The document critiques the idea of using specific seduction patterns or techniques to attract women, arguing that they do not exist and that success comes from trial and error. It emphasizes the importance of taking action and facing the fear of rejection rather than seeking memorized scripts or techniques. The author illustrates this with a story about a therapy session where a client was advised to seek out rejection as a means of overcoming fear and ultimately found success.

1. Beware Of Seduction
Patterns

2. There's a lot of patterns out there that
allegedly will help you get laid.

3. You memorize them, say them in the
right order, and suddenly she'll turn
into your willing sex slave.

4. Now, just for a minute, imagine what
the world would be like if this were
actually true.

5. First of all, everybody would be getting
laid all the time.

6. It would be like in the movie, "Bruce
Almighty," when Bruce became God,
and started answering "Yes!" to
everybody's prayers.

7. Good news? Everybody won the
lottery.

8. Bad news? Their winnings were only
about $1, since everybody won.

9. If there WAS some kind of magic string
of words that would turn girls into
raving sex maniacs, no girl would ever
leave her house.

10. She'd be too terrified.

11. What if you knew that there was a
magic set of words that would transfer
ALL the money in your bank account
into the person who said these magic
words?

12. AND that anybody could learn these
magic words on the internet, for free?

13. You'd keep all your cash in your house,
that's what.

14. Simply because girls go out and talk to
random guys is proof that magic words
simply don't exist.

15. Nor do convoluted language patterns
and pick up techniques.

16. Don't mean to burst your bubble, but
if any "paint by numbers" technique
existed, it wouldn't last very long.

17. So stop looking for what to say, or
what to do, and how exactly to use
kino.

18. The secret of success, in ANY AREA,
including getting girls, is simple.

19. Try something.

20. See what happens.

21. Did it work?

22. Good.

23. Do more.

24. No?

25. No sweat.

26. Try something different.

27. So, why don't more guys understand
this, and use this simple step by step
"procedure" to getting laid (or getting
whatever?)

28. It's in the "try something" phase.

29. This part requires doing something
WITHOUT KNOWING how it will turn
out.

30. Most people (let alone guys who want
to pick up girls) are absolutely and
utterly TERRIFIED of doing this.

31. So we "pretend" that we just need to
"learn more" or "study more" or
whatever other lie we tell ourselves to
keep us from getting rejected.

32. Usually this involves us sitting around
waiting for somebody to "tell us" what
to do.

33. Milton Erickson, one of the most
famous Hypnotherapists of all time
(and upon whom most of NLP is
based) had this genius "homework
session" for one of his clients.

34. Guy comes in, and says he's terrified of
rejection.

35. He'd like a girlfriend, but he's terrified
of talking to girls.

36. What should I do, doc?

37. Does Erickson talk about his
childhood?

38. His deep feelings about his mom?

39. Does he make him memorize a bunch
of language patterns?

40. Nope.

41. Erickson (who had a HUGE success
rate only after one or two sessions)
merely said this:

42. "OK, Mr. Client. I promise I can cure
you. Do what I say, and you'll have a
girlfriend in no time."

43. "Great doc! Thanks! I'll do anything.
What do I do?"

44. Doc says, "Go out and get rejected ten
times, and then come see me next
week."

45. Client swallows and says OK. He comes
back the next week.

46. "Well," Doc says, "Did you get rejected
ten times?"

47. "Nope," Client says, smiling.

48. "Well, what happened?"

49. "Well, I got rejected six times, but girl
number seven is now my girlfriend."

50. See how that works?

51. mindpersuasion.com