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PERSONALITY DEVELOPMENT
LAB
PRESENTED BYSAGAR GHULE
SWAPNIL KAMBLE
1
2008

Assertiveness, Art of Winning
Assertiveness as a Basic Skill

Ultimate excellence lies not in winning every
battle,
but in defeating the enemy without ever
fighting.
Art of War

3
Facing difficult situation,
human beings have more
responses:
FLIGHT Sub-assertive behavior
FIGHT Aggressive behavior
Assertive Assertive behavior

4
Assertive behavior :
Aggressive and sub-assertive behavior are
natural,
but assertive behavior is not automatic natural
behavior.
It is a learnt skill.

5
Three types of most common behaviors

Sub-assertive
 Take

care of others’
interest, without respect for
self
 Be good (polite and
helpful) for others, doing
others a favor
 Avoid conflict, make a
“nice” world
 Do extra work
 Do not speak up what is
inside
……

Assertive
 Take care of self
interest with
respect for others
 Speak up what is
inside you.
Willingness to
have dialogue
……

Aggressive
 Take care of self
interest without
respect for others
 Manipulating
people
 Dominant,
ignorance, arrogant
……

6
“Think for yourself and
question authority.”

7
Assertive behavior is:
 Choosing your behavior, not merely acting
automatically on your feelings;
 Balancing between your own interest and the
other’s interest.
 Effective, problem solving

8
Organization effects of Assertive behavior:
 Contribute to the wellbeing of organization
 Make corporate culture richer
 Save time, improve effectiveness and profit
 Make clear organizational communication
 More inventive and open to new procedures
 Can judge easier because of open mind

9
Personal Results of Assertive Behavior:


you feel good about yourself



other people know how to deal with you



reduce a major source of stress



feel free to express your feelings, thoughts
and desires



know your rights



have a good understanding of the feelings of
the other person with whom you are
communicating



have control over you anger
10
What is assertiveness?

11
ASSERTIVENESS
Assertiveness is the competency to choose
effective behavior according to one’s own
situation; during the process, one must sustain
his/her own interest and same time respecting
other’s interest, in order to reach a win-win
situation.
Assertiveness is a way of life, and a way of
doing business, based on mutual respect and
benefit.
It is all about winning without war.

12
Assertiveness has three phases:
 Speaking up
 Opening up
 Standing firm

13
Behavior Expert
 Has great skill in raising and lowering
status
 Can cope easily with any situation by
changing status
 Can choose behavior assertively
Status is not what you are;
It is something that you do.
14
THANK YOU
15

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asertivness behaviour

  • 3. Assertiveness as a Basic Skill Ultimate excellence lies not in winning every battle, but in defeating the enemy without ever fighting. Art of War 3
  • 4. Facing difficult situation, human beings have more responses: FLIGHT Sub-assertive behavior FIGHT Aggressive behavior Assertive Assertive behavior 4
  • 5. Assertive behavior : Aggressive and sub-assertive behavior are natural, but assertive behavior is not automatic natural behavior. It is a learnt skill. 5
  • 6. Three types of most common behaviors Sub-assertive  Take care of others’ interest, without respect for self  Be good (polite and helpful) for others, doing others a favor  Avoid conflict, make a “nice” world  Do extra work  Do not speak up what is inside …… Assertive  Take care of self interest with respect for others  Speak up what is inside you. Willingness to have dialogue …… Aggressive  Take care of self interest without respect for others  Manipulating people  Dominant, ignorance, arrogant …… 6
  • 7. “Think for yourself and question authority.” 7
  • 8. Assertive behavior is:  Choosing your behavior, not merely acting automatically on your feelings;  Balancing between your own interest and the other’s interest.  Effective, problem solving 8
  • 9. Organization effects of Assertive behavior:  Contribute to the wellbeing of organization  Make corporate culture richer  Save time, improve effectiveness and profit  Make clear organizational communication  More inventive and open to new procedures  Can judge easier because of open mind 9
  • 10. Personal Results of Assertive Behavior:  you feel good about yourself  other people know how to deal with you  reduce a major source of stress  feel free to express your feelings, thoughts and desires  know your rights  have a good understanding of the feelings of the other person with whom you are communicating  have control over you anger 10
  • 12. ASSERTIVENESS Assertiveness is the competency to choose effective behavior according to one’s own situation; during the process, one must sustain his/her own interest and same time respecting other’s interest, in order to reach a win-win situation. Assertiveness is a way of life, and a way of doing business, based on mutual respect and benefit. It is all about winning without war. 12
  • 13. Assertiveness has three phases:  Speaking up  Opening up  Standing firm 13
  • 14. Behavior Expert  Has great skill in raising and lowering status  Can cope easily with any situation by changing status  Can choose behavior assertively Status is not what you are; It is something that you do. 14

Editor's Notes

  1. Break. Question: practice on low and high status.