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Counter Injunctions
Prepared By
Manu Melwin Joy
Research Scholar
School of Management Studies
CUSAT, Kerala, India.
Phone – 9744551114
Mail – manu_melwinjoy@yahoo.com
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Counter Injunctions
These parent to parent
messages were
originally called counter
injunction because they
were thought to run
counter to the
injunction.
Counter Injunctions
The counter script is a set
of decisions made by the
child in compliance with
the counter injunctions.
Counter injunctions
consists of commands
about what to do or not
do, plus definitions of
people and the world.
Counter Injunctions
We often get thousands
of these from our
parents and parent
figures. Typical ones are
– Be good.
– Don’t be naughty.
– Be my princess.
– Work hard.
– Come top of the class.
– It’s bad to tell lies.
Counter Injunctions
Most of the time, we
use our counter scripts
in positive ways, to look
after ourselves and fit
in comfortably with
society. As grownups,
we don’t need to think
whether we should
belch at the table or
run out in the road of
traffic.
Counter Injunctions
Most of us, though, have a
few counter script
messages which we have
decided to use as part of a
negative script set up. If I
carry the message “work
hard”, I may win in college
and workplace but sacrifice
relaxation and may lead to
payoff of ulcer, high blood
pressure or heart attack.
Counter Injunctions
There are five commands
in particular which play a
special role in the counter
script. These are called
drivers. They are
• Be perfect.
• Be strong.
• Try hard.
• Please others.
• Hurry up.
Counter Injunctions
The name driver is used
because the child feels
a compulsion to follow
these commands. He
believes he stays OK so
long as he obeys the
driver. All of us carry
these five messages
around in our counter
script, though in
varying proportions.
Counter Injunctions
when I replay a driver
message internally, I
exhibit a set of behaviors
that typically accompany
that driver. These driver
behaviors are consistent
from person to person. By
studying someone’s driver
behavior, we can reliably
predict some important
features of their script.
Thank You
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ounter injunctions

  • 2. Prepared By Manu Melwin Joy Research Scholar School of Management Studies CUSAT, Kerala, India. Phone – 9744551114 Mail – manu_melwinjoy@yahoo.com Kindly restrict the use of slides for personal purpose. Please seek permission to reproduce the same in public forms and presentations.
  • 3. Counter Injunctions These parent to parent messages were originally called counter injunction because they were thought to run counter to the injunction.
  • 4. Counter Injunctions The counter script is a set of decisions made by the child in compliance with the counter injunctions. Counter injunctions consists of commands about what to do or not do, plus definitions of people and the world.
  • 5. Counter Injunctions We often get thousands of these from our parents and parent figures. Typical ones are – Be good. – Don’t be naughty. – Be my princess. – Work hard. – Come top of the class. – It’s bad to tell lies.
  • 6. Counter Injunctions Most of the time, we use our counter scripts in positive ways, to look after ourselves and fit in comfortably with society. As grownups, we don’t need to think whether we should belch at the table or run out in the road of traffic.
  • 7. Counter Injunctions Most of us, though, have a few counter script messages which we have decided to use as part of a negative script set up. If I carry the message “work hard”, I may win in college and workplace but sacrifice relaxation and may lead to payoff of ulcer, high blood pressure or heart attack.
  • 8. Counter Injunctions There are five commands in particular which play a special role in the counter script. These are called drivers. They are • Be perfect. • Be strong. • Try hard. • Please others. • Hurry up.
  • 9. Counter Injunctions The name driver is used because the child feels a compulsion to follow these commands. He believes he stays OK so long as he obeys the driver. All of us carry these five messages around in our counter script, though in varying proportions.
  • 10. Counter Injunctions when I replay a driver message internally, I exhibit a set of behaviors that typically accompany that driver. These driver behaviors are consistent from person to person. By studying someone’s driver behavior, we can reliably predict some important features of their script.
  • 12. Other TA topics available on slideshare 1. Strokes - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/strokes-24081607. 2. Games People Play - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/psychological- games-people-play. 3. Structural Analysis - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/the-ego-state-model. 4. What is TA? - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/what-ta-is 5. Cycles of Development - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/cycles-of- developement-pamela-levin-transactional-analysis. 6. Stages of Cure - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/stages-of-cure. 7. Transactions - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/transactions-33677298. 8. Time Structuring - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/time-structuring. 9. Life Position - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/life-position. 10. Autonomy - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/autonomy-33690557. 11. Structural Pathology - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/structural-pathology. 12. Game Analysis - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/game-analysis-33725636. 13. Integrated Adult - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/integrated-adult. 14. Stroke Economy - http://www.slideshare.net/manumjoy/stroke-economy- 33826702.