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   Increase in the early 1990s

 More familiar with the costs and benefits


 Intimacy and companionship


 Romance and sexual expression
 Slow and complex


 Balancing career, kids, extended family and new
 marriage

 Takes an estimated 4-7 years to adjust.
 40% of remarriages (with kids) separate by 4 years.


 By 10 years, 47% of those with kids separate.


 Higher separation/divorce rate than 1st marriages
Mistake                        Failure
 Difficulties with children    Unable to establish
  cause the split.               stable family system

                                Bringing in old
 Occurs early (first 5
                                issues, habits.
  years)

                                Work and in-laws
 Rushed, did not consider      prevent the stabilizing of
  feelings of children          new marriage.
 Bringing baggage, previous marriage


 Unsettled emotional issues


 Greater involvement in work – later life


 New marital, spouse and parent roles to rework


 Inability to form new family habits
 Unrealistic expectations for the marriage
Recovery, Inclusion, Marital Sub-System
 Emotional, social and physical strain of first marriage


 “getting over” grief, anger, jealousy, resentment


 Achieving stability on your
own before 2nd marriage
 Consider new family, kids and current in-laws


 How will the new family system operate?


 Open or closed? Contact with ex-spouses?


 Crucial for benefit of
children
 Establishing sub-system of how new family will
 function

 Clear boundaries for both partners


 Decide priorities – parental and spousal


 Emphasize “we” problem solving
 More practical than romantic


 Supporting and raising children


 Supporting each other in later life


 Can deal with conflict despite “eyes” of kids, in-laws,
  ex-spouses.
 Parent-child relationships is older than the new
 marriage.

 Stigma and stereotyping


 Intruder?


 Resent attempts at intimacy.
 Re-adjustment of birth
order status

 Rivalry caused by conflicting
personalities

 Parent loyalty, “siding”


 “sudden siblings” and repressed
attraction
 No obvious ones!


 Least successful?
   Don’t try to be a “healer”
   Those that demand intimacy


 Most successful?
   Between parent and trusted friend
   Model after in-laws
Traditional Benefits       Practical Costs
 Dual income               Little improvement to
                             child’s well-being
 Financial stability
                            Child distress and
                            mental health issues
 Partner support
  (emotional and social)    Educational difficulty

 “two heads” are better    Worse for boys than girls
 Remarriage later in life


 Need for adult children’s approval
   Loyalty to old parent
   Assume the worst (marry for money)


 This stage in life remarriage indicates earlier successes


 Men are more likely to remarry than women.

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HHS 4M1 - Remarriage and Stepfamilies

  • 1.
  • 2.
  • 3. Increase in the early 1990s  More familiar with the costs and benefits  Intimacy and companionship  Romance and sexual expression
  • 4.  Slow and complex  Balancing career, kids, extended family and new marriage  Takes an estimated 4-7 years to adjust.
  • 5.  40% of remarriages (with kids) separate by 4 years.  By 10 years, 47% of those with kids separate.  Higher separation/divorce rate than 1st marriages
  • 6. Mistake Failure  Difficulties with children  Unable to establish cause the split. stable family system  Bringing in old  Occurs early (first 5 issues, habits. years)  Work and in-laws  Rushed, did not consider prevent the stabilizing of feelings of children new marriage.
  • 7.  Bringing baggage, previous marriage  Unsettled emotional issues  Greater involvement in work – later life  New marital, spouse and parent roles to rework  Inability to form new family habits  Unrealistic expectations for the marriage
  • 9.  Emotional, social and physical strain of first marriage  “getting over” grief, anger, jealousy, resentment  Achieving stability on your own before 2nd marriage
  • 10.  Consider new family, kids and current in-laws  How will the new family system operate?  Open or closed? Contact with ex-spouses?  Crucial for benefit of children
  • 11.  Establishing sub-system of how new family will function  Clear boundaries for both partners  Decide priorities – parental and spousal  Emphasize “we” problem solving
  • 12.  More practical than romantic  Supporting and raising children  Supporting each other in later life  Can deal with conflict despite “eyes” of kids, in-laws, ex-spouses.
  • 13.
  • 14.  Parent-child relationships is older than the new marriage.  Stigma and stereotyping  Intruder?  Resent attempts at intimacy.
  • 15.  Re-adjustment of birth order status  Rivalry caused by conflicting personalities  Parent loyalty, “siding”  “sudden siblings” and repressed attraction
  • 16.  No obvious ones!  Least successful?  Don’t try to be a “healer”  Those that demand intimacy  Most successful?  Between parent and trusted friend  Model after in-laws
  • 17. Traditional Benefits Practical Costs  Dual income  Little improvement to child’s well-being  Financial stability  Child distress and mental health issues  Partner support (emotional and social)  Educational difficulty  “two heads” are better  Worse for boys than girls
  • 18.  Remarriage later in life  Need for adult children’s approval  Loyalty to old parent  Assume the worst (marry for money)  This stage in life remarriage indicates earlier successes  Men are more likely to remarry than women.