This document discusses what makes relationships healthy and unhealthy. Healthy relationships are based on respect, open communication, honesty, trust, compromise, support and independence. Partners in healthy relationships listen to each other, value opinions, understand feelings, are honest without anger, and support each other during good and bad times. Unhealthy relationships involve abuse, control, disrespect, criticism, pressure, unrealistic expectations and sole dependence on the partner. The document provides resources at the University of New Hampshire for people seeking help with unhealthy relationships.