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Final Miniscript Payoff
Transactional Analysis
Prepared By
Manu Melwin Joy
Assistant Professor
Ilahia School of Management Studies
Kerala, India.
Phone – 9744551114
Mail – manu_melwinjoy@yahoo.com
Kindly restrict the use of slides for personal purpose.
Please seek permission to reproduce the same in public forms and presentations.
Position 4 : Despairer
If my early childhood
experiences led me to
conclude “ I am not OK and
neither are you”, I may move to
this I-U- life position during my
miniscript sequence. If so, I
arrive at miniscript position 4,
the despairer, I may get there
directly from position 2 or take
a detour via position 3.
Position 4 : Despairer
Here, my racket feeling
will be in tune with my
belief that life is futile. I
may feel despairing,
hopeless, helpless or
cornered.
Position 4 : Despairer
If I shift to the despairer
position while speaking to
my group at the party, I
may droop and say to
myself: “ Oh, what is the
use? I never seem to get
through to people. And
they don’t understand me
anyway”.
Position 4 : Despairer
In Kahler’s original
version of the
miniscript, position 4
was called “final
miniscript payoff”.
Position 4 : Despairer
I may habitually play out
my miniscript sequence to
end up in stopper or
blamer. If I was lucky with
my parents or if I have
resolved my script issues
in therapy, I may seldom
go below the driver level.
References
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Final miniscript payoff transactional analysis - Manu Melwin Joy

  • 2. Prepared By Manu Melwin Joy Assistant Professor Ilahia School of Management Studies Kerala, India. Phone – 9744551114 Mail – manu_melwinjoy@yahoo.com Kindly restrict the use of slides for personal purpose. Please seek permission to reproduce the same in public forms and presentations.
  • 3. Position 4 : Despairer If my early childhood experiences led me to conclude “ I am not OK and neither are you”, I may move to this I-U- life position during my miniscript sequence. If so, I arrive at miniscript position 4, the despairer, I may get there directly from position 2 or take a detour via position 3.
  • 4. Position 4 : Despairer Here, my racket feeling will be in tune with my belief that life is futile. I may feel despairing, hopeless, helpless or cornered.
  • 5. Position 4 : Despairer If I shift to the despairer position while speaking to my group at the party, I may droop and say to myself: “ Oh, what is the use? I never seem to get through to people. And they don’t understand me anyway”.
  • 6. Position 4 : Despairer In Kahler’s original version of the miniscript, position 4 was called “final miniscript payoff”.
  • 7. Position 4 : Despairer I may habitually play out my miniscript sequence to end up in stopper or blamer. If I was lucky with my parents or if I have resolved my script issues in therapy, I may seldom go below the driver level.