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Damned if you do and damned if you don’t
Transactional Analysis
Prepared By
Manu Melwin Joy
Assistant Professor
Ilahia School of Management Studies
Kerala, India.
Phone – 9744551114
Mail – manu_melwinjoy@yahoo.com
Kindly restrict the use of slides for personal purpose.
Please seek permission to reproduce the same in public forms and presentations.
Dilemma Type Corner
• An everyday form of
corner which is played
by the whole family and
which is most likely to
affect the character
development of
younger child occurs
with meddlesome
parental parents.
Dilemma Type Corner
• The little boy or girl is
urged to be more
helpful around the
house, but when he is,
the parents find fault
with what he does – a
homely example of
“damned if you do
and damned if you
don’t.”
Dilemma Type Corner
• This double bind may
be called the Dilemma
type of Corner.
References
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Damned if you do and damned if you don’t - Transactional Analysis

  • 1. Damned if you do and damned if you don’t Transactional Analysis
  • 2. Prepared By Manu Melwin Joy Assistant Professor Ilahia School of Management Studies Kerala, India. Phone – 9744551114 Mail – manu_melwinjoy@yahoo.com Kindly restrict the use of slides for personal purpose. Please seek permission to reproduce the same in public forms and presentations.
  • 3. Dilemma Type Corner • An everyday form of corner which is played by the whole family and which is most likely to affect the character development of younger child occurs with meddlesome parental parents.
  • 4. Dilemma Type Corner • The little boy or girl is urged to be more helpful around the house, but when he is, the parents find fault with what he does – a homely example of “damned if you do and damned if you don’t.”
  • 5. Dilemma Type Corner • This double bind may be called the Dilemma type of Corner.