This document provides guidance for educators on how to de-escalate confrontations with combative parents without compromising their integrity. It advises restating the reason for meetings as the student's academic success, and stopping meetings if verbal abuse occurs, as abuse prevents productive discussions. Educators are told to maintain their role of helping students learn and avoid being used as a "social punching bag." The document contrasts the "martyr teacher" who tolerates abuse with professionals who prioritize student and parent needs while refusing abuse.