The document provides various conversation starters for engaging with women in different social situations, emphasizing principles of genuineness and natural style. It encourages readers to view conversations as opportunities and to make socializing a habit. The examples demonstrate how to initiate and continue interactions in a variety of scenarios, promoting confidence in meeting new people.

1. by Ju lian R eisinger
19 Ways to Start
Conversations With
Women Naturally

2. On the following slides I’ll give you
a number of social situations
along with examples of how you
could start and continue
conversations in them.

3. This aims to show to your brain
that opportunity is everywhere
and seizing it is easy.

4. Let’s get started.

5. How it works

6. First I’ll give you a photo with a
description of the scene.
1

7. Then a possible conversation
starter for that situation.
2

8. And finally a good way to continue
the convo.
3

9. Before we get started with the
images you need to consider three
important principles in order to
make this work:

10. P R I N C I P L E # 1
You are genuine with
everything you do and say.
You don’t do or say anything
just to meet women.

11. P R I N C I P L E # 2
You don’t recite the lines from
this presentation word for
word but use your own
natural style.

12. P R I N C I P L E # 3
You aren’t outcome oriented.

13. Keep these principles in mind and
you’ll achieve great results
automatically.

14. One last thing to note:

15. The examples are ideas on what I
would do and say in these
situations.

16. You are different and both the
words and the situation might not
be a good fit for your personality.

17. Therefore, you must see the
examples merely as food for
thought on how and where you
could meet people naturally.

18. NOT as pre-scripted lines to use in
conversations. :-)

19. Now, without further ado, let’s get
started!

20. Examples of how to meet
women in different situations

21. You are sharing a chair lift or cable car.

22. “Wow, what a view here! You
guys are probably locals and see
this all the time, but I am here for
the first time and to me this is
just breath taking.”
INITIATE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

23. “I am Peter from Denmark, by
the way.” *shake hands*
CONTINUE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

24. You see others play recreational beach volleyball.

25. “Hey guys! This looks like so
much fun. Do you mind if I join
you for the next game?”
INITIATE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

26. “Awesome! Thanks! Do you play
to 21 or 25?”
CONTINUE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

27. You stand outside a club or bar and see an attractive woman
smoke.

28. “Excuse me. Do you have a
lighter?”
INITIATE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

29. “Thanks! I like that you belong to
the people who pass the lighter.
Some people always just try to
light your cigarette but I prefer
doing it myself. I’m a control
freak in that way, I guess.”
CONTINUE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

30. You are waiting for your turn to order at a food truck.

31. “Excuse me, hi. I am in a bit of a
conundrum: I am eating here for
the first time and am completely
clueless as to what’s good. Do you
have any recommendations?”
INITIATE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

32. “Oh wow. That sounds delicious
and completely gross at the
same time. Hahaha. I’ll try it, but
you gotta show me how to eat
this without making a huge
mess.”
CONTINUE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

33. You see a cute girl walk on the boardwalk next to the beach.

34. “Hi. Do you know where the beach
is?”
INITIATE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

35. “I’m just kidding. But in all honesty,
a friend of mine once got so nervous
before talking to a girl on the beach
that he asked her where the beach
was at. It was the funniest thing
ever.”
CONTINUE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

36. You are a guest at a private party where you know the host but
not many others.

37. “Hi! I don’t think we have met
yet. I am Mike.”
INITIATE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

38. “So how do you know Tim (the
host)?”
CONTINUE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

39. You are at an intimate get-together with a mixed group of
which you know about half the people.

40. “Hi! You are Clara, aren’t you?
I’m Jason. It’s crazy that we have
never met even though we share
a lot of the same friends.”
INITIATE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

41. “So tell me about yourself. What
do you do when you aren’t going
to parties like this one here?”
CONTINUE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

42. You are sitting in a boring class at school / university. Next to
you sits a cute girl.

43. “Oh my god, it’s nearly
impossible to follow this.”
INITIATE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

44. “I mean I like the topic and he
makes some good points, but his
voice is like a lullaby. With each
sentence my eye lids shut more
and more.”
CONTINUE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

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46. You see a woman taking selfies in front of a sight.

47. “Hi. Want me to take a photo of
you with the cliffs?”
INITIATE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

48. “I hope I did a good job. I
certainly gave it my all.
So what brings you here?”
CONTINUE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

49. You desperately want a coffee and see someone pass you with
a cup.

50. “Omg, where did you get that
cup of coffee from? I’m falling
asleep standing up.”
INITIATE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

51. “Thanks, you are a life saver!”
CONTINUE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

52. As you just saw in the last
example, it’s not always necessary
to start a full-blown conversation.

53. I know, a quick encounter with a
friendly stranger, who you’re
never gonna see again, can seem
pointless.

54. But remember: it’s not about the
outcome but about getting into
the habit of talking to new people
everywhere you go.

55. Ok, let’s continue with some more
examples.

56. You are waiting in line and it’s taking forever.

57. “Omg, I’m starting to lose hope
here. I hate nothing more than
waiting in line but my little sister
sent me to buy her this new bag.
So I didn’t have a choice.”
*laughs*
INITIATE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

58. “The long wait doesn’t seem to
affect you, tough. What’s your
secret?”
CONTINUE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

59. It’s your first day of working in a coworking space.

60. “Hi. I’m new here. I’m Jim. Nice
to meet you.”
INITIATE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

61. “Any interesting problems you
guys are working on?”
CONTINUE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

62. You see a group of women who look like fun at a festival.

63. “Hey guys. What’s up? How do
you like the lineup this year?”
INITIATE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

64. “Absolutely, EDM is taking over
everywhere. I really like the
headliners, though. So what are
your plans for the rest of the
day?”
CONTINUE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

65. You see an interesting woman in your local gym.

66. “Hi. I’ve never seen you around
here before. Are you new?”
INITIATE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

67. “Nice to meet you, I’m Tom. If
you need help with anything let
me know. I suck at lifting but I
excel at knowing how it works in
theory.” *laughs*
CONTINUE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

68. You are hiking alone and meet other hikers.

69. “Hi. Are you coming from the
top? Is it far from here? I have a
hint that my legs don’t want to
carry me much longer.”
INITIATE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

70. “Thanks! You guys seem like
experienced hikers, do you have
any recommendations for good
trails around here?”
CONTINUE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

71. You spot a cute girl who is working on her laptop in the hotel
lobby.

72. *(leaning over from a table close by)*
“Business or pleasure?”
INITIATE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

73. “That’s interesting. I’d love to
learn more about it.”
CONTINUE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

74. You see an interesting woman in the cookie isle of a
supermarket reaching for a box.

75. “I don’t mean to interfere with
your shopping but I’m a bit of an
expert on chocolate chip cookies.
and trust me, you don’t want to
take these.”
INITIATE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

76. “You look like a chocolate lover,
so let me suggest these to you.
They are my favorites. Oh, and
absolutely essential, you need
some cold milk with them if you
haven’t got any already.”
CONTINUE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

77. You are at an opening or networking event and see a
seemingly bored but good-looking woman there.

78. “Wow, I really like your outfit! You
definitely stand out from all the
greyscale folks in these colors.”
INITIATE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

79. “So what brings you to this
event?”
CONTINUE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

80. You just joined the local church choir and stand next to
another young member.

81. “I always thought choirs are only
for old people. Glad I’m not the
only one under 60.”
INITIATE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

82. “I’m John, by the way. Nice to
meet you! To be honest, I’ve been
wanting to sing in a choir for a
long time but never did anything
about it. So this is my first time
and I’m really excited.”
CONTINUE WITH SOMETHING LIKE:

83. Where to go from here

84. I hope you liked the examples.

85. Now, try to find new situations in
your own environment at home.

86. Make talking to people a habit.
A compliment here, a funny remark
there, a new acquaintance, or just a
brief exchange with a colleague
make all the difference in the world.

87. Becoming fluent at these brief
conversations will make your
results with women explode and
you’ll be able to meet women and
other interesting people
everywhere you go.

88. That’s it for today.

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