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2. Objectives
PWC Influencing model
An effective Leader | Team, task and individual model
Understanding your team | Belbin
Ladder of perception
Typical team behaviours
Body language and verbal style
Active Listening, feedback and GROW coaching model
Reactions to change and how to support others
Contents
3. Active listening
Repeat Exactly
Paraphrasing Similar
Reflecting Own words
Ratio
Open questions, closed questions, signal encouragement, observe non-verbal behaviour,
suspend judgement, summarise and clarify
4. Reasons for giving feedback and the right focus
To help the other person build:
Competence
Self-confidence
Behavior
s
Our focus:
Behaviour
Actions that we can see, hear, and describe
Judgement
Our interpretation of the behaviour, or what we think we know based on the behaviours or traits we see
5. Rules for giving feedback
Do observe behaviours
‘I noticed you arrived ten
minutes after the meeting
started.’
‘You said you would complete
the project by Friday. In fact it
took an extra four days.’
‘The last five assignments
have been allocated to the
same two people. I would
really appreciate an
opportunity soon.’
Behaviours
Attitudes &
assumptions
Beliefs
and
Values
Avoid judgements
about values
‘You don’t care about being
on time.’
You can’t be trusted…’
‘I guess I’m not one of your
favourites…’
Avoid judgements about
attitudes
‘You were angry when you
came in the room.’
Unobservable
Can only be inferred from
behaviour
Unobservable
Can only be inferred from
behaviour
Observable
Can be seen
6. Separate feelings from the issue
6
I feel like saying… I should say…
I’m sick and tired of working 70 hours a week while
you guys are playing golf every other day.
I could use more support from my co-workers as I
am unable to keep up with this challenging
workload.
I should have been put on that project. That person
is completely incompetent.
I feel like I could contribute to that project in a
meaningful way and would welcome the opportunity
to do so.
You are not doing your work for this project on
purpose because you dislike me.
I need this project to get finished and your
participation is crucial. Can I count on you?
You think that this project is impossible and that it
can’t succeed. You just want me to fail.
I recognise that I am taking some risks with this
new project, which is necessary if we want to try
something new. I am hoping you can support me
with this initiative.
You need to start working harder, you are lazy and
I am going to have fire you if you don’t start producing.
I have noticed your production is not meeting
expectations. I need you to improve, your
performance is affecting our overall team goal.
7. Make your message clear
7
Not clear Clear
You didn’t present that topic well I would have found more details to be helpful
You need to improve your communication skills Spend a little more time listening and paraphrasing
the client’s needs
You have a poor attitude Try showing a little more enthusiasm towards this
project
Your work is not professional I think if your work was proofread and reviewed
more carefully before being presented to your
clients, it would be more effective
You’re not being strategic, and you’re missing the
mark
I think this project requires a more long-term
approach. It would be better if your plan included a
forecast of the project over time
Are you crazy? That’s a half-baked idea if I’ve ever
heard one
I think that this idea requires a little more thought.
Have you considered how this would work at our
company?
8. Signs of avoidance
8
Procrastinating without a clear rationale
“Can’t do it today, it’s Friday!”
Ignoring or delaying important conversations
“We’ll discuss your performance at your review time”
Sidestepping or delegating tough decisions
“Maybe one of their co-workers will tell them”
Allowing short-term reactions to overrule long-term thinking
“They did come in on time today, so maybe…”
Putting harmony before integrity
“I don’t want to upset the team’s dynamics”
Blaming others (avoiding looking at self)
“I can’t believe they could not be aware they are doing a bad job”
Talking about symptoms instead of understanding the wider problem
“Do you see this typo? And this one? And this one?”
9. Questions to consider
9
Who am I helping?
How will I be helping them?
Will telling them this make them better in the long run?
Why am I delaying telling them this?
Will delaying telling them about this problem make it go away?
If I was in their position, would I prefer to know how I was doing or not?
How will they react?
Am I presuming I know what their reaction will be?
Is it possible that they will appreciate me telling them?
Is this something that I want to help them with?
Will they accept advice from me?
How will telling them make me feel?
10. Effective Messages
10
Direct & Insensitive Indirect & Insensitive Direct & Sensitive
You’re passing the buck, and you have to
change.
Is there any chance there’s
something here you’re not seeing?
It’s part of my job to point out
problems in order to help the team
and ensure we’re as effective as
possible. Those problems include
making sure every team member is
doing their job. I want to help you
figure out how to do that more
effectively.
People don’t like you, you have to get
better at working with others or else…
Have you thought at all about how
you interact with?
Working with other departments is
key to our success. I received
feedback that others are having
difficulties working with you and we
need to explore how to change that.
12. ‘You’ versus ‘I’ statements
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‘You’ language (ineffective) ‘I’ language (effective)
You are constantly asking for exceptions when it comes to
proper documentation.
I see the documentation procedures being sidestepped,
and I want to explore with you how to make it better. I
would like to begin meeting with you once a week to look at
specific tension spots and brainstorm solutions.
You are continually late and you show up unprepared for
your meetings.
I have noticed that your meetings aren’t as effective as the
rest of the team’s, and I want to discuss how we can
improve them. What do you think is important for an
effective meeting?
You aren’t collaborating with this rest of the team and
you’ve managed to make them all dislike you.
I received feedback that team projects aren’t getting much
everyone’s full attention and I would like to change that so
that every team member is helping out with them. Let’s talk
about how we should be contributing to these projects.
13. 13
Step 1
Step 2
Step 3
Gain Clarity
Overrule Avoidance
Execute the message
Feedback 3-step process
14. Grow Coaching Model
GROW Model
Agree on topic to be discussed
Agree on specific objective of session
Set long-term aim if appropriate
Commit to action
Identify possible obstacles
Make steps specific and define timing
Agree support
Cover all options
Invite suggestions from coachee
Offer suggestions carefully
Invite to make choices
Invite self-assessment
Offer specific feedback
Avoid or check assumptions
Discard irrelevant history
Goal
Will
Reality
Options