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2. One of the most common fears when
speaking to women you're attracted to
is how you're "performing" in a social
setting.

3. It's common to feel as if all eyes are on
you when walking up to a girl you've
been flirting with from across the
room.

4. Now, to be honest, a lot of guys ARE
watching you, and some of them DO
hope you fall on your face.

5. Why?

6. Because they are too terrified to
approach themselves, so if they see
you approach and succeed, it will
make them feel worse. But if you
approach and get blown out, it will
actually make them feel better.

7. One thing humans are exceptionally
good at is deceiving ourselves.

8. Now, if you were brutally honest with
yourself, the ONLY reason you don't
become an approach machine when
you're out where there's plenty of
single, attractive women is because of
fear or anxiety.

9. This is something most guys will
NEVER admit, even to themselves.

10. We tell ourselves things like, "Well, I'm
not in the mood," or "she's not my
type," or "I'm not in a place where I'm
ready for a relationship," or any self
con job.

11. How do I know these are self
deceptions?

12. Because if ANY of those women
walked up to you, talked to you for five
minutes, and then asked you to go
home with her for wild, uninhibited
sex, all of those "reasons" would
vanish.

13. You wouldn't tell her she's not your
type.

14. You wouldn't tell her you're not ready
for a relationship.

15. You wouldn't tell her you were just
hanging out with the boys.

16. So when you walk over there and fall
on your face, all those other guys who
are too terrified to make a move will
be able to feed their excuses.

17. "See, that's why I NEVER approach
girls, they LOVE shooting guys down!"

18. This, of course, is absolute nonsense.

19. I'm sure you've heard the crab theory.

20. Where a bunch of crabs are in a
bucket, and one crab starts to climb
out, and all other crabs drag him back
down.

21. It's kind of like that.

22. What's the answer?

23. Consider things from HER perspective.

24. If you simply get up and walk over
there, you're sending her a strong
signal.

25. That you aren't scared like those other
little boys.

26. That you're willing to take a risk,
instead of waiting around for a girl to
do all the work.

27. Just doing this will INCREASE your
attraction.

28. A lot.

29. And when you carry yourself with a
strong frame, one she'll LOVE to melt
into, you'll be even better.

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