Dealing with Difficult People
Objectives Identify types of difficult people Analyze approaches to handling them Practice new methods of controlling situations
Activity Write down three types of people who are difficult for you to deal with. How do you react to them? What do you say and do? What are you thinking?
Types of Difficult People Sherman tank Sniper Exploder Indecisives Complainer Negativist Silent clam Know-it-all bulldozer Superagreeable
Handling Difficult People  in Meetings Over participants Under participants Anti participants Others
Over Participants Talks too much Overly helpful Rambler
Case Study Overparticipant
Under Participants Reserved, shy Listener Bored with everything Old timer Non-cooperator
Case Study Under participant
Anti Participants Arguer Obstinate Off the beam Griper Injecter
Case Study Anti participant
Others Side conversations Poor choice of words Definitely wrong idea Personal conflict Asks for leader’s opinion
Case Study Other types
Nonfunctional Behaviors in Meetings Aggression Blocking Self-confessing Competing Seeking sympathy Seeking sympathy Special pleadings Horsing around Seeking recognition Withdrawal
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Dealing with difficult people