The document critiques the excuses made by individuals, particularly men, for their struggles in finding fulfilling relationships, highlighting a common refrain that 'the world is broken.' It argues that while childhood experiences shape individuals, many use these experiences to avoid taking responsibility and effort in relationship-building. The author encourages readers to actively pursue their ideal partners by understanding mutual attraction and putting in the necessary work to find fulfilling connections.

2. It doesn't take much effort find so
called "game experts" bemoaning the
state of male-female relationships
these days.

3. If you dig beneath the surface, what
many of these "gurus" are really
teaching is a very complicated
philosophical "proof" that is based on
the oldest excuse in the book.

4. "It's Not My Fault."

5. Now, this is a very touchy subject.

6. On the one hand, very few people had
ideal childhoods.

7. And it's no secret that something as
emotionally deep and powerful as
male-female relationships is HIGHLY
dependent on how well you were
"raised" in this regard.

8. To be certain, those things that
happened to you as a kid were
absolutely NOT your fault.

9. But that's not what I'm talking about.

10. I'm talking about guys who claim they
can't get laid, or find the ideal woman,
or find WHATEVER they want, because
of a variation of an age old argument
that will simply not die.

11. "The World Is Broken."

12. If you were to develop some invisible
time machine that had a universal
translator so you could travel around
and listen in on various people belly
aching about pretty much ANY kind of
"lack," you'd hear the same argument.

13. "It was much better in the good old
days."

14. "This generation has gotten a raw
deal."

15. "There just aren't any X out there. I've
looked."

16. X can be jobs, girls, plots of land to
build a cabin, places to prospect for
gold, rocks to throw at zebras, you
name it.

17. Why is this argument so popular?

18. Because it's incredibly easy.

19. It takes no risk.

20. It takes little mental effort.

21. It's very common so you'll always have
good company.

22. (misery loves company, eh?)

23. AND it protects you from taking risks,
failing, or doing ANYTHING
uncomfortable.

24. But guess what?

25. When it comes to girls, WHATEVER you
want, you can get.

26. So long as you are willing to do what it
takes to get it.

27. The strategy is simple.

28. Choose your criteria.

29. Looks, personality, belief, religion,
family background, etc.

30. Then simply start sorting.

31. AND realize that your dream girl must
be attracted to you as much as you'll
be attracted to her.

32. Many guys miss this obvious point.

33. They think any kind of "work" they do
is not dependent on her subjective
desires.

34. Your job is to NOT ONLY find a girl who
meets your criteria, but to meet a girl
that thinks YOU meet HER criteria.

35. This, unquestionably, is a LOT of work.

36. And it's understandable if you don't
want to put in that much work.

37. Just don't kid yourself.

38. Don't say, "The market sucks."

39. Or "There aren't any quality women."

40. At least do yourself the courtesy of
telling yourself the truth:

41. "I probably could find my dream girl,
but I'm too scared, and I'm too lazy."

42. But if you really DO want to find her,
(and you should because the benefits
are better than ANYTHING on planet
Earth), then get busy.

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