Effective Communication Skills

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Objectives
• Define and understand
communication and the
communication process
• List and overcome the filters/barriers
in a communication process
• Practice active listening

• Tips to improve verbal and non verbal
communication
What are the most common ways
we communicate?
What is Communication?
Communication is the transmission of an idea or feeling so that the sender
and receiver share the same understanding.

Communication is not a mysterious process.
It takes place when the ideas from your mind are transferred to
another’s and arrive intact, complete, and coherent.
The Communication Process
Medium

Barrier
SENDER
(encodes)

Barrier

Feedback/Response

RECEIVER
(decodes)
Types of Communication
(One-way)
Types of Communication
(Two-way)
Types of Communication
(One to Many)
Verbal Communication

Non-verbal communication

Vocal communication

Components
of Communication
Features of Effective Communication
• Active Listening
• Eye contact
• Posture
• Simple language

• Questioning skills
Benefits of effective communication
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Quicker problem solving
Better decision making
Steady work flow
Strong business relations
Better professional image
Noise
Inappropriate medium
Assumptions/Misconceptions

Cultural difference

Poor listening

Use of ja

Emotions
Language differences

Distracti

Barriers to communication
Hearing Vs Listening
Hearing – Physical process,
natural, passive
Listening – Physical as well
as mental process, active,
learned process, a skill

Listening is hard.
You must choose to participate in the process of listening.
You first respond
emotionally, then
intellectually. Then you
decide how to respond.

Steps in the listening process
Your knowledge, attitudes,
values, beliefs and selfconcept influences your
perception.

Your own
needs, interests, attitudes,
and knowledge affects
your choice to pay
attention.
Not everyone hears the
same way. Men actually
prefer certain frequencies.

Hearing
The reception of
sound.

Choosing

Understanding

Responding
Your reaction to the
message. It can be
emotional and
intellectual.

Deciding what the
message means to
you.

The act of choosing
to focus attention on
the message.

Definition of listening:
It is a physical and psychological process
that involves choosing to
listen, understanding, and responding to
symbolic messages from others.
BLOCKS TO LISTENING
being right
judging
identifying

sparring
dreaming

rehearsing
mind reading
comparing
derailing

filtering
placating
• Comparing
constantly comparing yourself to the other person,
checking to see if you measure up in terms of
intelligence, wit, emotional stability, competence,
or even level of suffering or children's
achievements.
• Mind Reading
what you think someone "really means" (based
primarily on your own feelings, assumptions, or
hunches) than to what he or she is actually saying.
•Rehearsing
planning your response to what someone is saying to you while the other person is still
speaking.

•Filtering
tuning out certain topics or you may hear only certain things and tune everything else
out, any possible hint of unhappiness, no matter what he actually says.
• Judging
if you decide ahead of time that the other person is not
worth hearing (because he or she is "stupid,"
"crazy,"'"hypocritical," or " immature"), and that you will
therefore listen only in order to confirm your opinion.

• Dreaming
you pay only a fraction of your attention to the person
talking; inside, your thoughts are wandering elsewhere.
• identifying
whatever you hear from the other person triggers
memories of your own similar experiences, and you
can't wait to.jump into your own story.
• Advising
Jumping in with advice when the other person has
barely stopped talking (or before)
• Sparring
If you listen only long enough to find something to disagree
with, and then assert your position-—regardless of what the
other person says.
• Being Right
If you want to prove that you're right or to avoid the
suggestion that you're wrong— including lying, shouting,
twisting the facts, changing the subject, making excuses,
and accusing
• Derailing
changing the subject or make a joke whenever you become
bored or uncomfortable with the conversation.
• Placating
being so concerned with being nice, agreeable, or liked that
without really listening you agree with everything being
said.
Active Listening
The process of recognizing,
understanding, and
accurately interpreting
communicated messages
and responding to spoken and/or
nonverbal
messages.
Tips to become a better listener
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Don’t talk – listen.
Don’t jump to conclusions.
Listen between the lines.
Ask questions/paraphrase.
Don’t get distracted by the
environment.
Keep an open mind.
Be willing to listen to someone
else’s point of view and ideas.
Provide feedback.
Take advantage of your brain
power.
Improving Verbal Communication-Tips
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Eliminate Noise
Get Feedback – Verbal & Body Signals
Speak Slowly & Rephrase your sentence
Don’t Talk down to the other person
Listen Carefully & Patiently
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Keep appropriate distance
Touch only when appropriate
Take care of your appearance
Be aware - people may give
false cues
• Maintain eye contact
• Smile genuinely

Improving Body
Language - Tips
…in the new global and diverse workplace requires

excellent communication skills!
Thank
You

effective communication

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    Objectives • Define andunderstand communication and the communication process • List and overcome the filters/barriers in a communication process • Practice active listening • Tips to improve verbal and non verbal communication
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    What are themost common ways we communicate?
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    What is Communication? Communicationis the transmission of an idea or feeling so that the sender and receiver share the same understanding. Communication is not a mysterious process. It takes place when the ideas from your mind are transferred to another’s and arrive intact, complete, and coherent.
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    Verbal Communication Non-verbal communication Vocalcommunication Components of Communication
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    Features of EffectiveCommunication • Active Listening • Eye contact • Posture • Simple language • Questioning skills
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    Benefits of effectivecommunication • • • • • Quicker problem solving Better decision making Steady work flow Strong business relations Better professional image
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    Noise Inappropriate medium Assumptions/Misconceptions Cultural difference Poorlistening Use of ja Emotions Language differences Distracti Barriers to communication
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    Hearing Vs Listening Hearing– Physical process, natural, passive Listening – Physical as well as mental process, active, learned process, a skill Listening is hard. You must choose to participate in the process of listening.
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    You first respond emotionally,then intellectually. Then you decide how to respond. Steps in the listening process Your knowledge, attitudes, values, beliefs and selfconcept influences your perception. Your own needs, interests, attitudes, and knowledge affects your choice to pay attention. Not everyone hears the same way. Men actually prefer certain frequencies. Hearing The reception of sound. Choosing Understanding Responding Your reaction to the message. It can be emotional and intellectual. Deciding what the message means to you. The act of choosing to focus attention on the message. Definition of listening: It is a physical and psychological process that involves choosing to listen, understanding, and responding to symbolic messages from others.
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    BLOCKS TO LISTENING beingright judging identifying sparring dreaming rehearsing mind reading comparing derailing filtering placating
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    • Comparing constantly comparingyourself to the other person, checking to see if you measure up in terms of intelligence, wit, emotional stability, competence, or even level of suffering or children's achievements. • Mind Reading what you think someone "really means" (based primarily on your own feelings, assumptions, or hunches) than to what he or she is actually saying. •Rehearsing planning your response to what someone is saying to you while the other person is still speaking. •Filtering tuning out certain topics or you may hear only certain things and tune everything else out, any possible hint of unhappiness, no matter what he actually says.
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    • Judging if youdecide ahead of time that the other person is not worth hearing (because he or she is "stupid," "crazy,"'"hypocritical," or " immature"), and that you will therefore listen only in order to confirm your opinion. • Dreaming you pay only a fraction of your attention to the person talking; inside, your thoughts are wandering elsewhere. • identifying whatever you hear from the other person triggers memories of your own similar experiences, and you can't wait to.jump into your own story. • Advising Jumping in with advice when the other person has barely stopped talking (or before)
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    • Sparring If youlisten only long enough to find something to disagree with, and then assert your position-—regardless of what the other person says. • Being Right If you want to prove that you're right or to avoid the suggestion that you're wrong— including lying, shouting, twisting the facts, changing the subject, making excuses, and accusing • Derailing changing the subject or make a joke whenever you become bored or uncomfortable with the conversation. • Placating being so concerned with being nice, agreeable, or liked that without really listening you agree with everything being said.
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    Active Listening The processof recognizing, understanding, and accurately interpreting communicated messages and responding to spoken and/or nonverbal messages.
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    Tips to becomea better listener • • • • • • • • • Don’t talk – listen. Don’t jump to conclusions. Listen between the lines. Ask questions/paraphrase. Don’t get distracted by the environment. Keep an open mind. Be willing to listen to someone else’s point of view and ideas. Provide feedback. Take advantage of your brain power.
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    Improving Verbal Communication-Tips o o o o o EliminateNoise Get Feedback – Verbal & Body Signals Speak Slowly & Rephrase your sentence Don’t Talk down to the other person Listen Carefully & Patiently
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    • • • • Keep appropriate distance Touchonly when appropriate Take care of your appearance Be aware - people may give false cues • Maintain eye contact • Smile genuinely Improving Body Language - Tips
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    …in the newglobal and diverse workplace requires excellent communication skills!
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