Here are the steps I would take using a scientific decision-making model to help you make this important decision:
1. Set clear objectives - Our objectives are to decide whether I should accept the charge nurse position while also considering our family goals and responsibilities.
2. Gather relevant data - Consider details of the position, my career goals, husband's career demands, childcare options/costs, potential for future promotions if I accept, etc.
3. Identify alternatives - Accept position full-time, accept but negotiate part-time, decline position to focus on family, pursue other career options.
4. Evaluate alternatives - Use a decision matrix to rate each alternative based on objectives. Consider pros/cons of each for