15. LEARNINGSTUDIO
People don’t want to communicate with an organization or a computer. They want to
talk to a real, live, responsive, responsible person who will listen and help them get
satisfaction.
General George S. Patton
INTRODUCTION
INTERPERSONAL FLAIR?
21. LEARNINGSTUDIO
People
think
as
fast
as
650
words/minute.
The
speaking
capacity
of
humans
is
slower:
around
100-‐200
words/minute
55%
of
our
message
meaning
is
non-‐verbal;
38%
is
indicated
by
tone
of
voice;
7%
by
words.
We
spend
about
45%
of
our
waking
hours
listening
to
someone.
We
remember
about
20%
of
what
we
hear
25. LEARNINGSTUDIO
R
O
L
E
S
If
you
look
tense,
the
other
person
will
sense
this
and
become
tense,
too.
Crossed
arms
or
legs,
or
holding
something
2ghtly,
signals
that
you
are
defending
yourself
against
something.
Lean
slightly
toward
the
other
person.
Look
at
the
other
person,
but
do
not
stare.
Face
the
other
person
squarely,
and
smile.
Turning
away
means
“I’m
not
listening.”
RELAX
OPEN
LEAN
EYE
CONTACT
SQUARELY
32. LEARNINGSTUDIO
Small
talk
is
the
ice-‐breaking
part
of
a
conversa2on;
it
is
the
way
strangers
can
ease
into
comfortable
rapport
with
one
another.
Mastering
the
art
of
small
talk
can
open
many
personal
and
professional
doors.
Ordway
Tead
making
small
talk
and
moving
beyond
37. LEARNINGSTUDIO
The
skill
of
influencing
others
is
a
valuable
asset
to
have;
it
can
help
us
sell
products
and
ideas,
convince
people
and
ins2tu2ons
to
assist
us,
and
even
get
the
world
to
change!
Clint
Eastwood
influencing
skills
42. LEARNINGSTUDIO
INTERPRETATIONS
• CombinaOon
of
facts
and
assumpOons
to
generate
hypothesis
ASSERTIONS
• Statements
made
out
of
confidence
OPINIONS
• Beliefs
or
conclusions
made
with
confident
JUDGMENTS
• Opinions
or
percepOons
made
a`er
given
certain
amount
of
thoughts
44. LEARNINGSTUDIO
You
don’t
know
the
answer,
but
you
will
find
it
Explain
why
you
have
to
say
no
Offer
alternates
Offer
proof
Explain
why
you
need
informaOon
Turn around a difficult customer
45. LEARNINGSTUDIO
Some
people
stand
out,
while
others
fade
into
the
background.
But
if
you
want
to
make
the
most
of
interpersonal
rela2onships,
you
have
to
be
able
to
leave
a
lingering
posi2ve
impression
on
the
people
that
you
meet.
Dalai
Lama
making
an
impact
47. LEARNINGSTUDIO
Dress
for
Success
“You
never
have
a
second
chance
to
make
a
first
impression”
image
consultants
“The
apparel
ojen
proclaims
the
man”
William
Shakespeare
52. LEARNINGSTUDIO
points to ponder
Focus
on
what
is
important
to
the
other
person
Respect
boundaries
Make
requests,
not
demands
Note
non-‐
verbal
behavior
53. LEARNINGSTUDIO
FORWARD
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YOU
57. LEARNINGSTUDIO
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