The document discusses how many men engage in a "warm up" ritual before attempting to attract women, such as going to a small club with friends to build confidence. However, this can result in presenting a false image that is difficult to maintain over multiple interactions. The document suggests that instead of relying on artificial confidence boosting, men could work to build a genuinely attractive, confident personality so that being their authentic self is enough to attract women effortlessly.

2. A lot of guys go through a "warm up"
ritual before getting to the main event.

3. They'll hit a small club, have a few
drinks with their boys, build up each
other's confidence, etc.

4. Kind of like a fighter warming up
before stepping in the ring.

5. In one way, it makes a certain bit of
sense.

6. You want to be at the top of your
game.

7. You want to be able to build up your
defense shield to handle all the
negativity you might run into.

8. You want to build up your ability to
"bounce back" from the inevitable
rejections.

9. But think of it this way.

10. One of the reasons to NOT tell lies is
because you've got to remember all
the lies you've told.

11. They say that telling the truth is much
easier, not for moral or ethical
reasons, but simply because you've
got to remember less.

12. If you put on your "game face" before
you go out, in a way you're presenting
a false image.

13. Nothing wrong with that, it's just hard
to keep track of all the things you say
to all the people.

14. It certainly can help you, in the short
term, to embellish your confidence,
but if you are looking for anything
beyond a one night stand, she's going
to sense something's up a week or two
down the line.

15. She's going to wonder why you're not
the same guy on the second or third
hangout as you were when you first
met.

16. I know, this sounds dangerously close
to the "be yourself" advice that
everybody and their sister thinks is the
best way.

17. But what if you could build up your
personality so when you WERE just
being YOU, it was a super attractive,
super confident, and super social
YOU?

18. Meaning your game was ON all the
time.

19. What would that be like?

20. I'm sure you've known guys like this, or
had several nights like this.

21. You don't need to DO anything.

22. You just show up, and everything
clicks.

23. Everything you say works.

24. Girls come up to you.

25. You see cute girls in line at the fast
food joint and their into you.

26. You feel totally fearless, and totally
comfortable.

27. For most guys, these "events" are few
and far between.

28. When they come, their awesome, but
they're gone pretty quick.

29. However, there is a way to build in this
state so that it DOES become
permanent.

30. Just being yourself will become
synonymous with being a natural.

31. The guy who just shows up, and
attracts girls like bees to honey.

32. mindpersuasion.com/frame-control/