutrition 
3.Lack of proper sleep 
Step 3: Take Positive Action to Manage Your Emotions 
1.Counsel yourself 
2.Take control of your mind 
3. Remember Allah 
4.Practice forgiveness 
5.Follow the seerah 
6.Manage your time 
7. Always communicate honestly 
Step 4:Accept
Emotions and Islam 
Prophet(PBUH)said:“A strong man is not one who physically 
overpowers others. A strong man is one who controls himself 
when angry.” (Related by Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood 
and Ahmad). 
" None of you is a muslims until he loves for his brother what 
he loves for himself"(SAHIH BUKHARI) 
Love (hubb) Hope (raja, amal), Elation (suruur, farah) Fear 
(khawf), Rage and aggression (ghadhab), Hate (kurh)
IQBAL AND EI
Class Activity 
Empathy : Do you apply empathy to 
your colleagues, students, boss and 
family members?
Education Goals 
Raise 
Academic 
Performance 
And Improve Children’s 
Well-being
Conclusion 
Educating the mind without 
educating the heart is No education 
at all-Aristotle

Emotional Intelligence by Dr.Shazia Zamir

  • 1.
    Emotional Intelligence andIts Role in Education (Resource Person) Dr.Shazia Zamir
  • 2.
    Today’s Training WillHelp You Understand emotional intelligence and it’s importance in education. Recognize important competencies you can work on to increase your level of emotional intelligence.  Listen to and employ your emotions for better decision making. Use your energy and enthusiasm to motivate others
  • 3.
    Emotions of thepresent moment  Happy, Depressed, Surprised, Anxious, Angry, Creative  Content, Sad, Shocked, Fearful, Enraged, Imaginative  Ecstatic, Suicidal, Dumbfounded, Worried, Sarcastic Resourceful  Other-------------------
  • 4.
    What is Intelligence? "Intelligence, as a hypothetical construct and global capacity of the individual to act purposefully, to think rationally, and to deal effectively with his environment” Role of IQ Predicts school grades relatively well Does not predict success in life Predicts job success Culture-bound, Gender Bias, Racial controversies Gets you in the door Professional schools (medicine, dentistry, law) Can help you get hired (Harvard MBA) ---------------------------
  • 5.
    Emotion + Intelligence= Emotional Intelligence Emotion is defined as a complex state of feeling that results in physical and psychological changes that influence thought and behavior. As emotion is an important aspect of one’s’ life and its disturbance creates fears, worries, anxieties, annoyance, anger, resentment and irritability and makes it hard to achieve the desired goal. There is an intelligence based on emotion, and people who have this capacity are less depressed, healthier, more enjoyable, and have better relationships
  • 6.
    Emotional Intelligence A form of social intelligence that involves the ability to monitor one’s own and others’ feelings and emotions, to discriminate among them, and to use this information to guide one’s thinking and action. • EI is sometimes referred as “people smarts” and a very important personal attribute.
  • 7.
    Emotional Intelligence EIis a form of intelligence  Ability to think about emotions  Ability to think with emotions  To help you cope and grow well Five main Clusters of Emotional Intelligence Self-Awareness Self-Management Social Awareness Social Skills Empathy
  • 8.
    Why EI? EDUCATINGTHE HEART IS AS IMPORTANT AS EDUCATING THE MIND
  • 9.
    EI: An EssentialPart of Whole Person
  • 10.
    What is theDifference between IQ & EQ?  IQ ensures your success in school  EQ ensures your success in life  Suppose you find out about a problem at your office. You know the facts and the reason behind the failure. That is your IQ  When you use these to motivate your employees, that’s your EQ.  If you know the facts, but are unable to empathize with your employees, berate and de motivate them, you have a low EQ.  When you try to convince someone by facts alone, it shows your IQ, but when you appeal to his emotions and reason together with the use of facts, that’s your EQ!
  • 11.
    The Five EssentialCompetencies of Emotional Intelligence • Self-Awareness • Self-Regulation • Self-Motivation • Empathy • Effective Relationships Relate to Ourselves Relate to Others
  • 12.
    Self-Awareness Self-awareness –the ability to know one's emotions, strengths, weaknesses, drives, values and goals and recognize their impact on others while using gut feelings to guide decisions. The key in this area is the ability to be critically self-reflective.
  • 13.
    Self-Management Self-management –involves controlling or redirecting one's disruptive emotions and impulses and adapting to changing circumstances.
  • 14.
    Social Awareness Socialawareness – managing relationships to move people in the desired direction Empathy An ability to feel and see the world from another’s perspective by building a mental understanding of others in your own mind and take an active interest in their concerns.
  • 15.
    Relationship Management Theability to listening and sending clear, convincing and well-tuned messages, the proficiency in initiating new ideas and leading people in a new direction
  • 16.
  • 17.
    Ability Model ByMayer-Salovey-Caruso Identifying Emotions: identify emotions in faces , pictures, voices, and cultural artifacts Using Emotions to Facilitate Thought: the ability to use emotions to facilitate various cognitive activities and use emotions to solve problems Understanding Emotions: figure out what makes people “tick” Managing Emotions: make optimal decisions
  • 18.
    Identifying Emotions inFaces (MSCEIT) How much is each feeling below expressed by this face? 1. No Happiness 1 2 3 4 5 1 2 3 4 5 No Fear Extreme Happiness Extreme Fear
  • 19.
    1. Happiness 12 3 4 5 2. Sadness How much is each feeling expressed by this picture?
  • 20.
    What mood(s) mightbe helpful to feel when meeting in-laws for the very first time? Not Useful Useful a. tension 1 2 3 4 5 b. surprise 1 2 3 4 5 c. joy 1 2 3 4 5 Ability Generate an emotion and solve problems with that emotion How the Ability May Be Used ? Creating the right feeling to assist in problem solving, communicating a vision, leading people.
  • 21.
    Tom felt anxious,and became a bit stressed when he thought about all the work he needed to do. When his supervisor brought him an additional project, he felt_______________. a. overwhelmed b. depressed c. ashamed d. self-conscious e. nervous Ability Understand the causes of emotions How the Ability May Be Used Being able to predict how people will emotionally react.
  • 22.
    How to EnhanceEI? Emotional Literacy: refers to convert the feelings of fear, aggression, and anger, into hope, courage and willing cooperation. (practice or by stimulation technique) Pressure Handling: Achievement oriented behavior creates an unwanted pressure on child’s mind which influences the emotional state of mind of a person.(help of humor, self confidence and self management) Parental Guidance: the foundation to students’ emotional behavior was laid at the age of 3-15. Reflective practice: deep thoughtful process to understand and mastery into one’s life.
  • 23.
    Strategies to TackleClassroom Emotional Problems Self awareness- Understand your strengths and weaknesses. Prepare and structure your class delivery. Self management- Be on time for classes, be fair- use very fair guidelines in assessments so that the students realize why they are getting low or high scores. Self regulation and Social skills - Plan surprises and rediscovery. Keep evidence of classroom activities. Understand the needs of the students- personal and academic. Build relations- Develop a relationship with your students, Emphasize competencies like sincerity, hard work, leadership and other co-curricular activities.
  • 24.
    A technology forhumanising education Nothing to do with ICT!!! The quality of the human relationships in the classroom is central to good teaching Teachers need to value students, tune into them, show them empathy and communicate very positively with them Teachers are more successful if they know their pupils very well and treat them as human beings in valuing relationships, rather than as pupils to be taught a set curriculum Designed a whole set of teacher behaviours in class both to analyse classroom relationships and to support teachers in using a more empathic approach
  • 25.
    What is Social& Emotional Learning? Recognizing one’s emotions and values as well as one’s strengths Self-awareness social & emotional learning Social awareness Responsible decision-making Relationship Skills Self-management and limitations Making ethical, constructive choices about personal and social behavior Forming positive relationships, working in teams, dealing effectively with conflict Managing emotions and behaviors to achieve one’s goals Showing understanding and empathy for others
  • 26.
    Activity Why dosome people with high IQ fail in life, while others with moderate IQ succeed?
  • 27.
    Some of theApplications of the EI  Recruiting high  Risk management performers  Self development  Retaining high  Change management performers  Re-shaping culture  Teambuilding  Stress management Managing diversity  Career planning  Leadership  ------------------- development  Coaching  Performance management
  • 28.
    Effects of Intelligence(EI) on Career Success “IQ” “EI” CAREER ADVANCEMENT LOW “EI” CAREER DERAILMENT
  • 29.
    ADDING THE TOOLSTO THE TOOLBOX •CLEAR COMMUNICATION •EMPATHY •SELF AWARENESS •DECISION MAKING •PROBLEM SOLVING •SHARING •PATIENCE •LISTENING • CARING • GETTING ALONG WITH OTHERS • GENTLENESS • DETERMINATION • SELF MOTIVATION • SELF CONTROL • ----------------------
  • 30.
    Role of Emotional Intelligence in Education Emotional Intelligence and Social Emotional Learning at School: Empathy (feeling cared for)  Accountability (sense of follow-through)  Respect (considerate behavior)  Trust (belief in the people and institution.).  A positive school culture leads to school’s overall success on all fronts….especially academic success. EI helps children to face the tests of life and NOT a life of tests!
  • 31.
    Role of EmotionalIntelligence in Education  Psychological and physical well-being (anxiety, depression, blood pressure, suppress the immune system, increase the risk of heart attack and stroke).  Academic performance as well as job performance  Ability to face the state of frustration in exams  Job satisfaction  Mood regulation  Control on the inner self and feelings  To make the person an optimistic one  Healthy relationship at work, academic and in personal life
  • 32.
    Role of EIin Education Feelings matter in school, at work and at home. School is generally designated as the prime location for the promotion and further teaching of emotional intelligence. avoiding risk behaviors Decrease in violent behavior stronger friendships staying in school… higher graduation rates less disruptive behavior; fewer discipline problems improving health, happiness and life success ------------------
  • 33.
    How to controlemotions? Step 1: Recognize and Accept that You Are in Control of Your Emotions Step 2: Identify the Reasons for Emotional Outbursts 1.Love of world 2.Lack of proper nutrition 3.Lack of proper sleep Step 3: Take Positive Action to Manage Your Emotions 1.Counsel yourself 2.Take control of your mind 3. Remember Allah 4.Practice forgiveness 5.Follow the seerah 6.Manage your time 7. Always communicate honestly Step 4:Accept
  • 34.
    Emotions and Islam Prophet(PBUH)said:“A strong man is not one who physically overpowers others. A strong man is one who controls himself when angry.” (Related by Al-Bukhari, Muslim, Abu Dawood and Ahmad). " None of you is a muslims until he loves for his brother what he loves for himself"(SAHIH BUKHARI) Love (hubb) Hope (raja, amal), Elation (suruur, farah) Fear (khawf), Rage and aggression (ghadhab), Hate (kurh)
  • 35.
  • 36.
    Class Activity Empathy: Do you apply empathy to your colleagues, students, boss and family members?
  • 37.
    Education Goals Raise Academic Performance And Improve Children’s Well-being
  • 38.
    Conclusion Educating themind without educating the heart is No education at all-Aristotle