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Interpersonal Conflict
• It is impossible to eliminate conflict
• It is possible to manage it
• Essential for healthier and stronger
relationships
The Nature of Conflict
 What is Conflict?
An expressed struggle between at least two
interdependent parties who perceive incompatible
goals, scarce rewards, and interference from other
parties in achieving their goals
The Nature of Conflict
 Expressed struggle
 Perceived incompatible goals
 Perceived scarce rewards
 Interdependence
Styles of Expressing Conflict
Different ways of handling conflict
Nonassertion
Direct Aggression
Passive Aggression
Indirect Communication
Assertion
NONASSERTION
 When you can’t express your thoughts/feelings
 When you don’t want to express your
thoughts/feelings
 REASONS
 Lack of confidence
 Lack of awareness
 By choice
NONASSERTION
 Forms of nonassertion:
i. Avoidance (physical/conversational)
ii. Accommodation
 Sometimes avoidance and accommodation are
sensible.
 Clear drawbacks too
DIRECT AGGRESSION
PASSIVE AGGRESSION
Expressing anger in an indirect way
Also called ‘crazymaking’
 Pseudoaccomodators
 Guiltmakers
 Jokers
 Trivial tyrannizers
 Withholders
 Conveying message in an indirect way
 Better than nonassertion
 Kinder than aggression
 Protects us from problems
 Saves face for the listeners
Risks of misunderstanding/no understanding
ASSERTION
Most skillful approach towards conflicts
Assertion
 Ability to state your needs and feelings
CLEARLY without using aggression
 Maintains self-respect of both parties
 Doesn’t always succeed because of other
party’s different style
Every conflict is a struggle to have one’s
goals met
Win-Lose Lose-Lose
Compromise Win-Win
Methods of Conflict Resolution
 Power is the main force is such situations
 Physical power
 Authority
Sometimes win-lose is necessary
 When resources are little
 When other party insists on defeating you/self
defense
 When other party is behaving in a CLEARLY
wrong way
 Neither side is satisfied
 Common way of resolving conflicts
 Ego comes in
 Both parties get SOME of what they wanted
 Both sacrifice part of their goals
 Not always an ideal option
 A solution that satisfies the needs of
everyone
 Working together is important here
 Some compromises are a type of win-win
 But ideally both parties should get what they
want (to call it a win-win)
Steps in Win-Win Method
Identify your
needs/problems
Make a date
Describe your
needs/problem
Partner checks
back
Find out what
your partner
needs
Check your
understanding of
the partner’s
needs
Negotiate a
solution
Follow up on the
solution
Step 1
Identify your problem and unmet needs
• Know that the problem is yours
• Identify your unmet needs
• feelings
Step 2
Make a date
• Find the right time and place
• Not everyone is ready all the time to talk about conflicts
Step 3
Describe your problems and needs
• Be specific
• Don’t use abstract terms
Step 4
Partner checks back
• Very important to make sure if the partner
understands your problem
Step 5
Find out what your partner needs
• It is fair and just
• Unhappy partner will make it difficult for you to
feel satisfied
• Ask the partner clearly
• Use listening skills
Step 6
Check your understanding of partner’s
needs
• Paraphrase
• Ask Questions
Step 7
Negotiate a solution
• Think of different solutions
• Evaluate them
• Decide on best solution
Step 8
Follow up on solution
Set aside some time to talk over how things are going
The End
To read more visit;
https://daamarketer.com/what-is-
interpersonal-communication-and-
interpersonal-conflict/

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The concept of Interpersonal conflict

  • 2. • It is impossible to eliminate conflict • It is possible to manage it • Essential for healthier and stronger relationships
  • 3. The Nature of Conflict  What is Conflict? An expressed struggle between at least two interdependent parties who perceive incompatible goals, scarce rewards, and interference from other parties in achieving their goals
  • 4. The Nature of Conflict  Expressed struggle  Perceived incompatible goals  Perceived scarce rewards  Interdependence
  • 5. Styles of Expressing Conflict Different ways of handling conflict Nonassertion Direct Aggression Passive Aggression Indirect Communication Assertion
  • 6. NONASSERTION  When you can’t express your thoughts/feelings  When you don’t want to express your thoughts/feelings  REASONS  Lack of confidence  Lack of awareness  By choice
  • 7. NONASSERTION  Forms of nonassertion: i. Avoidance (physical/conversational) ii. Accommodation  Sometimes avoidance and accommodation are sensible.  Clear drawbacks too
  • 10. Also called ‘crazymaking’  Pseudoaccomodators  Guiltmakers  Jokers  Trivial tyrannizers  Withholders
  • 11.  Conveying message in an indirect way  Better than nonassertion  Kinder than aggression  Protects us from problems  Saves face for the listeners Risks of misunderstanding/no understanding
  • 12. ASSERTION Most skillful approach towards conflicts
  • 13. Assertion  Ability to state your needs and feelings CLEARLY without using aggression  Maintains self-respect of both parties  Doesn’t always succeed because of other party’s different style
  • 14. Every conflict is a struggle to have one’s goals met
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  • 17.  Power is the main force is such situations  Physical power  Authority Sometimes win-lose is necessary  When resources are little  When other party insists on defeating you/self defense  When other party is behaving in a CLEARLY wrong way
  • 18.  Neither side is satisfied  Common way of resolving conflicts  Ego comes in
  • 19.  Both parties get SOME of what they wanted  Both sacrifice part of their goals  Not always an ideal option
  • 20.  A solution that satisfies the needs of everyone  Working together is important here  Some compromises are a type of win-win  But ideally both parties should get what they want (to call it a win-win)
  • 21. Steps in Win-Win Method Identify your needs/problems Make a date Describe your needs/problem Partner checks back Find out what your partner needs Check your understanding of the partner’s needs Negotiate a solution Follow up on the solution
  • 22. Step 1 Identify your problem and unmet needs • Know that the problem is yours • Identify your unmet needs • feelings
  • 23. Step 2 Make a date • Find the right time and place • Not everyone is ready all the time to talk about conflicts
  • 24. Step 3 Describe your problems and needs • Be specific • Don’t use abstract terms
  • 25. Step 4 Partner checks back • Very important to make sure if the partner understands your problem
  • 26. Step 5 Find out what your partner needs • It is fair and just • Unhappy partner will make it difficult for you to feel satisfied • Ask the partner clearly • Use listening skills
  • 27. Step 6 Check your understanding of partner’s needs • Paraphrase • Ask Questions
  • 28. Step 7 Negotiate a solution • Think of different solutions • Evaluate them • Decide on best solution
  • 29. Step 8 Follow up on solution Set aside some time to talk over how things are going
  • 30. The End To read more visit; https://daamarketer.com/what-is- interpersonal-communication-and- interpersonal-conflict/