The document discusses the concept of self-esteem, including its definitions, factors affecting it, and its significance in personal development. It outlines how self-esteem is shaped by experiences and relationships, the difference between high and low self-esteem, and provides tips for building self-esteem. Additionally, it emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance, recognizing individual strengths, and setting realistic expectations.

1. Understanding and Building
Self Esteem
- Vasudevan
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2. Definitions
• Self-concept:
• Picture or perception of ourselves/ a
person's mental model of his or her
abilities and attributes
• Self Efficacy:
• The set of beliefs that one can perform
adequately in a particular situation.
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3. Contd……………..
• Self-ideal: The way we
would like to be
• Self-actualization: A
concept in personality
psychology referring to a
person's constant striving to
realize his or her potential and
to develop inherent talents and
capabilities.
• Self-awareness: The top
level of consciousness;
cognizance of the
autobiographical character of
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4. • Meaning in (Dictionary.com)
• Self Esteem: Feelings we have about
ourselves
• Self Esteem: A realistic respect for or
favorable impression of one self; Self
respect
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5. What is Self Esteem?
• Self + Esteem
• The total, essential, or particular being
of a person; the individual: +Worth,
Value, Opinion ,judgment
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6. Self-Esteem…What’s it made of?
• Your self-esteem
is made up of all
the experiences
and interpersonal
relationships
you’ve had in your
life. Everyone
you’ve ever met
has added to or
taken away from
how you see
yourself!
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7. Self-Esteem
• Self-esteem refers to
the way we see and
think about ourselves
• Self esteem is your
opinion of yourself.
• High self esteem
is a good opinion of
yourself and
• Low self esteem
• is a bad opinion of
yourself.
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8. What Self Esteem is Not
• Self Esteem is NOT dependant upon what
other people think of you
• Self Esteem is NOT egotism, arrogance,
narcissism/selfishness, or a desire to feel
superior to others
• Self Esteem is NOT temporary euphoria
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9. How should we measure self-esteem?
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10. Factors affecting on high and low
self esteem
• Your self esteem depends on many questions:
• Is your job worthwhile? Do others respect what
you do? Do you?
• Do you believe you are successful?
• How do you see yourself (your self image)?
- Improve your self esteem
- Boost your self confidence
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• How do you feel about your strengths and
weaknesses?
• What do you think of your social status?
• How do you relate to others?
• Can you make your own decisions? A lack of
choices leads to low self esteem.
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11. Development of Self Esteem
• A person develops his/her self esteem
throughout the life through experiences.
• In this regard childhood experiences play
an important role in shaping self esteem.
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12. Factors that develop High and
Low Self Esteem
High Self Esteem
• If you are being
praised
• If you are listened to
• If you are being
spoken to
respectfully
• If you are getting
attention
• Experiencing
success
• Having trust worthy
friends
Low Self Esteem
 Experiencing
Continuous Failure
 Being expected to
perfect all the time
 Being Ignored or
made fun of
 Having physical or
emotional
punishment
 Being criticized
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13. Why Self Esteem is important?
• Having a healthy self – esteem creates
confidence, self-reliance, and overall
happiness in an individual
• Self esteem increases your
confidence. If you have confidence you
will respect yourself and then you can
respect others, improve your
relationships and become happier....this
is not a selfish goal as you will
contribute more and share yourself with
the world and those around you.
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14. • Low esteem causes depression,
unhappiness, insecurity and low
confidence.
• Other's desires may take preference over
yours.
• Inner criticism, that nagging voice of
disapproval inside you, causes you to
stumble at every challenge and challenges
seem impossible
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15. Change
the bad
Appreciate
life
Willing
to try
new things
Believes
in
self
Is not
a threat
to others
Doesn’t submit
to
peer pressure
Accept
failure
Leader
to
others
Good
Self
Esteem
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Who has contributed to your self
esteem?
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17. No one can
Make you feel
inferior Without
your Consent.
Eleanor Roosevelt
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18. Tips for building Self Esteem
 Learn to be more assertive and not
feel guilty about saying no
 Think positively
 Believe on your self
 Make plans for the future .Set and
achieve goals
 Do something challenging each day
 Look your best
 Eat correctly
 Do something for someone else
 Learn a new skill
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19. Contd.
 Handle things one at a time
 Use criticism constructively
 Ask for help – take advantage of
learning opportunities
 Allow personal growth time each day
 Do not say negative things about
yourself
 Reward yourself often
 List your accomplishments each
evening
 Volunteer to share your skills with
others
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Accept yourself:Accept yourself: Stop worrying aboutStop worrying about
the things you can’t change. Be morethe things you can’t change. Be more
accepting of others and the things theyaccepting of others and the things they
can’t change.can’t change.
Try not to compare with others.Try not to compare with others.
It’s unfair. You may compare theirIt’s unfair. You may compare their
strengths with your weaknesses. Judgestrengths with your weaknesses. Judge
yourself in terms of your own growthyourself in terms of your own growth
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21. Have Realistic
Expectations – We
expect too much from
ourselves. Perfection is
not possible but bettering
our-self should be a
lifetime goal.
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22. • Emphasize your strengths.
• Change what can be changed.
Some things fast, others
gradual, and others never.
There are things we inherit
but we can change our
attitude about it. Try new
experiences.
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Best Friends
• Would you take better care of yourself?
• Would you be kinder to yourself?
• Would you be more forgiving of your human
• imperfections?
• If you realized your best friend was yourself?
• Who is always with you everywhere?
• Who is on your side when others are unfair?
• And tell me, who will never let you down in any situation?
• Who will always see you get your share?
• And that’s why I’m a best friend to myself.
• And I take me out whenever I feel low.
• And I make my life as happy as a best friend would
• I’m as nice to me as anyone I know!
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24. • There are two
different people in the
world.
• One that says “I wish I had”
and
• the One that says “I’m glad I
did”.
• Remember you can have
anything in this world if you
just believe in yourself.
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25. Final Thought
• You are a unique individual.
No one else is like you in the
whole world. This makes you
special already!
• Our time in this world is
limited. Make it happen for
you so you leave your mark in
history!
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26. “Commercial of Me”
Emphasizing the positive
characteristics and capabilities of
you, develop an advertisement or
commercial to
“sell oneself”.
It may be a radio or television ad,
billboard, sweepstakes, etc.
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