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How to Attract Women
Passively Through Your
Lifestyle
by Julian Reisinger
Hey! It’s me, Julian.
I am the guy behind Love Life Solved,
which I run just for fun as a way to
share my personal experiences from
well over 10 years in the dating & love
advice industry as a client, assistant to
a coach, business owner, and
published writer. All for free.
My main job is being a co-founder
over at Reconnected, a full circle
coaching agency for all things love,
social, and personal life. It’s unlike
anything else in the industry.
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The most desirable men never
seem to concern themselves
with becoming better with
women.
Or can you imagine Ryan
Gosling memorizing pickup
lines?
Women somehow just seem to
flock to them, as if drawn by
some mysterious magnetism.
The reason for this doesn’t lie
in looks, money, or fame.
(although all three are factors)
It lies in the lifestyle that leads
to money and looks and fame.
I’ll explain the concept of
lifestyle with a sports example:
To be successful, an athlete needs to build an environment
that keeps them fit, healthy, and mentally resilient.
And they have a team of
helpers for all these aspects.
Physicians, video analysts,
psychologists, massage
therapists, nutritionists,
assistants,…
When an athlete feels
down, they have people in
their environment that
will lift them up, no
matter if they feel like
seeing people or not.
When an athlete needs to
eat, they don’t stop at a
burger drive-through but
are greeted by a freshly
cooked nutritious meal
when they return home.
When an athlete prepares
for a match, they don’t have
to tape their opponents for
video analysis. A coach does
it for them.
Athletes know that success
is only possible if their whole
lifestyle is geared towards
their success.
Now let’s apply the same principle
to dating success.
Many regular folks seem to think
that success with the most desirable
women is possible despite them
living a solitary life in an uncleaned
apartment eating leftover pizza
while playing video games.
Here is the truth:
Yes, you can have a horrible
lifestyle a still find a woman.
But you won’t exactly be
attracting Margot Robbie or
Ariana Grande that way.
L E S S O N # 1
If you want to be with a high-
quality woman you need the
lifestyle of a high-quality
man.
What elements must not
miss from the lifestyle of a
high-quality man?
Fulfilling basic prerequisites every high-quality person has.
E L E M E N T # 1
There are certain things that
high-quality people just take
for granted.
And if you don’t have these
prerequisites, then you don’t
even show up on their radar.
Here are the most important
ones:
Good Bodily Hygiene
No beautiful woman was ever
into a guy who didn’t shower,
brush his teeth, and clip his
toenails.
You can see if your personal
hygiene is up to date with this
checklist I put together.
DOWNLOAD IT HERE
Having Your Shit
Together
A “man” who can’t keep his life
organized surely isn’t mature
enough for a relationship with a
woman who is — and I’ve never
met a high-quality woman who
hasn’t had her shit together.
Decent Job and
Education
Having a stable, reasonably
paid job is rarely a bad thing
and for most high-quality
women it’s a must have. You
don’t need to make millions, but
you need to be able to make
ends meet.
Active Social Life
In people’s minds there must be
something seriously wrong with
a guy who doesn’t have any
friends. The same is true for
someone who doesn’t have any
passions or interests.
Keeping your mind busy with living, not with women.
E L E M E N T # 2
A focus on yourself builds a habit
of self-care, which keeps you fit
and healthy, improves your
career, and nurtures your social
circle.
A focus on women makes you
needy, boring, and
exhausting to be around.
F O C U S O N R E S U LT
• Women
• Sex
• Proving to your
friends that you
can get the hottest
girls
• Enjoying life
• Improving yourself
• Being a great
friend
Needy, egotistical man
without real friends,
who is boring and a
pain in the ass to be
around.
Man who is happy, has
interesting stories to tell,
and is a positive and fun
person to be around.
F O C U S O N R E S U LT
• Women
• Sex
• Proving to your
friends that you
can get the hottest
girls
• Enjoying life
• Improving yourself
• Being a great
friend
massively unattractive
massively attractive
L E S S O N # 2
Always be more invested in
yourself than in women.
Passively meeting new, attractive women regularly.
E L E M E N T # 3
An actor meets new attractive
women passively though his
job.
The same is true for musicians,
photographers, designers,
barkeepers, and many other jobs.
If you work in a job like that you
automatically train your
conversation skills with actual
women, every single day!
Just imagine how skilled at
conversing and how desensitised
against beauty you’d be if you had
practiced every day for years.
This is the main reason why the
Ryan Goslings and George
Clooneys of the world are so damn
attractive to women.
Not all of us work in professions that
get us in touch with women, though.
Especially the traditionally
male-dominated finance and
technology industries have
this problem, but many other
jobs as well.
That’s why you need to compensate
with social spare time activities.
Most people’s way to achieve this is
by going out to bars and night clubs.
But, at least to me, stuffing myself
into a filthy, dark, loud and
overpriced venue, only to stand
around and try to look as cool as
possible, never made much sense.
I always loved doing different
sports, so the natural route for
me was to join sports clubs.
But you are different and there is
not just one way to meet women
passively though your spare time
activities.
Other possible options are art
workshops, dance classes, book
clubs, networking events, travel
meetups, study groups,
excursions, competitions,…
L E S S O N # 3
Find an enjoyable activity that
allows you to meet new women
passively and your romantic
success rate will soar.
Moving as many activities as possible from indoors to
outdoors.
E L E M E N T # 3
Everything, besides sleeping,
that you do at home you can
also do outside somewhere.
And when you do, there are
usually others who do the
same.
This makes talking to new
people much easier, builds a
habit of socializing with
strangers and, thus, alleviates
social anxiety.
As an added benefit, leaving your
home forces you to get dressed,
groomed, get some sunlight and
breath in fresh air.
It acts like a stop sign for self-
isolation and letting yourself
go.
L E S S O N # 4
Move as many activities as
possible from the comfort of
your home to the world out
there.
Saying “YES” to opportunities that could lead to romantic
success — independently of others.
E L E M E N T # 4
Last summer I played some
beach volleyball with a friend
and a few women he had met
prior to my arrival.
We had a ton of fun and at the
end of the day the girls asked
us if we wanted to go out with
them.
I, being in a relationship, said
“Thx, but no thx!”
But my friend said, “Yes!”
Even though I bailed on him, he
was confident enough to join
the girls alone.
And guess what, he ended up
with a really sexy, happiness
exuding, life-loving, beach
volleyball-playing lady that
night.
It might strike you as obvious to
say yes to such an opportunity.
But if it was, I wouldn’t
get to hear so many
examples of guys who
were not ready for
success.
Lack of hygiene, uncleaned
apartments, panic attacks,
parents or friends intruding,…
The list goes on and on.
L E S S O N # 5
Always be ready for the best
case to happen.
Don’t let emotions control your life. Act in spite of them.
E L E M E N T # 5
Many people don’t realize that
their negative emotions aren’t
a genetically given but a result
of their harmful lifestyle.
I was one of these people.
For years, I used to sit at home all
day and work mostly from my
living room.
And after work, I turned on my
PC or console and played
League of Legends or GTA.
As you can imagine, I didn’t get
in touch with other people
much.
And as a result, I became
increasingly scared of them.
This resulted in more isolation.
It got so far that I started to
believe I was such an extreme
introvert that I just couldn’t
stand others and would always
have to live in solitude.
Fortunately, at some point I
realized that this
development seriously
impaired my ability to get
the results that I wanted in
life and love.
So I took counter measures.
Guess what, the more I
escaped my self-created
isolation chamber at home,
the more I enjoyed socializing
and being around people.
I still needed my alone time.
But the thought of being
around other humans didn’t
scare me anymore.
On the contrary, it suddenly
was something I looked
forward to.
L E S S O N # 6
The things we believe to be
unchangable parts of our
character are often merely the
result of our shitty lifestyles and
can be changed just as easily.
But how can you build a
new lifestyle despite
already leading a busy
life?
Like everyone else, you’ve only
got 24 hours each day.
And 24 hours isn’t enough time
to do everything you want.
So you’ve got to prioritize.
Do you rather want to play video games at home or explore
the city with an exciting woman?
Do you want to work in a job that isolates you from others
or do you want to be surrounded by people who inspire and
motivate you?
Do you want to live your life controlled by fear or do you want
to make the most of this one chance you’ve been given?
Ultimately it’s all up to you.
If you value comfort and
avoidance of fear and anxiety
over a fulfilling life together with
an exceptional woman then it’s
perfectly fine to not change a
thing.
But if you want to live like few
people ever will, then you need to
make decisions based on what
their long-term consequences for
your life are and not how
uncomfortable they make you
short term.
L E S S O N # 7
Every lifestyle choice you
make bears consequences.
Make sure you are aware of
them and use them to your
advantage.
That’s it for today.
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stopping by and listening to
me!
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How To Attract Women Passively Through Your Lifestyle

  • 1. How to Attract Women Passively Through Your Lifestyle by Julian Reisinger
  • 2. Hey! It’s me, Julian.
  • 3. I am the guy behind Love Life Solved, which I run just for fun as a way to share my personal experiences from well over 10 years in the dating & love advice industry as a client, assistant to a coach, business owner, and published writer. All for free.
  • 4. My main job is being a co-founder over at Reconnected, a full circle coaching agency for all things love, social, and personal life. It’s unlike anything else in the industry. CHECK IT OUT
  • 5. The most desirable men never seem to concern themselves with becoming better with women.
  • 6. Or can you imagine Ryan Gosling memorizing pickup lines?
  • 7. Women somehow just seem to flock to them, as if drawn by some mysterious magnetism.
  • 8.
  • 9. The reason for this doesn’t lie in looks, money, or fame. (although all three are factors)
  • 10. It lies in the lifestyle that leads to money and looks and fame.
  • 11. I’ll explain the concept of lifestyle with a sports example:
  • 12. To be successful, an athlete needs to build an environment that keeps them fit, healthy, and mentally resilient.
  • 13. And they have a team of helpers for all these aspects.
  • 14. Physicians, video analysts, psychologists, massage therapists, nutritionists, assistants,…
  • 15. When an athlete feels down, they have people in their environment that will lift them up, no matter if they feel like seeing people or not.
  • 16. When an athlete needs to eat, they don’t stop at a burger drive-through but are greeted by a freshly cooked nutritious meal when they return home.
  • 17. When an athlete prepares for a match, they don’t have to tape their opponents for video analysis. A coach does it for them.
  • 18. Athletes know that success is only possible if their whole lifestyle is geared towards their success.
  • 19. Now let’s apply the same principle to dating success.
  • 20. Many regular folks seem to think that success with the most desirable women is possible despite them living a solitary life in an uncleaned apartment eating leftover pizza while playing video games.
  • 21.
  • 22. Here is the truth:
  • 23. Yes, you can have a horrible lifestyle a still find a woman.
  • 24. But you won’t exactly be attracting Margot Robbie or Ariana Grande that way.
  • 25. L E S S O N # 1 If you want to be with a high- quality woman you need the lifestyle of a high-quality man.
  • 26. What elements must not miss from the lifestyle of a high-quality man?
  • 27. Fulfilling basic prerequisites every high-quality person has. E L E M E N T # 1
  • 28. There are certain things that high-quality people just take for granted.
  • 29. And if you don’t have these prerequisites, then you don’t even show up on their radar.
  • 30. Here are the most important ones:
  • 31. Good Bodily Hygiene No beautiful woman was ever into a guy who didn’t shower, brush his teeth, and clip his toenails.
  • 32. You can see if your personal hygiene is up to date with this checklist I put together. DOWNLOAD IT HERE
  • 33. Having Your Shit Together A “man” who can’t keep his life organized surely isn’t mature enough for a relationship with a woman who is — and I’ve never met a high-quality woman who hasn’t had her shit together.
  • 34. Decent Job and Education Having a stable, reasonably paid job is rarely a bad thing and for most high-quality women it’s a must have. You don’t need to make millions, but you need to be able to make ends meet.
  • 35. Active Social Life In people’s minds there must be something seriously wrong with a guy who doesn’t have any friends. The same is true for someone who doesn’t have any passions or interests.
  • 36. Keeping your mind busy with living, not with women. E L E M E N T # 2
  • 37. A focus on yourself builds a habit of self-care, which keeps you fit and healthy, improves your career, and nurtures your social circle.
  • 38. A focus on women makes you needy, boring, and exhausting to be around.
  • 39. F O C U S O N R E S U LT • Women • Sex • Proving to your friends that you can get the hottest girls • Enjoying life • Improving yourself • Being a great friend Needy, egotistical man without real friends, who is boring and a pain in the ass to be around. Man who is happy, has interesting stories to tell, and is a positive and fun person to be around.
  • 40. F O C U S O N R E S U LT • Women • Sex • Proving to your friends that you can get the hottest girls • Enjoying life • Improving yourself • Being a great friend massively unattractive massively attractive
  • 41. L E S S O N # 2 Always be more invested in yourself than in women.
  • 42. Passively meeting new, attractive women regularly. E L E M E N T # 3
  • 43. An actor meets new attractive women passively though his job.
  • 44. The same is true for musicians, photographers, designers, barkeepers, and many other jobs.
  • 45. If you work in a job like that you automatically train your conversation skills with actual women, every single day!
  • 46. Just imagine how skilled at conversing and how desensitised against beauty you’d be if you had practiced every day for years.
  • 47. This is the main reason why the Ryan Goslings and George Clooneys of the world are so damn attractive to women.
  • 48. Not all of us work in professions that get us in touch with women, though.
  • 49. Especially the traditionally male-dominated finance and technology industries have this problem, but many other jobs as well.
  • 50. That’s why you need to compensate with social spare time activities.
  • 51. Most people’s way to achieve this is by going out to bars and night clubs.
  • 52.
  • 53. But, at least to me, stuffing myself into a filthy, dark, loud and overpriced venue, only to stand around and try to look as cool as possible, never made much sense.
  • 54. I always loved doing different sports, so the natural route for me was to join sports clubs.
  • 55. But you are different and there is not just one way to meet women passively though your spare time activities.
  • 56. Other possible options are art workshops, dance classes, book clubs, networking events, travel meetups, study groups, excursions, competitions,…
  • 57. L E S S O N # 3 Find an enjoyable activity that allows you to meet new women passively and your romantic success rate will soar.
  • 58. Moving as many activities as possible from indoors to outdoors. E L E M E N T # 3
  • 59. Everything, besides sleeping, that you do at home you can also do outside somewhere.
  • 60. And when you do, there are usually others who do the same.
  • 61.
  • 62. This makes talking to new people much easier, builds a habit of socializing with strangers and, thus, alleviates social anxiety.
  • 63. As an added benefit, leaving your home forces you to get dressed, groomed, get some sunlight and breath in fresh air.
  • 64. It acts like a stop sign for self- isolation and letting yourself go.
  • 65. L E S S O N # 4 Move as many activities as possible from the comfort of your home to the world out there.
  • 66. Saying “YES” to opportunities that could lead to romantic success — independently of others. E L E M E N T # 4
  • 67. Last summer I played some beach volleyball with a friend and a few women he had met prior to my arrival.
  • 68. We had a ton of fun and at the end of the day the girls asked us if we wanted to go out with them.
  • 69. I, being in a relationship, said “Thx, but no thx!”
  • 70. But my friend said, “Yes!”
  • 71. Even though I bailed on him, he was confident enough to join the girls alone.
  • 72.
  • 73. And guess what, he ended up with a really sexy, happiness exuding, life-loving, beach volleyball-playing lady that night.
  • 74. It might strike you as obvious to say yes to such an opportunity.
  • 75. But if it was, I wouldn’t get to hear so many examples of guys who were not ready for success.
  • 76. Lack of hygiene, uncleaned apartments, panic attacks, parents or friends intruding,… The list goes on and on.
  • 77. L E S S O N # 5 Always be ready for the best case to happen.
  • 78. Don’t let emotions control your life. Act in spite of them. E L E M E N T # 5
  • 79. Many people don’t realize that their negative emotions aren’t a genetically given but a result of their harmful lifestyle.
  • 80. I was one of these people.
  • 81. For years, I used to sit at home all day and work mostly from my living room.
  • 82. And after work, I turned on my PC or console and played League of Legends or GTA.
  • 83. As you can imagine, I didn’t get in touch with other people much.
  • 84. And as a result, I became increasingly scared of them.
  • 85. This resulted in more isolation.
  • 86.
  • 87. It got so far that I started to believe I was such an extreme introvert that I just couldn’t stand others and would always have to live in solitude.
  • 88. Fortunately, at some point I realized that this development seriously impaired my ability to get the results that I wanted in life and love.
  • 89. So I took counter measures.
  • 90. Guess what, the more I escaped my self-created isolation chamber at home, the more I enjoyed socializing and being around people.
  • 91. I still needed my alone time.
  • 92. But the thought of being around other humans didn’t scare me anymore.
  • 93. On the contrary, it suddenly was something I looked forward to.
  • 94. L E S S O N # 6 The things we believe to be unchangable parts of our character are often merely the result of our shitty lifestyles and can be changed just as easily.
  • 95. But how can you build a new lifestyle despite already leading a busy life?
  • 96. Like everyone else, you’ve only got 24 hours each day.
  • 97. And 24 hours isn’t enough time to do everything you want.
  • 98. So you’ve got to prioritize.
  • 99. Do you rather want to play video games at home or explore the city with an exciting woman?
  • 100. Do you want to work in a job that isolates you from others or do you want to be surrounded by people who inspire and motivate you?
  • 101. Do you want to live your life controlled by fear or do you want to make the most of this one chance you’ve been given?
  • 102. Ultimately it’s all up to you.
  • 103. If you value comfort and avoidance of fear and anxiety over a fulfilling life together with an exceptional woman then it’s perfectly fine to not change a thing.
  • 104. But if you want to live like few people ever will, then you need to make decisions based on what their long-term consequences for your life are and not how uncomfortable they make you short term.
  • 105. L E S S O N # 7 Every lifestyle choice you make bears consequences. Make sure you are aware of them and use them to your advantage.
  • 106. That’s it for today.
  • 107. Thank you so much for stopping by and listening to me!
  • 108. Hopefully I could help out with a few tips.
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