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2. A lot of guys have a common problem
with women.

3. And that is that they are waiting for
some kind of obvious "green light"
that tells them it's OK.

4. This is normal. Nobody likes taking
risks.

5. We'd all love some perfect step by
step method that is guaranteed to
work.

6. Some paint by the numbers system
that gets us whatever we want,
especially affection from gorgeous
girls, without every having to put it on
the line.

7. The trouble is that NOTHING is certain.

8. All action requires risk.

9. Sure, some actions are so LOW in risk
they seem risk free.

10. Things like ordering a pizza, going to
the toilet in the middle of the night, or
anything else simple and routine that
we do over and over again.

11. But the simple truth of reality is that
we absolutely cannot predict the
future.

12. It's very common to be sitting there on
the couch or in the bar talking to the
girl of your dreams, and wondering
whether or not you should make a
move.

13. And many guys DON'T make a move,
and later claim that it was because
they weren't getting the right signals.

14. This is utter nonsense.

15. Let's take a step back and see this from
a scientific and biological perspective.

16. If a guy makes a move, and gets shot
down, he's going to feel like crap.

17. BUT it won't likely affect his social
standing.

18. Think about one of your buddies right
now.

19. Now imagine him making a move (not
an obscene or illegal move) and
getting shot down. Politely shot down,
not some girl screaming bloody
murder.

20. Now, how do you feel about him after
imagining that he tried and got shot
down?

21. Is he a social outcast?

22. Is he some pariah to be avoided?

23. Are the guys going to suddenly stop
talking when he comes around, and
look around in an uncomfortable
silence?

24. Nope.

25. If anything, he'll get more props for
trying.

26. Now imagine if a girl gave clear and
obvious signs that she wants to be
kissed.

27. And SHE gets shot down.

28. What would happen to her
reputation?

29. What would her friends say?

30. What would happen if she were
known as the girl who throws herself
at guys?

31. You know what would happen. Every
girl who knew her (and every guy)
would suddenly use different
adjectives to describe her.

32. (Easy, for example.)

33. So if you are waiting for a girl to make
it obvious she wants you to kiss her, or
touch her, or ask for her number,
you're going to be waiting a long time.

34. Not fair?

35. Maybe not.

36. But so what?

37. If you want success, you're going to
have to make a move. A risky move.

38. As the great founder of Sony once
said, "If you want to double your
success rate, simply double your
failure rate!"

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