The document emphasizes two critical aspects of meeting and dating quality women: understanding your criteria for a partner and recognizing your own exchange value. It highlights the importance of knowing not just what you want in a partner, but also what you don't want, while cautioning against overestimating one's own worth in the dating market. The author suggests that improving personal qualities and refining one's standards can lead to better dating experiences.

2. There are two aspects meeting and
dating quality women that are
absolutely essential to understand.

3. Without these, you won't get very far,
and you'll end cursing the gods of
randomness.

4. Of course, nothing is random, despite
the plethora of metaphors indicating
otherwise.

5. What makes this even more difficult, is
that both of these elements are
operating unconsciously, in everybody.

6. So it could very well be that yours are
messed up and you don't even know
it.

7. The trick is to elevate them to the
conscious level, make sure
everything's in good working order,
and then drop them back down to the
unconscious level, so you can get back
to having fun.

8. The first is criteria.

9. You've got to know what you want in a
woman.

10. You've also got to know what you
don't want.

11. Most guys have the first one, but not
the second one.

12. And even then it's pretty basic.

13. Like she's got to be hot, and she's got
to like him.

14. However, as you well know, super hot
girls can also be super crazy girls.

15. If your only criteria is how she looks,
you may be in for some trouble.

16. So you'll need to put in some time to
figure out what you want.

17. The next idea to consider is your own
exchange value.

18. Now, most guys think that just because
they've read a few articles about game
online, that they are super bomb
alphas and deserve the hottest girls on
planet Earth.

19. Generally, that's not the case.

20. The harsh truth is that most PEOPLE
(girls and guys) severely overestimate
their value.

21. Think of it this way.

22. Do you think quality girls are hard to
find?

23. Or, if you're a woman, do you think
quality men are hard to find?

24. Well consider this harsh slap of truth
to the face.

25. If YOU were high quality, high quality
partners wouldn't be hard to find.

26. Think of it this way.

27. If you went down to your local flea
market, with a couple grand stuffed in
your pockets, would you have any
trouble finding good things to buy?

28. Nope.

29. On the other hand, if all you had were
a couple of nickels, you'd complain
that there was NOTHING of value
there. That it was all over-priced
garbage.

30. Well, I hate to break it to you, but if
you're having trouble finding quality
mates, take a good hard look in the
mirror.

31. How can you improve yourself?

32. Develop social skills.

33. Improve confidence, let those "tests"
easily roll off your back without
worrying about them. Have some faith
in yourself, and in your life.

34. Refine your criteria, and refine what
you've got to offer, and you'll be fine.
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