„Stress is not a reaction.
Rather, it is the price we pay
for the "civilized" life we live
  which by the way, is not
       civilized at all.‟
                      YOVKO BONEV
MANAGEMENT
STRESS




 The body and mind reaction
             to
every day demands and threats.
S=P>R
Stress occurs when the pressure is greater than the resource
What is your perception about
       being stressed?
Stress Performance Connection
TYPES OF STRESS

 Positive: Eustress
 • Enables concentration
 • Increase Performance
 • Energize you in to action


 Negative: Distress
 • Loss of Motivation
 • Reduces effectiveness
 • Physical, Mental and Behavioral Problems
When do you know you are
       stressed?
SIGNS OF STRESS

     PHYSICAL                                     BEHAVIOURAL
                           MENTAL SIGNS
       SIGNS                                         SIGNS


Increased Heart Beat      Anxiety               Hostility
Tightened Muscles         Forgetfulness         Irritability
Fatigue                   Depression            Under/Over eating
Sleeplessness             Lack of interest      Lack of concentration
Stomach or bowel upset    Lowered self esteem   Memory Problems
Sweating                  Increased anger       Smoking/drinking
Change in eating habits   Excessive fear        Poor Performance
Restlessness
Body Aches
“Life laughs at you when you are unhappy;

 Life smiles at you when you are happy;

  Life salutes you when you make others
                 happy...”
What makes you stressed?
Imbalance between demands in your life and
             resources you have
REASONS OF STRESS

  Financial
  Problems            Career




 Relationship       Academic
  Problems          Schedule




                  Personal Habits
Health Problems   or environment
What is your response?
ACCEPT   AVOID




ALTER    ADAPT
NEGATIVE SELF-TALK

Pessimistic thinking
Self criticism
Over analysing
•The Worrier Voice - “What if…..?”
  Make a plan then get it out of your head.

•The Critic Voice - “How stupid…..”
  Recognize what is really true.

•The Victim Voice - “I’ll never be able to…..”
  There is always something to do to work toward a
  goal.
•The Perfectionist - “I should……”
  Assess your unrealistic expectations of yourself
GARBAGE IN = GARBAGE OUT

Cumulative Stress   Heart Disease
  Ugly Health        Hypertension
    Habits             Arthritis
                      Headache
                         Stroke
                    Irritable Bowel
                          Cancer
                       Diabetes
NEED FOR STRESS MANAGEMENT




   RESOURCES    DEMAND
“Stress can be the SPICE OF
   LIFE or the KISS OF
          DEATH.”
STRESS MANAGEMENT TECHNIQUES
                             Time
                          management

                                            Personal
         Stay Healthy
                                         responsibility




                                                    Think
    Solve problems                             positively, have
                                                     faith




                  Effective
                                   Set Goals
                communication
STAY HEALTHY
SET GOALS


            Daily


            Weekly

            Monthly
TIME MANAGEMENT
EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION
THINK POSITIVE
SOLVE PROBLEM
“Grant me the courage
     to change things that I can change,
the serenity to accept those I cannot change
  and the wisdom to know the difference”
SPIRITUALISM
CURRENT TREND IN SPIRITUAL STRATEGIES

                             1.Many studies have provided
                             evidence that religion and
                             spirituality   are   positively
         Positive            associated with many indicators
       indicators of         of mental health.
       mental health
                             2. The positive psychology
                             movement      supports   and
                             stimulates by the current
                  Positive   professional    interest  in
 Positive
                 source of   spirituality.
Psychology
                  energy
                             3. Mental health practitioners
                             who wished to include religion
                             and spirituality as part of
                             treatment.
PROBLEMS IN SPIRITUAL STRATEGIES

 People worships idols not the ideals behind it


 Dysfunctional religious and spiritual beliefs
 and practices


 Cultural influence over the concept of religion /
 spirituality


 Many people have doubt about the religious /
 spiritual concepts


 Exploitation in the name of spirituality by the
 authorities
STANDARD STRESS-REACTION MODEL

          A threat exists
                                   The person
           to a person's
                                    becomes       The threat is
               need
                                  aware of the     appraised
          fulfillment or
                                     threat
             motives




                                  Alternatives
• What is the source                             • Fight
  of threat
                            • Yes : Coping       • Flight
• Do I have                   process
  alternatives
                            • No : Do I have
                              enough power to
      Response is             attack
                                                            Response
        needed
“The best way to predict your future is
            to create it.”
THE PSYCHOLOGICAL INSIGHT MODEL

The psychological insight of Zimbardo (1985):



"Stress is the pattern of specific and nonspecific
responses an organism makes to stimulus events
that disturb its equilibrium and tax or exceed its
ability to cope,"

"A stressor is a stimulus event that places a
demand on an organism for some kind of
adoptive response"
BURNOUT MODEL
A STORY WHICH
MIGHT MAKE A
BIG CHANGE IN
     YOU
PUT THE GLASS
DOWN TODAY
“There is no short cut to manage stress
      there are some guide lines;
   shape it according to your need!”
THE EQUATION




       Work
You    Life     Success
ABC STRATEGY


            How do you react?
AWARENESS   What causes you stress?




            How much can you cope with
 BALANCE    before it becomes negative ?




            What can you do to help yourself
 CONTROL     combat the negative effects of
                        stress ?
EXPLORE YOUR HIDDEN POTENTIAL
STRATEGIC MATRIX

                  Urgent                                 Not Urgent

                •Assignment deadlines           •Reading lecture notes
Important




                •Exams                          •Personal development
                •Emergencies                    •Planned study
                                                •Exercise/ Health




                •Some e-mails and phone calls   •Excessive TV or surfing the net
                •Meetings/ Events/ Occasions    •Time wasters
Not important




                                                •Some phone calls
BALANCE WHEEL ACTIVITY




                 Assignments/Projects
                 Relaxation/Fun
                 Career/ Placements
                 Friends/Family
                 Outing/ Hobbies
If a problem can be solved,
  no need to worry about it.
If a problem cannot be solved
what is the use of worrying?
GAME TIME
Thank you

Stress management

  • 1.
    „Stress is nota reaction. Rather, it is the price we pay for the "civilized" life we live which by the way, is not civilized at all.‟ YOVKO BONEV
  • 2.
  • 3.
    STRESS The bodyand mind reaction to every day demands and threats.
  • 5.
    S=P>R Stress occurs whenthe pressure is greater than the resource
  • 6.
    What is yourperception about being stressed?
  • 7.
  • 8.
    TYPES OF STRESS Positive: Eustress • Enables concentration • Increase Performance • Energize you in to action Negative: Distress • Loss of Motivation • Reduces effectiveness • Physical, Mental and Behavioral Problems
  • 9.
    When do youknow you are stressed?
  • 10.
    SIGNS OF STRESS PHYSICAL BEHAVIOURAL MENTAL SIGNS SIGNS SIGNS Increased Heart Beat Anxiety Hostility Tightened Muscles Forgetfulness Irritability Fatigue Depression Under/Over eating Sleeplessness Lack of interest Lack of concentration Stomach or bowel upset Lowered self esteem Memory Problems Sweating Increased anger Smoking/drinking Change in eating habits Excessive fear Poor Performance Restlessness Body Aches
  • 11.
    “Life laughs atyou when you are unhappy; Life smiles at you when you are happy; Life salutes you when you make others happy...”
  • 12.
    What makes youstressed?
  • 14.
    Imbalance between demandsin your life and resources you have
  • 15.
    REASONS OF STRESS Financial Problems Career Relationship Academic Problems Schedule Personal Habits Health Problems or environment
  • 16.
    What is yourresponse?
  • 17.
    ACCEPT AVOID ALTER ADAPT
  • 18.
  • 19.
    •The Worrier Voice- “What if…..?” Make a plan then get it out of your head. •The Critic Voice - “How stupid…..” Recognize what is really true. •The Victim Voice - “I’ll never be able to…..” There is always something to do to work toward a goal. •The Perfectionist - “I should……” Assess your unrealistic expectations of yourself
  • 20.
    GARBAGE IN =GARBAGE OUT Cumulative Stress Heart Disease Ugly Health Hypertension Habits Arthritis Headache Stroke Irritable Bowel Cancer Diabetes
  • 21.
    NEED FOR STRESSMANAGEMENT RESOURCES DEMAND
  • 22.
    “Stress can bethe SPICE OF LIFE or the KISS OF DEATH.”
  • 23.
    STRESS MANAGEMENT TECHNIQUES Time management Personal Stay Healthy responsibility Think Solve problems positively, have faith Effective Set Goals communication
  • 24.
  • 25.
    SET GOALS Daily Weekly Monthly
  • 26.
  • 27.
  • 28.
  • 29.
  • 30.
    “Grant me thecourage to change things that I can change, the serenity to accept those I cannot change and the wisdom to know the difference”
  • 31.
  • 32.
    CURRENT TREND INSPIRITUAL STRATEGIES 1.Many studies have provided evidence that religion and spirituality are positively Positive associated with many indicators indicators of of mental health. mental health 2. The positive psychology movement supports and stimulates by the current Positive professional interest in Positive source of spirituality. Psychology energy 3. Mental health practitioners who wished to include religion and spirituality as part of treatment.
  • 33.
    PROBLEMS IN SPIRITUALSTRATEGIES People worships idols not the ideals behind it Dysfunctional religious and spiritual beliefs and practices Cultural influence over the concept of religion / spirituality Many people have doubt about the religious / spiritual concepts Exploitation in the name of spirituality by the authorities
  • 34.
    STANDARD STRESS-REACTION MODEL A threat exists The person to a person's becomes The threat is need aware of the appraised fulfillment or threat motives Alternatives • What is the source • Fight of threat • Yes : Coping • Flight • Do I have process alternatives • No : Do I have enough power to Response is attack Response needed
  • 35.
    “The best wayto predict your future is to create it.”
  • 36.
    THE PSYCHOLOGICAL INSIGHTMODEL The psychological insight of Zimbardo (1985): "Stress is the pattern of specific and nonspecific responses an organism makes to stimulus events that disturb its equilibrium and tax or exceed its ability to cope," "A stressor is a stimulus event that places a demand on an organism for some kind of adoptive response"
  • 37.
  • 38.
    A STORY WHICH MIGHTMAKE A BIG CHANGE IN YOU
  • 39.
  • 40.
    “There is noshort cut to manage stress there are some guide lines; shape it according to your need!”
  • 41.
    THE EQUATION Work You Life Success
  • 42.
    ABC STRATEGY How do you react? AWARENESS What causes you stress? How much can you cope with BALANCE before it becomes negative ? What can you do to help yourself CONTROL combat the negative effects of stress ?
  • 43.
  • 44.
    STRATEGIC MATRIX Urgent Not Urgent •Assignment deadlines •Reading lecture notes Important •Exams •Personal development •Emergencies •Planned study •Exercise/ Health •Some e-mails and phone calls •Excessive TV or surfing the net •Meetings/ Events/ Occasions •Time wasters Not important •Some phone calls
  • 45.
    BALANCE WHEEL ACTIVITY Assignments/Projects Relaxation/Fun Career/ Placements Friends/Family Outing/ Hobbies
  • 46.
    If a problemcan be solved, no need to worry about it. If a problem cannot be solved what is the use of worrying?
  • 47.
  • 58.

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