The document discusses the common mistake of trying to create attraction artificially, emphasizing the importance of being genuine rather than relying on scripted behaviors. It warns that while game techniques might work short-term, true long-term attraction requires authenticity, as women will ultimately lose interest if the real you doesn't align with the image presented. The text suggests that many confuse authenticity with being overly nice, which is rooted in fear, and encourages simply being oneself in interactions.

1. Too Much Game?

2. What's the biggest mistake most guys
make?

3. They try to create attraction when
none is there.

4. Sure, there are some things, many
things, that will improve your odds.

5. If you wear nice clothes rather than
something out of a dumpster, or you
shower once a day instead of once a
week.

6. There's a myth that you can do or say
certain things that will make her like
you.

7. Take a close look at that last sentence.

8. If a girl is to like "you," then your
words and behaviors have to be an
accurate representation of "you."

9. Which means if you're looking for
somebody to tell you what to do or
what to say, then you're not really
being "you."

10. This is one reason many guys crash
and burn after only a short while.

11. If you practice your game until it's
really tight, sure you can pull it off for
a while.

12. But sooner or later, you're going to run
out of material.

13. If you've ever talked to a stand up
comedian in real life, you know they
are usually pretty different in person,
in an unscripted, un televised,
unrehearsed conversation.

14. Some people make the mistake of
thinking they're always running around
telling funny stories to everybody they
meet.

15. Sure, if all you care about is short term
flings, then this will work very, very
well.

16. But if you want something more,
you've got to be somebody that she is
attracted to.

17. Meaning when she gets to know the
real you, which she will eventually,
she's got to KEEP that level of
attraction.

18. Which means that it if you're looking
for something long term, using any
kind of game technology that's NOT
part of who you are might not be a
great idea.

19. It might even lead to the wrong
conclusion about women in general,
one that is very prevalent today.

20. You practice a little bit of game, you
use some techniques to increase her
attraction.

21. You get some success, but then you
run out of material, she loses interest,
and she's gone.

22. If all you know is the above scenario, it
may seem like all women are shallow,
immoral creatures who'll only stick
around if you've got a lot of money.

23. If that's how you feel, you may want to
step back a bit, and dial down the
game.

24. Just be yourself.

25. I know that on all kinds of dating
forums this is the worst possible
advice.

26. But many guys confuse "being
yourself" with "being a nice guy."

27. Being a nice guy is the furthest thing
from being yourself.

28. A nice guy is terrified of rejection, so
he's ultra careful about what he says
or does.

29. But when you are yourself, you're
yourself no matter WHO you are
talking to.

30. Sure, if you're talking to some old lady
in line at the supermarket, you might
not want to cuss like a sailor, but you
can certainly talk like you normally talk
to your buddies.

31. Same with girls at the club, or girls at
the library.

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