Discounting results in unresolved problems. Thus, if we can devise a systematic way of identifying the nature and intensity of discounting, we will have a powerful tool for problem solving. Such a tool is called discount matrix.
Discounting (Transactional analysis / TA is an integrative approach to the th...Manu Melwin Joy
Each time we meet a problem, We have two options. We can use the full power of our grown up thinking, feeling and action to solve the problem or We can go to into the script. Discounting is defined as unawarely ignoring information relevant to the solution to the problem.
In their work as therapist, Bob and Mary Goulding found that twelve themes emerged again and again as the basis for people’s negative early decisions. They developed the list of these twelve injunctions.
Your Mother and Father both had their own parent, Adult and Child ego states. They transmitted script messages to you from all three of these ego states. You received these messages and filed them away in your own three ego states. From this realization, Claude Steiner developed what is now one of the central model of TA: the script matrix.
Achieving autonomy is the ultimate goal in transactional analysis.Being autonomous means being self governing, determining one’s own destiny, taking responsibility for one’s own actions and feelings and throwing off patterns that are irrelevant and inappropriate to living in the here and now
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Any time your experience a racket feeling, you are in script.
As children, we use racket feeling to get our needs met in families.
We attempt to manipulate the environment so as to gain the parental support we gained in childhood by experiencing and showing these racket feelings.
Discounting (Transactional analysis / TA is an integrative approach to the th...Manu Melwin Joy
Each time we meet a problem, We have two options. We can use the full power of our grown up thinking, feeling and action to solve the problem or We can go to into the script. Discounting is defined as unawarely ignoring information relevant to the solution to the problem.
In their work as therapist, Bob and Mary Goulding found that twelve themes emerged again and again as the basis for people’s negative early decisions. They developed the list of these twelve injunctions.
Your Mother and Father both had their own parent, Adult and Child ego states. They transmitted script messages to you from all three of these ego states. You received these messages and filed them away in your own three ego states. From this realization, Claude Steiner developed what is now one of the central model of TA: the script matrix.
Achieving autonomy is the ultimate goal in transactional analysis.Being autonomous means being self governing, determining one’s own destiny, taking responsibility for one’s own actions and feelings and throwing off patterns that are irrelevant and inappropriate to living in the here and now
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Any time your experience a racket feeling, you are in script.
As children, we use racket feeling to get our needs met in families.
We attempt to manipulate the environment so as to gain the parental support we gained in childhood by experiencing and showing these racket feelings.
I am in parent contamination when I mistake parental slogans for adult reality. These are taught beliefs that are taken as facts. Berne call this prejudice. When a person is speaking about herself and say you instead of I, it is likely that the content of what follows will be parent contaminated.
The “stroking profile” concept was introduced for the first time by Jim McKenna in the Transactional Analysis Journal (October 1974). It analyzes stroking patterns by use of bar charts.
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Thus in ideal parenting, the child’s caretaker will be employing Parent and Adult resources appropriately, while still not discounting her own Child. As the child grows, the parent will provide him with what is needed to complete each stage of development.
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Berne suggests that ego boundaries can be thought of as semi permeable membranes through which psychic energy can flow from one ego state to another. Some people continually act in unpredictable ways and others are so predictable they seem monotonous. These disorders are caused by ego state boundaries which are too lax or tight, have lesions or overlap. This is known as structural pathology.
The clear thinking of the Adult is often spoiled by contamination. Contamination can be thought of as an intrusion of the Parent ego sate and / or the Child ego state into the boundary of the Adult ego state. Contamination occurs when the Adult accepts as true some unfounded Parent beliefs or Child distortions and rationalizes and justifies these attitudes.
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If you are uncomfortable with your process script, you can step out of it. Of all the personal changes TA makes feasible, this is one of the easiest to accomplish. You need to begin by establishing what your own main process patterns are. Once you have this insight, you simply take Adult control and behave in ways that break the pattern.
A boy has been given Don’t exist injunction by his mother. To his little professor, the main priority is to work out a way of staying alive. One way is to take a counter injunction and use it to cover up the Don’t exist.
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Whenever a problem is not being solved, some information relevant to the solution of that problem is being ignored. The discount matrix gives us a systematic way to pinpointing what information is being missed. This in turn provides guidance to the specific actions we need to take to solve the problem.
When I am child contaminated, I cloud my grown up thinking with beliefs from my childhood. These are fantasies, evoked by feelings, that are taken as facts. Berne used the word delusion to describe the kind of belief that typically arise from child contamination. When the content of a child contamination comes from earlier childhood, the delusion is likely to be more bizarre.
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The frame of reference is defined by the Schiffs as the structure of associated responses which integrates the various ego states in response to specific stimuli.
According to Eric Berne, whenever people get together in pairs or groups, there are six different ways in which they can spend their time and it is known as time structuring.
Some people may take one of their script messages and turn it round to its opposite. They then follow this opposite instead of the original message. Most often, this is done with counterscript. When we act in this way, we are said to be in antiscript.
The process of analyzing personality in terms of ego states is called structural analysis. Eric Berne defined an ego state as a consistent pattern of feeling and experience directly related to a corresponding consistent pattern of behaviour.
I am in parent contamination when I mistake parental slogans for adult reality. These are taught beliefs that are taken as facts. Berne call this prejudice. When a person is speaking about herself and say you instead of I, it is likely that the content of what follows will be parent contaminated.
The “stroking profile” concept was introduced for the first time by Jim McKenna in the Transactional Analysis Journal (October 1974). It analyzes stroking patterns by use of bar charts.
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Thus in ideal parenting, the child’s caretaker will be employing Parent and Adult resources appropriately, while still not discounting her own Child. As the child grows, the parent will provide him with what is needed to complete each stage of development.
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Berne suggests that ego boundaries can be thought of as semi permeable membranes through which psychic energy can flow from one ego state to another. Some people continually act in unpredictable ways and others are so predictable they seem monotonous. These disorders are caused by ego state boundaries which are too lax or tight, have lesions or overlap. This is known as structural pathology.
The clear thinking of the Adult is often spoiled by contamination. Contamination can be thought of as an intrusion of the Parent ego sate and / or the Child ego state into the boundary of the Adult ego state. Contamination occurs when the Adult accepts as true some unfounded Parent beliefs or Child distortions and rationalizes and justifies these attitudes.
Breaking out of process script patterns - Transactional AnalysisManu Melwin Joy
If you are uncomfortable with your process script, you can step out of it. Of all the personal changes TA makes feasible, this is one of the easiest to accomplish. You need to begin by establishing what your own main process patterns are. Once you have this insight, you simply take Adult control and behave in ways that break the pattern.
A boy has been given Don’t exist injunction by his mother. To his little professor, the main priority is to work out a way of staying alive. One way is to take a counter injunction and use it to cover up the Don’t exist.
Using discounting matrix (Transactional analysis / TA is an integrative appro...Manu Melwin Joy
Whenever a problem is not being solved, some information relevant to the solution of that problem is being ignored. The discount matrix gives us a systematic way to pinpointing what information is being missed. This in turn provides guidance to the specific actions we need to take to solve the problem.
When I am child contaminated, I cloud my grown up thinking with beliefs from my childhood. These are fantasies, evoked by feelings, that are taken as facts. Berne used the word delusion to describe the kind of belief that typically arise from child contamination. When the content of a child contamination comes from earlier childhood, the delusion is likely to be more bizarre.
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The frame of reference is defined by the Schiffs as the structure of associated responses which integrates the various ego states in response to specific stimuli.
According to Eric Berne, whenever people get together in pairs or groups, there are six different ways in which they can spend their time and it is known as time structuring.
Some people may take one of their script messages and turn it round to its opposite. They then follow this opposite instead of the original message. Most often, this is done with counterscript. When we act in this way, we are said to be in antiscript.
The process of analyzing personality in terms of ego states is called structural analysis. Eric Berne defined an ego state as a consistent pattern of feeling and experience directly related to a corresponding consistent pattern of behaviour.
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The discounting, not observable in itself, can be inferred by the person’s showing any of the four passive behavior. There are many other ways of detecting discounts.
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When I discount, I do so by making statement to myself in my own head. Thus a discount itself is not observable. Since you can’t thought read, you have no way of knowing I am discounting unless I speak or act in some way which indicates the presence of the discount. These behaviors are known as passive behaviors.
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Cognitive distortions are
Negative or irrational patterns of thinking.
Simply ways that Impostor Syndrome convinces us to believe things that aren’t really true.
Inaccurate thought patterns that
Reinforce our negative self perception and
Keep us feeling bad about ourselves
These negative thought patterns can play a role in
Diminishing our motivation,
Lowering our self-esteem
Contributing to problems like
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Depression, and
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For example, I have just come out from under anesthetic after an operation. Nurse is holding my hands and telling : “ You will be alright. Just hang one to my hand”. At that point, my Adult and Parent are out of commission.
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3. Discount Matrix
• Discounting results in
unresolved problems.
• Thus, if we can devise a
systematic way of identifying
the nature and intensity of
discounting, we will have a
powerful tool for problem
solving.
• Such a tool is called discount
matrix.
4. Discount Matrix
• Discount matrix was developed
by Ken Mellor and Eric Sigmund.
• The discount matrix starts from
the idea that we classify
discounts according to three
different criteria.
• Area.
• Type.
• Level.
5. Areas of discounting
• There are three areas in
which people can discount:
• Self.
• Others.
• Situation.
6. Areas of discounting
• In the example, When I
was sitting in the
restaurant dropping
because the waiter
wasn’t bringing my glass
of water, I was
discounting myself.
• I was ignoring my own
ability to take action to
get what I wanted.
7. Areas of discounting
• My friend who got angry
and started criticizing the
waiter, was discounting
not himself but the other
person.
• In judging the waiter
incompetent, hew was
blanking out any aspects
of the waiter’s actions
that might have
contradicted his criticism.
8. Areas of discounting
• Suppose that after
drooping for a while, I did
turned to my friend and
said: “ Well, there we are.
It really isn’t fair that
these other people are
getting served and I am
not. But then, this world
is an unfair place, isn’t
it?”
• Here, I did have been
discounting the situation.
9. Types of discounting
• The three types of
discounting are of:
• Stimuli.
• Problems.
• Options.
10. Discounting - Stimulus
• To discount a stimulus is
to blank out perception
that something is
happening at all.
• As I sat in the restaurant, I
might simply not have
allowed myself to feel
that I was thirsty.
11. Discounting - Stimulus
• I would have been
discounting the stimulus of
my own thirst.
• Maybe my friend, in calling
the waiter
incompetent, had not seen
the way in which the waiter
had actually succeeded in
serving many other
customers, even though the
evidence was right there in
front of him.
12. Discounting - Problem
• The person who discounts a
problem realizes that
something is
happening, but ignores the
fact that whatever is
happening poses a
problem.
• Feeling thirsty there in the
restaurant, I might have
said to my friend, “ I feel
very thirsty right
now, but, oh well, it doesn’t
13. Discounting - Options
• When discounting
options, the person is aware
that something is
happening and that it
constitutes a problem.
• But she blanks out the
possibility that anything can
be done about the problem.
• That is where I was
discounting in the original
version of the restaurant
scene.
14. Discounting - Options
• As I sat drooping, I knew
that I felt thirsty.
• I was aware that my
thirst was a problem to
me.
• But I was unawarely
ignoring the many
options I had, other
than just sitting and
hoping the waiter to
respond.
15. Levels of discounting
• The four levels of
discounting are:
• Existence.
• Significance.
• Change
possibilities.
• Personal abilities
16. Discounting- Existence
• In the example, I was
discounting the
existence of my own
options to solve the
problem.
• I didn’t even consider
the possibility of, for
example, walking over
and speaking to the
waiter instead of
gesturing to him.
17. Discounting- Significance
• If I had been discounting the
significance of my options, I
might have said to my friend:
“ I suppose I could go over
and ask him.
• But I bet asking him wouldn’t
make a difference.
• Here, I did have realized
there was something
different I could do, but
blanked out the possibility
that his action could have any
effect.
18. Discounting- Change possibilities
Discounting my options at
the level of change
possibilities, I might have
said: “ Of course, I could
walk across and collar the
fellow. But people just
don’t do that in
restaurants”.
19. Discounting- Change possibilities
In this case, I would have
let myself realize that the
option existed and that it
might have results, while
ignoring the possibility that
anyone could actually put
the option into practice.
20. Discounting- Personal Abilities
• Here I am aware the
options exists and could
bring results.
• I realize that some
people in the world
might well use that
option.
• But I dismiss my own
ability to do so.
21. Discounting Matrix
• Discounting matrix is
compiled by listing all the
possible combinations of
types and levels of discount.
• When we do so, we will get
the discounting matrix
diagram.
22.
23. Discounting Matrix
• Discounting matrix has
three columns for the
three types of discount
and four rows for the
four modes or levels.
• The wordings in each of
the resulting twelve
boxes indicates the
combination of type
and level.
24. Discounting Matrix - Example
• Suppose two friends are
talking. One of them is a heavy
smoker.
• As he lights up yet another
cigarette, he is convulsed by a
bout of coughing.
• His friend says to him : “ That’s
is a terrible cough. I am
concerned about you. Please
give up smoking.”
• What might be the smokers
reply if he were discounting in
each of the twelve different
boxes on the matrix?
25. Discounting existence of stimuli
If the smoker were
discounting the
existence of the
stimuli, he might reply:
“What cough? I was not
coughing?”
26. Discounting existence of problem
If the smoker were
discounting the existence of
the problem, he might say: “
Oh, no, I am fine, thanks. I
have always had a cough. He
is letting himself be aware of
his cough, but blotting out
the possibility that this may
constitute a problem to him.
27. Discounting significance of stimuli
• In discounting the
existence of the
problem, he is also
discounting the
significance of the
stimulus.
• In discounting the
possibility that his cough
may be a problem, he is
also discounting the fact
that the cough may have
some meaning
(Significance) for him.
28. Diagonal arrows
• This is indicated on the
matrix diagram by the
diagonal arrow connecting
the boxes for “existence of
problems” and “Significance
of stimuli”.
• The arrow means that one
of these discounts will
always entail the other.
29. Diagonal Arrows and T numbers
• All the diagonal arrows on
the diagram has this
meaning.
• The “T” numbers, entered
at the top left of each
box, are labels for the
different diagonals.
• For instance, discounts of
the existence of the
problem and the
significance of the stimuli
corresponds to diagonal T2.
30. Discounting existence of options
When we take T3, smoker
is discounting the existence
of options. He might show
this by replying “
Well, yes, but we smokers
do cough, you know?. A
short lie and a happy
one, that what I
say, ha, ha.”
31. Discounting existence of options
Now he is admitting that he
has a cough and that the
cough may well indicate a
problem, namely that
smoking can kill people.
But he is blanking out the
possibility that anyone can
do anything to avoid
smoker’s cough.
32. Discounting significance of the problem
In doing so, he also blanks
out any perception that the
possibility of being killed by
smoking is something he
might be concerned about.
He discounts the
significance of the
problem.
33. Discounting changeability of stimulus
And by his denial that
anything can possibly be
done by anyone to get rid
of a smoker’s cough, he
discounts the changeability
of the stimulus.
34. Discounting significance of options
• The same equivalence of
discounts applies along the
other diagonals.
• On T4, the smoker might say:
“Well, yes, I suppose I should
give up really. But I have been
smoking for so long, I don’t
think my giving up now is
going to make any difference.
35. Discounting viability of options and person’s ability to act on options
• On T5, he might respond:
“ Sure, you are right. I
need to give up, But I
can’t figure out how to do
it.
• And on T6, the smoker
might say: “Yes, I have
been telling myself for
ages I should throw my
cigarettes and lighter
away. But I just cant seem
to get round to it.”
36. Discounting matrix
Another feature of this matrix is that a
discounting in any box also entails discounts in
the boxes below and to its right.
37. Discounting - Sequence
Suppose a person is
discounting the existence of a
problem. Since he is not
allowing himself to be aware
that the problem even
exists, he is obviously also
going to blank out any
perception that the problem
may be significant.
38. Discounting - Sequence
• Nor will he be thinking whether
he or anyone else can solve the
problem. He is thus discounting
in the entire column of boxes
related to problems.
• And since he is ignoring the
existence of the problem, why
should he consider whether
there are options for solving it?
• Because he thus discounts the
existence of options, he will also
discount all the other boxes in
the options column.
39. Discounting - Sequence
• Finally, recall that a discount
of the existence of problem is
equivalent to discounting the
significance of stimuli, along
diagonal T2.
• Therefore, the other two
boxes below it in the stimuli
column will be discounted
also.
40. Discounting matrix
A person discounting on any diagonal will be
discounting in all the boxes below and to the
right of that diagonal.
41. Activity
• Make up the discount
matrix for this example.
• Wife and husband have
just settled down in bed
for the night.
• Then, in the next
room, their baby starts
crying.
• The husband says “Do
you think one of use
should go and see why
the baby is crying?”
42. Levels of Discounting
• The EXISTENCE of a problem, e.g. a baby cries and the parents go to sleep.
• The SIGNIFICANCE of a problem “Oh the baby always cries at this time”.
• The CHANGE POSSIBILITIES “The baby will never be satisfied”.
• The PERSONAL ABILITY to actually carry out the change “You could but I
can’t change the nappy”.
At each level the discount can be of three types:
• The STIMULUS can be discounted.
• The PROBLEM can be discounted.
• The OPTIONS can be discounted.
43. Activity
• Work out the responses
his wife might give if she
were discounting on
each of the diagonals in
the discounting matrix.
• Confirm that the
“hierarchy of discounts”
applies.
45. Using the Discount Matrix
• Whenever a problem is not
being solved, some
information relevant to the
solution of that problem is
being ignored.
• The discount matrix gives us
a systematic way to
pinpointing what
information is being missed.
• This in turn provides
guidance to the specific
actions we need to take to
solve the problem.
46. Using the Discount Matrix
When a problem
remains unsolved
despite efforts to solve
it, this is often because
the person is addressing
the problem on too low
a diagonal of the
discount matrix.
47. Using the Discount Matrix
It follows that in using
the matrix as a problem
solving tool, we need to
begin by looking for
discounts on the highest
diagonal first.
48. Using the Discount Matrix
• We step into the matrix at
the top left corner.
• If we discover a discount
there, we need to deal with
that discount before going
any further downward or to
the right.
• Because if we miss that
initial discount and try to
deal with a discount on any
lower diagonal, our
intervention will itself be
discounted.
49. Example
• If you were the friend of a
smoker and seeing him
cough, you say “ I am
concerned about you.
Please give up smoking.”
• With your intervention, you
have addressed the
problem on the lowest
diagonal of the box.
• The issue is whether the
smoker is going to act on a
specific option.
50. Example
• But suppose the smoker is
discounting much higher on the
matrix?
• For example, he may be diagonal
T2, discounting the significance of
stimulus and existence of the
problem.
• It is obvious that he will also
discount any relevance in what
you have just said to him.
• Why should he have any
investment is stopping
smoking, when as far as he is
aware, his smoker’s cough is not a
problem.
51. Example
Suppose now you wanted
to help your smoking
friend by systematically
using the discount
matrix, you would begin by
checking for a discount on
diagonal T1. “Are you
aware that you have got a
really bad cough?”
52. Example
• If he confirms that he is
aware of the cough, you
would go down to the next
diagonal.
• You might ask “ Is that
cough of yours something
you bother about?”
• Were he to reply “No, Not
really, it is something I just
take for granted.”
• Now you have located that
his discount is on T2.
53. Example
• This lets you know that if
your smoker friend is to
give up his habit, he first
needs to become aware
that his cough may
indicate a problem
• He needs to realize too
that his problem may be a
cause of his concern.
54. Activity
• Using discount matrix to
review your personal
example of a problem
situation you did not solve
at the time.
• Begin at the top left of the
discount matrix, check
each box, working
downwards on successive
diagonals, until you
identify the box in which
you were discounting.
55. Activity
• As before, if you were
working in a group or with a
willing friend, it may be
helpful if you get a second
opinion.
• Test whether you were also
discounting in all the other
boxes on the same diagonal
and those below it.
• What were the area of
discount?
• Were you discounting
yourself, others or the
environment?
56. Activity
• When you have identified the
discount, consider its ego
state source.
• Did it come from
contamination? An exclusion?
Or were you uninformed or
misinformed?
• Let yourself be aware of
whatever part of reality you
had previously been
discounting.
• If you need accurate or new
information, get it.
57. Activity
• Now rerun the situation in your
mind’s eye.
• When you come to the point at
which you began
discount, replace the discount
with your full awareness of
reality.
• How do you now act, think or
feel differently?
• How does this alter the
58. Application
• The discount matrix was
originally developed for
use in psychotherapy.
• But it provides an equally
effective tool for problem
solving in organization
and education.
59. Example
• A college teacher takes a
class and asks student
some questions to check
their understanding.
• To his surprise, the
students can answer
hardly any.
• He told himself “These
students are not working.
Why they don’t have any
motivation?
60. Example
• By assuming that the
students have not been
working, he is addressing
a discount in the area of
others on diagonal T5 or
T6 of the discount matrix.
• He has assumed that
students knew they have
to work but they either
don’t feel they can handle
the work or just aren’t
getting started?
61. Example
• When he were to check
through the discount
matrix, the real problem may
be different.
• While lecturing, he mumbles.
The students cant hear what
he is saying.
• The discount is on diagonal
T2 of the matrix.
• To address the problem, the
lecturer simply needs to
speak up.