Reactions-It is instinctual to act /say/write/behave stemming from the subconscious mind without filtering process running on auto-pilot without thinking first and considering its implications Reactions are like a puppy who hasn’t been trained. That untrained puppy is going to bark at every dog it sees, jump at every passing neighbor, and then he’ll eat your dinner … as soon as he sees it. Responses –Are more thoughtful, first explore in mind the possible outcomes, weighing the pros and cons and considering what would be best in the situation. Responses are more like the well-trained and well-behaved dog who comes when you call him, barks only when there’s a reason to bark, and waits patiently for his treat.