Chapter 8: Conflict Resolution



     By: Lauren Ramos
         Mariano Vidal
         Carolina Calimano
Introduction:

Today my classmates and I will be talking
 about chapter 8: Conflict
 Resolution.Conflicts are part of everyday
 lifes.Some conflicts are settled easily and
 other indefinetly.The conflict resolution
 process is a proven method for sucessfully
 resolving conflicts.This chapter also is
 gonna teach that people who are tolerant
 and can control their anger are better able
 to resolve conflicts peacefully.We hope
 that this presentation teaches you how to
 solve your problems.
Vocabulary Words:

    Conflict-is a disagreement, dispute or fight
    between people with opposing point of view.

    Escalate-to grow a conflict into disagreements
    that are destructive on unsafe to everyone.

    Conflict Resolution-the process of setting a
    conflict by cooperation & problem solving.

    Compromise-when people settle a conflict by
    each agreeing to give up something she or he
    wants.

    Tolerance-means acepting & respeting others
    people customs & beliefs.

    Negotiation-is a process of discussing
    problems face to face to reach a solution.

    Mediation-a neutral third party is used to help
    reach a solution thats agreeable to everyone.

    Peer Mediator-is a a young person who listens
    to both parties in conflict & helps the find a
    solution.
Part 1:Understanding a conflict

Part 1:Understanding a conflict

People are different, with different thoughts and
emotions.Sometimes this differences can create
conflicts.A conflict is a disagreement,dispute or
fight between people with opposing points of view.It
can involve individuals or groups such as friends,
family members, community organizations or even
nations.Some conflicts are easily resolved but other
times they become continuous struggles or even
turn into fights.
Part 2: Types of Conflict

    External Conflicts         
                                   Internal Conflicts
Whenever one person's wants,   Are those that are inside your
 need or values clash with       head or your heart. Like for
 those of another person.        example: Joseph had seen
 This type of conflict           her friend cheating on a test
 happens between family          & he didn't know wether to
 members, friends &              keep quiet or to tell his
 community members.              teacher he decided to talk to
                                 her & help her study.
Part 2: Types of Conflict

    External Conflicts         
                                   Internal Conflicts
Whenever one person's wants,   Are those that are inside your
 need or values clash with       head or your heart. Like for
 those of another person.        example: Joseph had seen
 This type of conflict           her friend cheating on a test
 happens between family          & he didn't know wether to
 members, friends &              keep quiet or to tell his
 community members.              teacher he decided to talk to
                                 her & help her study.
Part 3 :Causes of conflicts
    Have you ever argued with someone and later couldn't
             remember what caused the fight?

    Instant Flare-up           
                                   Personality differences
                               Differences help make like fun &
Sudden disputes or                exciting but they can also create
  arguments that can              conflict like for example: maybe
  happen anytime people           you like being around large
  interact, wether they           group of people but your friend
                                  feel uncomfortable around them.
  live, work or play              As a result, conflict might result
  together. Fortunately,          when deciding what to do when
  this type of conflict is        your together.
  instant & doesn't last
                               
                                   Power Issue
  long. Most people deal       Happens when several types of
  with a quarrel & go on         people try to control a situation
                                 Many arguments with teens &
  with their relationship.       families involve power issues.
                                 For example: sometimes a
                                 teen choice of friends leads to
                                 a power struggle with a parent.
Part 4:Responding to conflict
When a conflict develops you can either face it or ignore it.Before
        deciding what you should consider this points:
 
     Think Safety-your personal well being & safety should be
     your first concern.
 
     Weigh your options-when the other person is someone you
     don't know really well you should try to ignore it but when the
     conflict is with someone you care about try to communicate
     your feelings in a calm & reasonable way.
 
     Leave the conflict behind-avoid the physical violence by
     simply walking away. Leaving a potentially dangerous
     situation is a positive choice not a sign of cowardice.
 In some cases people let conflicts escalate or grow into
    disagreements that are destructive or unsafe to everyone.
    Some teens think that becoming involves in a conflict, may
    prove they're tough & fearless.
Part 5: Resolving Conflict

Wether a conflict seems unavoidable
or test your pride you can resolve it
peacefully. Conflict resolution is the
process of settling a conflict by
cooperation & problem solving is a
proven approach.
Part 6: Conflict Resolution
            Process
           Steps to solve problems:
1)Define the problem
2)Suggest a solution
3)Evaluate a solution
4)Compromise
5)Brainstorm
6)Seek Help
Part 7: Respect & Tolerance
When giving respect you can avoid a conflict. Why?
 Because showing respect mean you value another
 person as an individual. Tolerance is also a good
thing to avoid conflict, because if you accept people
     for who they're with tolerance it helps you
  understand that difference people have a right to
 behave & express themselves as they like as long
              as they don't hurt others.
Part 8: Anger Management
Everyone feels angry at times.
When they do ,they tend to feel
annoy. Other times, they may as
well yell, argue , use a harsh tone of
voice, walk away, fight, etc. When
anger isn't control conflict can
become worst. When you're like that
you won't be able to think clearly.
The ancient martial art of Jujitsu
teaches to control anger . This type
of self control isn't just a martial art.
Because with this martial art you
can develop techniques to control
your anger & resolve conflicts in
positive ways.
Type of angers:
Hot anger-occurs suddenly         Pent Up-It builds over time & if
  when a conflict flames up       not released in a healthy way
  between two persons.            pent up anger can explode To
                                  control:
To control hot anger you should
   consider:                       Exercise-walk, jog, swim or
                                  shoot some baskets.
  Tell yourself I choose to be
  focused I choose to be           Talk out your feeling
  relaxed
                                   Listen to soothing music
  Think of your anger as
  energy & uses it solves          Find a private place where you
  things positively               can cry and yell if you need to

  Breath & exhale                  Sit quietly for a while
Part 9: Negotiation

          Negotiation is a process of
      discussing problems to reach a
      agreement. Negotiation involves
      talking,    listening,    considering
      others persons point of view &
      compromising, like for example:
      Lisa was saving money for a new
      cellphone but her parents wanted
      her to put her earnings in the bank
      to buy a new car . Instead of
      fighting Lisa decided to negotiate
      with her parents, now she will find a
      solution that satisfy her parents and
      herself.
Part 10:How to deal with bullies
  Bullies are not open to conflict resolution because their conflict
                   is really within themselves.
        Meanwhile this are some tips to deal with them:

Show Confidence-Bullies choose easy targets
but if you show that you not likely to be
bothered they look elsewhere
Stand & Up for yourself-Tell the bully to leave
the behavior then leave calmly.
Ignore Verbal Abuse-Show no reaction on to
insults or cruel jokes aimed to you.
Stand Up for Others-Come forward to defend
someone who is being abused. Bullies often
back down when faces with real power.
Talk to an Adult-Tell a parent or teacher or
other trusted adult if you are bothered by a bully
Put Safety before Posession-If a bully
demands anything you own, your physical well
being is more important thatn any material item.
Keep the following guidelines in mind when
       negotiating to resolve a problem

Select an appropiate time & place to work
out your problem
Keep an open mind
Be flexible
Accept responsibility for your role in the
conflict
Don't give up
Find help
Part 11: Mediation

 Sometimes people can resolve a conflict
on their own using either negotiation or
conflict resolution, so they use mediation.
Mediation consist of a neutral third person
that an study the problem & give you
suggestions for solution. Some schools
have      instituted    peers    mediation
programs. A peer mediation is a young
person who helps students with their
problems.
Part 12: Working Through
           Conflicts
     Although some conflicts are never
resolved, both sides can learn to accept &
respect each other differences. Jacob and
his parents may never agree on which
music is best, but they agree to respect
each other choices. Fortunately, most
conflict can be resolves when people are
willing to cooperate & work toward positive
solution.
Objectives
1. Identify causes of conflict:
           Instant Flare-Up
           Personality Differences
           Power Issues


2. Demonstrate ways to response to conflict:
   Think safety
   Weigh your opinion
   Leave the conflict behind
Objectives:
3)List the steps in conflicts resolution process:
-Define the problem
-Suggest solution
-Evaluate a solution
-Compromise
-Seek help
4)Explain how tolerance ad respect can contribute to
  conflict resolution:
-Because when you show respect you avoid having a
  conflict because you're showing to that person that
  you value him/her as an individual.And you can also
  you can avoid problems if you have tolerance,and
  accept the person as they are they will accept you
  too.
Conclusion:

Our conclusion is that we shoud
 avoid having conflict.And know
 that we know what steps to do
 to solve a problem it can be
 easier to us to solve them.Also
 that respect and tolerance are
 some of the bases to avoid
 them.
Conflict Resolution

Conflict Resolution

  • 1.
    Chapter 8: ConflictResolution By: Lauren Ramos Mariano Vidal Carolina Calimano
  • 2.
    Introduction: Today my classmatesand I will be talking about chapter 8: Conflict Resolution.Conflicts are part of everyday lifes.Some conflicts are settled easily and other indefinetly.The conflict resolution process is a proven method for sucessfully resolving conflicts.This chapter also is gonna teach that people who are tolerant and can control their anger are better able to resolve conflicts peacefully.We hope that this presentation teaches you how to solve your problems.
  • 3.
    Vocabulary Words:  Conflict-is a disagreement, dispute or fight between people with opposing point of view.  Escalate-to grow a conflict into disagreements that are destructive on unsafe to everyone.  Conflict Resolution-the process of setting a conflict by cooperation & problem solving.  Compromise-when people settle a conflict by each agreeing to give up something she or he wants.  Tolerance-means acepting & respeting others people customs & beliefs.  Negotiation-is a process of discussing problems face to face to reach a solution.  Mediation-a neutral third party is used to help reach a solution thats agreeable to everyone.  Peer Mediator-is a a young person who listens to both parties in conflict & helps the find a solution.
  • 4.
    Part 1:Understanding aconflict Part 1:Understanding a conflict People are different, with different thoughts and emotions.Sometimes this differences can create conflicts.A conflict is a disagreement,dispute or fight between people with opposing points of view.It can involve individuals or groups such as friends, family members, community organizations or even nations.Some conflicts are easily resolved but other times they become continuous struggles or even turn into fights.
  • 5.
    Part 2: Typesof Conflict  External Conflicts  Internal Conflicts Whenever one person's wants, Are those that are inside your need or values clash with head or your heart. Like for those of another person. example: Joseph had seen This type of conflict her friend cheating on a test happens between family & he didn't know wether to members, friends & keep quiet or to tell his community members. teacher he decided to talk to her & help her study.
  • 6.
    Part 2: Typesof Conflict  External Conflicts  Internal Conflicts Whenever one person's wants, Are those that are inside your need or values clash with head or your heart. Like for those of another person. example: Joseph had seen This type of conflict her friend cheating on a test happens between family & he didn't know wether to members, friends & keep quiet or to tell his community members. teacher he decided to talk to her & help her study.
  • 7.
    Part 3 :Causesof conflicts Have you ever argued with someone and later couldn't remember what caused the fight?  Instant Flare-up  Personality differences Differences help make like fun & Sudden disputes or exciting but they can also create arguments that can conflict like for example: maybe happen anytime people you like being around large interact, wether they group of people but your friend feel uncomfortable around them. live, work or play As a result, conflict might result together. Fortunately, when deciding what to do when this type of conflict is your together. instant & doesn't last  Power Issue long. Most people deal Happens when several types of with a quarrel & go on people try to control a situation Many arguments with teens & with their relationship. families involve power issues. For example: sometimes a teen choice of friends leads to a power struggle with a parent.
  • 8.
    Part 4:Responding toconflict When a conflict develops you can either face it or ignore it.Before deciding what you should consider this points:  Think Safety-your personal well being & safety should be your first concern.  Weigh your options-when the other person is someone you don't know really well you should try to ignore it but when the conflict is with someone you care about try to communicate your feelings in a calm & reasonable way.  Leave the conflict behind-avoid the physical violence by simply walking away. Leaving a potentially dangerous situation is a positive choice not a sign of cowardice. In some cases people let conflicts escalate or grow into disagreements that are destructive or unsafe to everyone. Some teens think that becoming involves in a conflict, may prove they're tough & fearless.
  • 9.
    Part 5: ResolvingConflict Wether a conflict seems unavoidable or test your pride you can resolve it peacefully. Conflict resolution is the process of settling a conflict by cooperation & problem solving is a proven approach.
  • 10.
    Part 6: ConflictResolution Process Steps to solve problems: 1)Define the problem 2)Suggest a solution 3)Evaluate a solution 4)Compromise 5)Brainstorm 6)Seek Help
  • 11.
    Part 7: Respect& Tolerance When giving respect you can avoid a conflict. Why? Because showing respect mean you value another person as an individual. Tolerance is also a good thing to avoid conflict, because if you accept people for who they're with tolerance it helps you understand that difference people have a right to behave & express themselves as they like as long as they don't hurt others.
  • 12.
    Part 8: AngerManagement Everyone feels angry at times. When they do ,they tend to feel annoy. Other times, they may as well yell, argue , use a harsh tone of voice, walk away, fight, etc. When anger isn't control conflict can become worst. When you're like that you won't be able to think clearly. The ancient martial art of Jujitsu teaches to control anger . This type of self control isn't just a martial art. Because with this martial art you can develop techniques to control your anger & resolve conflicts in positive ways.
  • 13.
    Type of angers: Hotanger-occurs suddenly Pent Up-It builds over time & if when a conflict flames up not released in a healthy way between two persons. pent up anger can explode To control: To control hot anger you should consider: Exercise-walk, jog, swim or shoot some baskets. Tell yourself I choose to be focused I choose to be Talk out your feeling relaxed Listen to soothing music Think of your anger as energy & uses it solves Find a private place where you things positively can cry and yell if you need to Breath & exhale Sit quietly for a while
  • 14.
    Part 9: Negotiation Negotiation is a process of discussing problems to reach a agreement. Negotiation involves talking, listening, considering others persons point of view & compromising, like for example: Lisa was saving money for a new cellphone but her parents wanted her to put her earnings in the bank to buy a new car . Instead of fighting Lisa decided to negotiate with her parents, now she will find a solution that satisfy her parents and herself.
  • 15.
    Part 10:How todeal with bullies Bullies are not open to conflict resolution because their conflict is really within themselves. Meanwhile this are some tips to deal with them: Show Confidence-Bullies choose easy targets but if you show that you not likely to be bothered they look elsewhere Stand & Up for yourself-Tell the bully to leave the behavior then leave calmly. Ignore Verbal Abuse-Show no reaction on to insults or cruel jokes aimed to you. Stand Up for Others-Come forward to defend someone who is being abused. Bullies often back down when faces with real power. Talk to an Adult-Tell a parent or teacher or other trusted adult if you are bothered by a bully Put Safety before Posession-If a bully demands anything you own, your physical well being is more important thatn any material item.
  • 16.
    Keep the followingguidelines in mind when negotiating to resolve a problem Select an appropiate time & place to work out your problem Keep an open mind Be flexible Accept responsibility for your role in the conflict Don't give up Find help
  • 17.
    Part 11: Mediation Sometimes people can resolve a conflict on their own using either negotiation or conflict resolution, so they use mediation. Mediation consist of a neutral third person that an study the problem & give you suggestions for solution. Some schools have instituted peers mediation programs. A peer mediation is a young person who helps students with their problems.
  • 18.
    Part 12: WorkingThrough Conflicts Although some conflicts are never resolved, both sides can learn to accept & respect each other differences. Jacob and his parents may never agree on which music is best, but they agree to respect each other choices. Fortunately, most conflict can be resolves when people are willing to cooperate & work toward positive solution.
  • 19.
    Objectives 1. Identify causesof conflict: Instant Flare-Up Personality Differences Power Issues 2. Demonstrate ways to response to conflict: Think safety Weigh your opinion Leave the conflict behind
  • 20.
    Objectives: 3)List the stepsin conflicts resolution process: -Define the problem -Suggest solution -Evaluate a solution -Compromise -Seek help 4)Explain how tolerance ad respect can contribute to conflict resolution: -Because when you show respect you avoid having a conflict because you're showing to that person that you value him/her as an individual.And you can also you can avoid problems if you have tolerance,and accept the person as they are they will accept you too.
  • 21.
    Conclusion: Our conclusion isthat we shoud avoid having conflict.And know that we know what steps to do to solve a problem it can be easier to us to solve them.Also that respect and tolerance are some of the bases to avoid them.