Selecting the right Ethernet standard and configuring all the network devices in the embedded systems accurately is an extremely hard and rigorous job. The configuration depends on the topology, workloads of the connected devices, processing overhead at the switches, and the external interfaces. Network calculus, mathematical models and analytical techniques provide worst case execution time (WCET), but their probability of activity is extremely wide. This leads to overdesign which leads to higher costs, power consumption, weight, and size. Simulating the network is the best way to measure the throughput of the entire system. Digital system simulation provides better latency and throughput accuracy, but the accuracy is still limited because it does not consider the latency associated with the network OS, cybersecurity processing and scheduling. In many cases, these factors can reduce the throughput by 20-40%. In this paper, we will present our research on modeling the entire Ethernet network, including the workloads, network flow control, scheduling, switch hardware, and software. To substantially increase the coverage and compare topologies, we have developed a set of benchmarks that provides coverage for different combination of deterministic, rate-constrained, and best effort traffic. During the presentation, we will cover the benchmarks, the list of attributes required to accurately model the traffic, nodes, switches, and the scheduler settings. We will also look at the statistics and reports required to make the configuration decision. In addition, we will discuss how the model must be constructed to study the impact of future requirements, failures, network intrusions, and security detection schemes. Key Takeaways: 1. Learn how to efficiently use network simulation to design Ethernet systems 2. Develop a reusable benchmark and associated statistics to test different configurations 3. The role and impact of the CDT slots, guard band, send slope, idle slope, shuffle scheduling, flow control and virtual channels