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Manu Melwin Joy
Research Scholar
School of Management Studies
CUSAT, Kerala, India.
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Mail – manu_melwinjoy@yahoo.com
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Content scripts
In terms of content, we can
classify scripts under three
headings:
–Winning.
–Losing or Harmartic.
–Non – Winning or banal.
Winning script
Berne defined a winner as
“someone who
accomplishes his
declared purpose.”
(Robert Goulding added :
and makes the world a
better place as a result.)
Winning script
• Winning also implies that
the “declared purpose” be
met comfortably, happily
and smoothly.
• If I decide as a child that I
am going to be a great
leader, and eventually I
become successful,
fulfilled general or
politician basking in public
praise, I am a winner.
Winning script
• If I decide to be a
millionaire, then I win if I
grow up to be a happy,
comfortable millionaire.
• If I decide to become a
penniless hermit, and go
on to become that hermit
living happily in my cave, I
am a winner.
• Winning is always relative
to the goals I set for
myself.
Losing script
• A loser means
someone who does
not accomplish a
declared purpose.
• Once again, it is not
just the
accomplishment or
otherwise that
matters, but the
degree of comfort that
goes with it.
Losing script
• If I decide to become a
great leader, join army
and finish up being
drummed out in disgrace,
I am a loser.
• I am also a loser if I decide
to be a millionaire,
become one and feel
perpetually miserable
because of my ulcer and
the pressure of business.
Losing script
Berne was careful to
define winner and loser in
relation to accomplished
declared purposes
because he wanted to
emphasize that winners
are not simply to be
equated with people who
piled up material goods
and money. Nor were
losers necessarily those
people who were short of
material things.
Losing script
A losing script can be
broadly classified as
first, second and third
degree, according to
the severity of the
payoff.
Losing script
A first degree losing script
is one where the failures
and losses are mild enough
to be discussed in the
person's social circle. Ex :
Repetitive quarrels at work,
failure in exams etc.
Losing script
Second degree losers
experience unpleasant
script outcomes that are
serious enough to be
unacceptable topics for
social conversation. Ex :
fired from series of job,
hospitalized for severe
depression etc.
Losing script
• A third degree losing
script culminates in death,
serious injury or illness or
a legal crisis.
• Third degree payoff might
be imprisonment for
stealing the firm’s funds,
life long hospitalization
for a psychiatric disorder
or suicide after failing
final examinations.
Losing script
• We often use the term
harmartic to describe third
degree losing scripts and
their payoffs.
• The word is derived from
the ancient Greek
harmartia, meaning “a basic
flaw”.
• It reflects the way in which
a losing script, like an
ancient Greek drama, seems
to lead inexorably from the
early negative decision to
the tragic final scene.
Non Winning Script
• Someone with a non-
winning script is a middle
of the roader.
• He plods along from day
to day, not making any
big winds but not making
any big losses either.
• He doesn’t take risk. This
kind of script pattern is
often called banal.
Non Winning Script
• At work, a non-winner will
not become the boss. He will
not be fired either.
• Instead, he will likely serve
out his working years, be
awarded a marble clock, and
go into quiet retirement.
• He may sit in his rocking
chair reflecting : “ I could
have been the boss if only I
did been the right place at
the right time. Ah, well, I
didn’t do so bad, I suppose.”
Winners, Losers and non winners
• Berne suggested that you
could tell a winner from a
loser by asking him what he
would do if he lost.
• He said a winner knows but
doesn’t talk about it.
• A loser doesn’t know and all
he talk about is winning :
‘When I make my first
million…’.
• He stakes everything on one
option and that is how he
loses.
Winners, Losers and non winners
• A winner always has
additional options, and that is
how he wins. If one thing
doesn’t work out, he does
something else until he is
successful.
• A non-winner sometimes wins
and sometime loses, but
never very big in either
direction, because he doesn’t
take risks.
• He plays it safe, and that is
how he remains a non-winner.
Thank
You
Other TA topics available on slideshare
1. Strokes - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/strokes-24081607.
2. Games People Play - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/psychological-
games-people-play.
3. Structural Analysis - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/the-ego-state-model.
4. What is TA? - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/what-ta-is
5. Cycles of Development - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/cycles-of-
developement-pamela-levin-transactional-analysis.
6. Stages of Cure - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/stages-of-cure.
7. Transactions - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/transactions-33677298.
8. Time Structuring - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/time-structuring.
9. Life Position - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/life-position.
10. Autonomy - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/autonomy-33690557.
11. Structural Pathology - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/structural-pathology.
12. Game Analysis - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/game-analysis-33725636.
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Content script - Life script (Transactional analysis / TA is an integrative approach to the theory of psychology and psychotherapy)

  • 2. Prepared By Manu Melwin Joy Research Scholar School of Management Studies CUSAT, Kerala, India. Phone – 9744551114 Mail – manu_melwinjoy@yahoo.com Kindly restrict the use of slides for personal purpose. Please seek permission to reproduce the same in public forms and presentations.
  • 3. Content scripts In terms of content, we can classify scripts under three headings: –Winning. –Losing or Harmartic. –Non – Winning or banal.
  • 4. Winning script Berne defined a winner as “someone who accomplishes his declared purpose.” (Robert Goulding added : and makes the world a better place as a result.)
  • 5. Winning script • Winning also implies that the “declared purpose” be met comfortably, happily and smoothly. • If I decide as a child that I am going to be a great leader, and eventually I become successful, fulfilled general or politician basking in public praise, I am a winner.
  • 6. Winning script • If I decide to be a millionaire, then I win if I grow up to be a happy, comfortable millionaire. • If I decide to become a penniless hermit, and go on to become that hermit living happily in my cave, I am a winner. • Winning is always relative to the goals I set for myself.
  • 7. Losing script • A loser means someone who does not accomplish a declared purpose. • Once again, it is not just the accomplishment or otherwise that matters, but the degree of comfort that goes with it.
  • 8. Losing script • If I decide to become a great leader, join army and finish up being drummed out in disgrace, I am a loser. • I am also a loser if I decide to be a millionaire, become one and feel perpetually miserable because of my ulcer and the pressure of business.
  • 9. Losing script Berne was careful to define winner and loser in relation to accomplished declared purposes because he wanted to emphasize that winners are not simply to be equated with people who piled up material goods and money. Nor were losers necessarily those people who were short of material things.
  • 10. Losing script A losing script can be broadly classified as first, second and third degree, according to the severity of the payoff.
  • 11. Losing script A first degree losing script is one where the failures and losses are mild enough to be discussed in the person's social circle. Ex : Repetitive quarrels at work, failure in exams etc.
  • 12. Losing script Second degree losers experience unpleasant script outcomes that are serious enough to be unacceptable topics for social conversation. Ex : fired from series of job, hospitalized for severe depression etc.
  • 13. Losing script • A third degree losing script culminates in death, serious injury or illness or a legal crisis. • Third degree payoff might be imprisonment for stealing the firm’s funds, life long hospitalization for a psychiatric disorder or suicide after failing final examinations.
  • 14. Losing script • We often use the term harmartic to describe third degree losing scripts and their payoffs. • The word is derived from the ancient Greek harmartia, meaning “a basic flaw”. • It reflects the way in which a losing script, like an ancient Greek drama, seems to lead inexorably from the early negative decision to the tragic final scene.
  • 15. Non Winning Script • Someone with a non- winning script is a middle of the roader. • He plods along from day to day, not making any big winds but not making any big losses either. • He doesn’t take risk. This kind of script pattern is often called banal.
  • 16. Non Winning Script • At work, a non-winner will not become the boss. He will not be fired either. • Instead, he will likely serve out his working years, be awarded a marble clock, and go into quiet retirement. • He may sit in his rocking chair reflecting : “ I could have been the boss if only I did been the right place at the right time. Ah, well, I didn’t do so bad, I suppose.”
  • 17. Winners, Losers and non winners • Berne suggested that you could tell a winner from a loser by asking him what he would do if he lost. • He said a winner knows but doesn’t talk about it. • A loser doesn’t know and all he talk about is winning : ‘When I make my first million…’. • He stakes everything on one option and that is how he loses.
  • 18. Winners, Losers and non winners • A winner always has additional options, and that is how he wins. If one thing doesn’t work out, he does something else until he is successful. • A non-winner sometimes wins and sometime loses, but never very big in either direction, because he doesn’t take risks. • He plays it safe, and that is how he remains a non-winner.
  • 20. Other TA topics available on slideshare 1. Strokes - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/strokes-24081607. 2. Games People Play - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/psychological- games-people-play. 3. Structural Analysis - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/the-ego-state-model. 4. What is TA? - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/what-ta-is 5. Cycles of Development - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/cycles-of- developement-pamela-levin-transactional-analysis. 6. Stages of Cure - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/stages-of-cure. 7. Transactions - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/transactions-33677298. 8. Time Structuring - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/time-structuring. 9. Life Position - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/life-position. 10. Autonomy - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/autonomy-33690557. 11. Structural Pathology - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/structural-pathology. 12. Game Analysis - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/game-analysis-33725636. 13. Integrated Adult - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/integrated-adult. 14. Stroke Economy - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/stroke-economy- 33826702.