Meeting Girls
Or Hunting?
Many guys and gurus will tell you that
you should always isolate your target.
Meaning if you are in some club or
other public place where girls and guys
are all hanging out secretly hoping to
meet each other, you'll need to
separate her from her friends.
Now, on a basic level, this sounds
pretty predatory.
This sounds like something lions will
do when hunting zebras.
They find a weak zebra that's kind of
separated from the pack, making it
easier to hunt.
If they zoom in on some big fat zebra
surrounded by big, tough looking
zebras, the tough looking zebras will
kick the crap out of the lion.
However, when you're out meeting
girls, you're hopefully trying to build a
relationship, even if it's short term,
based on a mutual desire.
So the "separate from the pack" idea is
kind of off base.
Sure, it's a lot easier to "pick up" a girl
if she doesn't have her girlfriends
hanging out.
Certainly, even if she IS interested in
you, her girlfriends will be jealous and
would rather her NOT meet anybody, if
only to make themselves feel better.
And there certainly ARE many girls
who enjoy being chased, without
necessarily liking the guy who's
chasing them enough to allow
themselves to "be caught."
In a sense, separating her from her
pack of friends makes it easier for both
of you, and it can serve as a valuable
test.
Meaning if she's flirting with you and
sending you very positive signals,
including kino, but she absolutely
refuses to be separated from her
friends, then she may indeed be
running some game on you just to get
the attention.
This is what makes "nightclub game"
so difficult.
Many girls go to places like that for
attention, and purposely NOT to hook
up some guy.
How can you tell the difference?
One way is to simply number close her
in front of her friends.
Don't try isolate.
Just tell her you think she's cute, you
think that she's got a decent
personality, and you'd like to get to
know her better, but you don't want to
ruin "girls night out."
This will force her to show, through her
actions, whether she's really into you
or just playing you for your attention.
It will also demonstrate your
confidence, as most guys would be
terrified to close in any way in front of
all her friends, who are watching you
(and secretly hoping you go down in
flames, as it will make them feel
better).
Will this always work?
You won't usually get a number this
way, but the numbers you DO get will
generally be pretty solid.
You've shown a lot of confidence.
She's given you her number in front of
her friends, so chances are she's not
blowing you off.
Of course, to make it easy, you really
have to NOT CARE if she gives you her
number or not.
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Should You Always Isolate?

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    Many guys andgurus will tell you that you should always isolate your target.
  • 3.
    Meaning if youare in some club or other public place where girls and guys are all hanging out secretly hoping to meet each other, you'll need to separate her from her friends.
  • 4.
    Now, on abasic level, this sounds pretty predatory.
  • 5.
    This sounds likesomething lions will do when hunting zebras.
  • 6.
    They find aweak zebra that's kind of separated from the pack, making it easier to hunt.
  • 7.
    If they zoomin on some big fat zebra surrounded by big, tough looking zebras, the tough looking zebras will kick the crap out of the lion.
  • 8.
    However, when you'reout meeting girls, you're hopefully trying to build a relationship, even if it's short term, based on a mutual desire.
  • 9.
    So the "separatefrom the pack" idea is kind of off base.
  • 10.
    Sure, it's alot easier to "pick up" a girl if she doesn't have her girlfriends hanging out.
  • 11.
    Certainly, even ifshe IS interested in you, her girlfriends will be jealous and would rather her NOT meet anybody, if only to make themselves feel better.
  • 12.
    And there certainlyARE many girls who enjoy being chased, without necessarily liking the guy who's chasing them enough to allow themselves to "be caught."
  • 13.
    In a sense,separating her from her pack of friends makes it easier for both of you, and it can serve as a valuable test.
  • 14.
    Meaning if she'sflirting with you and sending you very positive signals, including kino, but she absolutely refuses to be separated from her friends, then she may indeed be running some game on you just to get the attention.
  • 15.
    This is whatmakes "nightclub game" so difficult.
  • 16.
    Many girls goto places like that for attention, and purposely NOT to hook up some guy.
  • 17.
    How can youtell the difference?
  • 18.
    One way isto simply number close her in front of her friends.
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    Just tell heryou think she's cute, you think that she's got a decent personality, and you'd like to get to know her better, but you don't want to ruin "girls night out."
  • 21.
    This will forceher to show, through her actions, whether she's really into you or just playing you for your attention.
  • 22.
    It will alsodemonstrate your confidence, as most guys would be terrified to close in any way in front of all her friends, who are watching you (and secretly hoping you go down in flames, as it will make them feel better).
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    You won't usuallyget a number this way, but the numbers you DO get will generally be pretty solid.
  • 25.
    You've shown alot of confidence.
  • 26.
    She's given youher number in front of her friends, so chances are she's not blowing you off.
  • 27.
    Of course, tomake it easy, you really have to NOT CARE if she gives you her number or not.
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