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Influencing
Without
Authority
Lisa Depew &
Heather Monigan
SWE National Conference
Lightening Session
Oct. 24, 2013
We listen to people who…
• Demonstrate Confidence
• Command Respect
• Have Vision
Confidence – Belief in Ability to Deliver
What this looks like
• Believe that you are right person
to get the job done
• Note: Communicated
consciously and subconsciously
• Position your authority
• I am tasked with…and we’re all
going to work together to
deliver….
Putting into practice
• Articulate your message & why
you are the best person for the job
• Practice out loud
• Improve communication skills
(writing, speaking)
• Introduce yourself to stakeholders
People treat you the way you condition them to treat you
Respect – Ethical, Compassionate, Human
What this looks like
• Honest conversations
• Sincere commitment to task
• Seeking best for people, team,
and company
Putting into practice
• Do what you say you are going to
do
• Connect with people personally
• 1:1s & History
• Ask for
help/insight/recommendations
“People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but
people will never forget how you made them feel.” ― Maya Angelou.
Vision – Knowing Where Team/Project Is Going
What this looks like
• Clearly and crisply communicate what needs
to be done overall and by each individual.
• Define and articulate SMART* Goals
• Specific
• Measurable
• Attainable
• Relevant
• Time-bounded
Putting into practice
• Document your vision
• Revisit the Vision/Goal at the
beginning of each meeting
• Enlist others & track progress
• Secure buy-in and commitment to
meetings
• Clarify, document, and track goals
*Citing: The first known use of the term occurs in the November 1981 issue of Management Review by George T. Doran.
[1] http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/SMART_criteria
Inspire…then define and monitor progress to goals
Additional Thoughts
• Understand Organization’s Priorities
• Know your People
• Reward Effort and Success
Influence – Putting it Together
• Confidence
• Respect
• Vision
Influencing Without Authority

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Influencing Without Authority

  • 1. Influencing Without Authority Lisa Depew & Heather Monigan SWE National Conference Lightening Session Oct. 24, 2013
  • 2. We listen to people who… • Demonstrate Confidence • Command Respect • Have Vision
  • 3. Confidence – Belief in Ability to Deliver What this looks like • Believe that you are right person to get the job done • Note: Communicated consciously and subconsciously • Position your authority • I am tasked with…and we’re all going to work together to deliver…. Putting into practice • Articulate your message & why you are the best person for the job • Practice out loud • Improve communication skills (writing, speaking) • Introduce yourself to stakeholders People treat you the way you condition them to treat you
  • 4. Respect – Ethical, Compassionate, Human What this looks like • Honest conversations • Sincere commitment to task • Seeking best for people, team, and company Putting into practice • Do what you say you are going to do • Connect with people personally • 1:1s & History • Ask for help/insight/recommendations “People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” ― Maya Angelou.
  • 5. Vision – Knowing Where Team/Project Is Going What this looks like • Clearly and crisply communicate what needs to be done overall and by each individual. • Define and articulate SMART* Goals • Specific • Measurable • Attainable • Relevant • Time-bounded Putting into practice • Document your vision • Revisit the Vision/Goal at the beginning of each meeting • Enlist others & track progress • Secure buy-in and commitment to meetings • Clarify, document, and track goals *Citing: The first known use of the term occurs in the November 1981 issue of Management Review by George T. Doran. [1] http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/SMART_criteria Inspire…then define and monitor progress to goals
  • 6. Additional Thoughts • Understand Organization’s Priorities • Know your People • Reward Effort and Success
  • 7. Influence – Putting it Together • Confidence • Respect • Vision

Editor's Notes

  1. Confidence – Belief in Ability to Deliver Respect – Ethical, compassionate, have a history, & care Vision – Know where they’re going and have SMART goals to get there