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Th Eeffective Communication
The document outlines effective communication strategies emphasizing the importance of creating the right environment, organizing messages clearly, and utilizing both verbal and nonverbal cues. It highlights the need for attentiveness and clarity while communicating, especially during conflicts. Key techniques include maintaining eye contact, using body language effectively, and ensuring calm, respectful dialogue.
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- 1. The Effective Communication “Themost important thing in communication is hearing what isn't said”.
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- 4. 1- Creating theright environment
- 5. Choose the righttime
- 6. Facilitate an open,intimate conversation.
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- 8. 2- Organizing yourcommunications
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- 13. 3- Communicating withspeech - Set the listener at ease.
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- 16. Be attentive whenlistening and ensure that your facial expressions reflect your interest.
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- 18. 4- Communicating withbody language -Recognize people.
- 19. Be clear andunambiguous with your body language, too.
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- 21. Use breathing andpauses to your advantage.
- 22. Consider how yourgestures come across
- 23. Keep a checkon your other body signals.
- 24. 5 - Communicatingeffectively in conflict -Place yourself on even ground.
- 25. Listen to theother party.
- 26. Speak in acalm, level voice
- 27. Let them knowyou have heard their point and understand their side.
- 28. Don't try tofinish the argument at all costs.
- 29. Don't try toget the last word in.
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Editor's Notes
- #3 No matter your age, background, or experience, effective communication is a skill you can learn. The greatest leaders of all time are also fantastic communicators and orators. In fact, communications is one of the most popular college degrees today; people recognize the value of a truly efficient communicator. With a little self-confidence and knowledge of the basics, you'll be able to get your point across in no time.
- #6 Avoid starting discussions about heavy topics in wrong timing. Few people will be thrilled to be faced with sorting major issues like finances or long range scheduling when they are the most tired. Instead, deliver messages and conduct discussions about heavy topics in the mornings or afternoons when people are alert, available, and more likely to be able to respond with clarity.
- #7 If you are presenting to a group of people, be sure to check the acoustics beforehand and practice projecting your voice clearly. Use a microphone if needed to ensure that your audience can hear you.
- #8 Turn off all electronics that could interrupt the conversation. If the phone rings, laugh it off the first time, then turn it off immediately and continue talking. Do not allow external distractions to act as crutches that sidetrack your concentration. They will distract both you and your listener, and will effectively kill the communication.
- #9 Organize and clarify ideas in your mind. This should be done before you attempt to communicate any ideas. If you are feeling passionate about a topic, your ideas may become garbled if you haven't already targeted some key points to stick to when communicating. Key points will act as anchors, bringing focus and clarity to your communication.
- #10 A good rule of thumb is to choose three main points and keep your communication focused on those. That way, if the topic wanders off course, you will be able to return to one or more of these three key points without feeling flustered. Writing the points down, if appropriate, can also help.
- #11 Make it clear what you're hoping to convey from the outset. For example, your purpose could be to inform others, obtain information, or initiate action. If people know in advance what you expect from the communication, things will go more smoothly.
- #12 Once you start to convey your three main points, make sure everything you're saying adds to the message you intend to communicate and strengthens it. If you have already thought through the issues and distilled the them to the essentials, it is likely that helpful pertinent phrases will stick in your mind. Do not be afraid to use these to underline your points. Even confident, well-known speakers reuse their key lines again and again for emphasis and reinforcement. Remember to keep the overall message clear and direct.
- #13 Thank the person or group for the time taken to listen and respond. No matter what the outcome of your communication, even if the response to your talk or discussion has been other than you had hoped, end it politely by properly respecting everyone's input and time.
- #14 You want to do this before launching into your conversation or presentation. It can help sometimes to begin with a favorite anecdote. This helps the listener identify with you as someone who acts like them and has the same everyday concerns.
- #15 It is important to deliver your message clearly and unambiguously so that the message comes across in a way that every listener can understand. Your words are remembered because people instantly understand what it is that you are saying. This requires delivering your words distinctly and using simpler words rather than more complex ones.
- #16 Speak at a volume level that is guaranteed to be heard and that doesn't come across as too quiet or disengaged. Take special care to properly enunciate key points so that you avoid any kind of misunderstanding. If mumbling is a defensive habit that you have fallen into due to fear of communicating, practice your message at home in front of the mirror. It is sometimes best to discuss what you want to communicate with those you feel comfortable with. This helps solidify the message in your own mind. Be aware that any practice or refinement of your wording will help you to build confidence.
- #17 Listen Actively , Remember that communication is a two-way street and that while you are talking, you are not learning. By actively listening, you will be able to gauge how much of your message is getting through to your listener(s) and whether or not it is being received correctly or needs to be tweaked. If your audience appears to be confused, it is often helpful to ask the listener(s) to reflect back some of what you have said, but in their own words. This can help you to identify and correct mistaken views of what you have intended to communicate
- #18 A monotone is not pleasing to the ear, so good communicators use vocal color to enhance communication. Norma Michael recommends that you : - Raise the pitch and volume of your voice when you transition from one topic or point to another. - Increase your volume and slow the delivery whenever you raise a special point or are summing up. - Speak briskly, but pause to emphasize keywords when requesting action.
- #19 Sure, you don't necessarily know the people in your audience or that new friend in your group, but they're nodding along with you and looking knowingly at you all the same. This means that they are connecting with you. So reward them with your acknowledgment!
- #20 Be quick to identify unexpected behavior that suggests a cross-culture collision, such as a clenched fist, a slouched posture, or even silence.[2] If you don't know the culture intimately, ask questions about the communication challenges you might face before you start to speak with (or to) people in an unfamiliar cultural context.
- #21 - Remember to take in all of your audience. If you're addressing a boardroom, look every member of the board in the eye. Neglecting any single person can easily be taken as a sign of offense and could lose you business, admission, success, or whatever it is you endeavor to achieve. - If you're addressing an audience, pause and make eye contact with a member of audience for up to two seconds before breaking away and resuming your talk. This helps individual members of the audience feel personally valued. - Be aware that eye contact is culturally ordained. In some cultures it is considered to be unsettling, or inappropriate. Ask about this in particular or do the research in advance.
- #22 - Take a few deep breaths to steady yourself before you begin communicating . - Get into the habit of solid, regular breathing during a conversation, This will help you to keep a steady, calm voice and will also keep you more relaxed . - Use pauses to take a breather from what you are saying.
- #23 Use hand gestures carefully. Be conscious of what your hands are saying as you speak. Some hand gestures can be very effective in highlighting your points (open gestures), while others can be distracting or even offensive to some listeners, and tend to shut down the conversation or listening (closed gestures). It also helps to watch other speaker's hand gestures with an eye for how they come across to you. Emulate those you see that are effective and engaging. Notice that the most effective gestures are natural, slow, and emphatic.
- #24 Have someone record your talk, then take the time to view your speech delivery in fast forward. Any repetitive gesture or unconscious habit will stand out like a sore thumb and will be somewhat comical. Once you have targeted such a behavior, it will be easier to modify your unintended body language and monitor its reappearance.
- #25 Do not stand or hover over the other person. This creates a power struggle and pushes the conflict to another level. If they are sitting, you should sit with them.
- #26 Let them say how they feel. Wait until they are completely finished talking before beginning to speak yourself.
- #27 Don't yell or make accusations about the other party or their actions.
- #28 Take the time to make statements like, "If I understand correctly, you are saying,..."
- #29 . If the person walks out of the room, don't follow them. Allow them to do so and let them return when they are calmer and ready to talk.
- #30 Again, this could lead to a power struggle that escalates and never ends. Sometimes, you have to agree to disagree and move on.
- #31 When you're phrasing your concerns, try to start your sentences with "I..." and state clearly how their actions make you feel. This will make the other person more receptive to your complaints and more empathetic. For instance, instead of saying "You're sloppy and it drives me crazy," try "I feel that different levels of messiness might be a problem for us. Clutter is something that seems to work its way into my mind and limit what I feel I can do. Frankly, messiness seems to unsettle me more than it probably should."