Self esteem refers to a positive overall
 evaluation of oneself – a feeling that one is
competent to cope with life’s challenges and
            worthy of happiness




  Self concept is          Self esteem is what
  what we think               we feel about
 about ourselves                 ourselves
   Of all the judgements we pass in life, none is
    more important than the judgements we pass on
    ourselves. – Nathaniel Branden

   To wish you were someone else is to waste the
    person you are.

   It's not your job to like me...it's MINE! - Byron
    Katie

   No one can make you feel inferior without your
    consent – Eleanor Roosevelt
Being spoken
                   Being
                                    to
                listened to
                                respectfully



                                           Experiencing
Being Praised
                          Healthy            success

                            Self
                          Esteem
Being
                                Being
             beaten, yelle
                             expected to
                d at or
                              be perfect
               ignored


Being harshly
                                       Experiencing
 criticized or
                                         failures
   ridiculed
                       Low Self
                       Esteem
   Although early life experiences have a major
    impact on self-esteem, experiences in adult
    life also play a role.
Good mental health
Organizational prosperity




           Profiting from negative                Career success
                   feedback
ENVYING TOO MANY PEOPLE


                          POOR ROMANTIC
                           RELATIONSHIPS
   Attain legitimate accomplishments:



                                                Person
                                                develops
                                 Person
                                                esteem-like
                                 achieves the
                                                feelings
                                 goal
                   Person
                   pursues the
                   goal


     Person
     establishes                            Persons must also
     a goal                                   engage in behaviours
                                               and make choices that
                                                 are worthy of esteem.
   Be aware of
    personal strengths




   Minimize settings and interactions that
    detract from your feelings of competence
   Talk and socialize frequently with people who
    boost your self esteem.



   Model the behaviour of people with high self
    esteem.
   Self confidence is assuredness in one’s
    personal judgement and abilities.



   Self efficacy refers to confidence
    in one’s ability to carry
    out a specific task.
   Self confidence results from 5 sources of
    information:

   1. Personal experiences, or things we have
    done.

   2. The experiences of others, or modeling.

   3. Social comparison.
   4. Social persuasion – the process of
    convincing another person.

   5. Emotional arousal – how you feel about
    events around you and how you manage your
    emotions.
   1. Take an inventory of personal assets and
    accomplishments.



   2. Develop a solid
    knowledge base.
   3. Use positive self-talk.
    State the incident/   Interpret what the
                                               State what it does
         problem           incident does not
                                                     mean
        objectively              mean




                          Identify positive     Account for the
     Use positive self
                          ways to prevent a      cause of the
           talk
                            reoccurrence           incident




   4. Avoid negative self talk
   4. Use positive
    visual imagery




5. Set high expectations
for yourself
   6. Strive for peak performance



   7. Behave as if you feel confident



   8. Bounce back from setbacks
      and embarrassments
   9. Strive to develop psychological capital – a
    state in which you have hope, self-efficacy,
    optimism and resilience.



   10. Avoid overconfidence

Self Esteem and Self Confidence

  • 3.
    Self esteem refersto a positive overall evaluation of oneself – a feeling that one is competent to cope with life’s challenges and worthy of happiness Self concept is Self esteem is what what we think we feel about about ourselves ourselves
  • 4.
    Of all the judgements we pass in life, none is more important than the judgements we pass on ourselves. – Nathaniel Branden  To wish you were someone else is to waste the person you are.  It's not your job to like me...it's MINE! - Byron Katie  No one can make you feel inferior without your consent – Eleanor Roosevelt
  • 5.
    Being spoken Being to listened to respectfully Experiencing Being Praised Healthy success Self Esteem
  • 6.
    Being Being beaten, yelle expected to d at or be perfect ignored Being harshly Experiencing criticized or failures ridiculed Low Self Esteem
  • 7.
    Although early life experiences have a major impact on self-esteem, experiences in adult life also play a role.
  • 8.
    Good mental health Organizationalprosperity Profiting from negative Career success feedback
  • 9.
    ENVYING TOO MANYPEOPLE POOR ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS
  • 10.
    Attain legitimate accomplishments: Person develops Person esteem-like achieves the feelings goal Person pursues the goal  Person establishes Persons must also a goal engage in behaviours and make choices that are worthy of esteem.
  • 11.
    Be aware of personal strengths  Minimize settings and interactions that detract from your feelings of competence
  • 12.
    Talk and socialize frequently with people who boost your self esteem.  Model the behaviour of people with high self esteem.
  • 14.
    Self confidence is assuredness in one’s personal judgement and abilities.  Self efficacy refers to confidence in one’s ability to carry out a specific task.
  • 15.
    Self confidence results from 5 sources of information:  1. Personal experiences, or things we have done.  2. The experiences of others, or modeling.  3. Social comparison.
  • 16.
    4. Social persuasion – the process of convincing another person.  5. Emotional arousal – how you feel about events around you and how you manage your emotions.
  • 17.
    1. Take an inventory of personal assets and accomplishments.  2. Develop a solid knowledge base.
  • 18.
    3. Use positive self-talk. State the incident/ Interpret what the State what it does problem incident does not mean objectively mean Identify positive Account for the Use positive self ways to prevent a cause of the talk reoccurrence incident  4. Avoid negative self talk
  • 19.
    4. Use positive visual imagery 5. Set high expectations for yourself
  • 20.
    6. Strive for peak performance  7. Behave as if you feel confident  8. Bounce back from setbacks and embarrassments
  • 21.
    9. Strive to develop psychological capital – a state in which you have hope, self-efficacy, optimism and resilience.  10. Avoid overconfidence