This document discusses different levels of collaboration: functional, positional, and mutual. Functional collaboration is transactional without emotional investment. Positional relationships involve competing agendas and a focus on being right rather than problem solving. Mutual collaboration involves transparency, shared power, and risk-taking that allows conflicts to fuel creativity. Crossing from positional to mutual relationships requires vulnerability, which is difficult but can unlock high performance. Behaviors that foster mutual relationships include deep listening, sharing needs and values, expressing feelings without judgment, and embracing conflict creatively.