This document provides guidance on how to handle difficult people. It begins by describing common traits and behaviors of difficult people, such as being pushy, hostile, or complaining frequently. It then discusses various strategies for coping with difficult interactions, such as remaining calm, removing yourself from the situation, or changing your attitude. The bulk of the document categorizes and profiles eight common types of difficult people, like "steamrollers" and "know-it-alls," and recommends behaviors to use with each type, such as standing up to steamrollers while asking open-ended questions of "clams." General tips are offered like using "I" statements and listening actively. The document concludes by providing steps to develop an action plan for dealing with
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2. Do You Know Difficult People?
What are their characteristics?
Traits?
Attitudes?
Behaviors?
3. How Do You Cope With Them?
Think of a recent conflict with a Difficult
person?
Describe the situation
Who was involved?
How did they act?
How did you respond?
Were you pleased with the outcome?
Is there a more effective way?
4. You Have Options
1. Stay and do nothing
Use for a short duration situation but this
option builds resentment if used long-term
Example: Suffering thru a rude customer
1. Remove yourself from the situation
Use when you are losing control or when
you have a choice
Example: Don’t go to lunch with annoying
coworkers. Make other plans instead.
5. You Have Options
3. Change your attitude
Try to see the person or situation differently
Everyone is difficult at some point
Our personality differences make us rich
Understand where others are coming from
Threatened? Frustrated?
We all have hidden problems to deal with
Example: A boss with a sick child is hostile
Understand what others want
6. You Have Options
4. Change your behavior
Employ effective learnable
strategies for handling difficult
people
If what you’re doing isn’t working,
try new approaches
The following are guidelines. Not all
strategies work for all people all of
the time.
Let’s take a look
7. Identifying Common Types of DPs
Steamrollers
Snipers
Complainers
Clams
Ultra-Agreeables
Perpetual Pessimists
Know-It-Alls
Indecisives
* Clearly not every DP fits neatly into one of these simple categories
8. The Steamroller
“Gonna roll right over you”
Their Behavior:
Hostile & Pushy
Intimidating
Controlling
Superior
Your Goal:
Command Respect
9. The Steamroller
Your Behavior:
Remain calm
Speak quietly & deliberately
Above all, stand-up for yourself
(but do so appropriately)
Try to get the DP to sit down
Avoid a head-on fight if possible
Be ready to be friendly once
the incident has passed
10. The Sniper
“I’ve got you in my sights”
Their Behavior:
Secret attacks & hidden back-stabbing
Innuendo, digs & non-playful teasing
Negative undertones & superior attitude
Avoids confrontation
Your Goal:
Bring the sniper out of hiding
11. The Sniper
Your Behavior:
Be aware of what is happening
Surface the attack with questions
Flush out the real problem & deal
with it
Point out facts &
consequences
Try to provide a peaceful
alternative
Seek group confirmation (snipers
hate being exposed to others)
12. The Complainer
“I’m so blah, blah. . .”
Their Behavior:
Points out problems but doesn’t
offer any ideas or solutions
Feels powerless
Strong sense of what “should”
be happening
Self-validating (others don’t change)
Your Goal:
Form a problem-solving alliance
And another
thing …
blah, blah,
whine, whine
13. The Complainer
Your Behavior:
Listen & acknowledge but do not
agree or apologize
Ask questions to get them to think
Focus on problem-solving. Ask
“What action do you plan to
take?”
Continue asking “What do you
plan to do?”
State facts - avoid argument
And another
thing …
blah, blah,
whine, whine
15. The Clam
Your Behavior:
Ask open-ended questions
If response is “I don’t know” ask
them to take a guess
Provide enough time for a
response but set time limits
Present two options & ask them to
choose
Lighten-up & watch for non-verbal
signals
16. The Ultra-Agreeable
“Sure, I’ll do it”
Their Behavior:
Quick to agree
Slow to deliver or follow-through
Over commit themselves
Need to be liked &
make others feel liked
Your Goal:
Get a commitment you can count on
17. The Ultra-Agreeable
Your Behavior:
Make honesty non-threatening
Focus on realistic commitments
Surface underlying issues that
prevent them from taking action
Establish a relationship;
take personal interest in them
Propose win-win solutions
18. The Perpetual Pessimist
“It will never work”
Their Behavior:
Believe everything will fail (although they
are personally competent)
“It won’t work” as mantra
Tap potential for despair in others
Your Goal:
Transition to problem-solving
19. The Perpetual Pessimist
Your Behavior:
Be alert to being “dragged down”
Use them as a resource
Ask what has been done before;
what worked, what didn’t & why
Set-up a “worst case scenario” to
demonstrate that even the worst
outcome isn’t horrible or
insurmountable
Don’t argue
20. The Know-It-All
“Let me tell you all about it”
Their Behavior:
Think they know everything & will be happy
to share it with you - - ad nauseam
Feel that your ideas are inferior
Can be condescending & pompous
Your Goal:
Open the know-it-all’s mind to new ideas
21. The Know-It-All
Your Behavior:
Turn them into a “mentor”
Ask for their opinion
Listen carefully & acknowledge
Present your views as alternatives
Be prepared & know your stuff but
don’t challenge or try to be a
counter expert
Ask questions firmly but don’t
confront
22. The Indecisive
“On the other hand . . .”
Their Behavior:
Post-pones decision-making until it is too
late & the decision makes itself
Doesn’t like confrontation so hints
& evades the issue
In a perpetual state of “I don’t know”
or “gathering information”
Your Goal:
Help the indecisive think decisively
23. The Indecisive
Your Behavior:
Give scenarios: “Either this or this
will happen. Which is best?”
Help them problem-solve & clarify
options
Establish a comfortable
relationship
Make it easy for them to be direct
by being pleasant, reassuring & by
surfacing conflicts & issues
24. General Responses to DPs
Remain calm
Listen actively
Try to diffuse the situation
Use “I” statements instead of “you always”
statements
Be firm, consistent, persistent & confident
Try to lessen your exposure to the behavior
Try to reduce the causes of the behavior
25. Difficult People Action Plan
Assess the situation
What is the behavior, with whom does it
occur, how frequently?
Why do you think it is occurring?
Has the person acted the same in similar
situations?
Is my reaction out of proportion?
Was there a specific trigger?
Will open, direct discussion help?
26. Difficult People Action Plan
Stop wishing “they” were different
Give up this magical wish. It will drive you
crazy.
Very rarely does someone wake-up one
morning a totally different person. It’s not
going to happen.
Deal with the situation as it is
Blaming is not helpful
27. Difficult People Action Plan
Get some distance between you & the
behavior
Labeling the behavior can sometimes help
understanding
Formulate a plan for interrupting the
interactions
Negative versus positive
interaction
Change your behavior to break
the cycle
28. Difficult People Action Plan
Implement your plan
Timing & preparation are important
Assess & modify accordingly
If it’s not working try something else
Unfortunately, sometimes just abandoning
the effort & removing yourself is the best
option
o Transfer
o Walk away