This document discusses personal relationships and how to express care for others. It defines three main types of relationships: family, friends, and partnerships. It emphasizes showing love through acts of service, spending quality time together, expressing gratitude, and resolving conflicts respectfully. Healthy relationships require traits like honesty, kindness, respect and responsibility. The document provides guidance on maintaining strong relationships and tips for communicating care through notes, gifts, and shared experiences.

3. Discussion Rules
1. Listen
2. follow
3. pass

4. “ I Relate”
This activity is about knowing people, thing, animals who
have connections in you. The teacher will ask the students to
draw a simple map on the board showing their connections
with people.

5. Relationships

7. Up or Down

8. Up or Down

9. Mixed

10. Basic
- a relation between people; a
state of connectedness between
people (especially an
emotional connection).

11. Mixed
PREOSANL
RAELANIOTISHP

12. Basic
- relationships between
people, especially those
between friends, lovers and
family.

13. Relationships are not static; they are continually evolving, and to fully enjoy and
benefit from them we need skills, information, inspiration, practice, and social
support.
In our model there are three kinds of personal relationships:
- FAMILY
-FRIENDS
- PARTNERSHIPS

14. The concept of "family" is an essential component in any discussion of
relationships, but this varies greatly from person to person. The Bureau of the
Census defines family as "two or more persons who are related by birth,
marriage, or adoption and who live together as one household." But many people
have family they don't live with or to whom they are not bonded by love, and the
roles of family vary across cultures as well as throughout your own lifetime.

15. A friendship can be thought of as a close tie between two people that is often built
upon mutual experiences, shared interests, proximity, and emotional bonding.
Friends are able to turn to each other in times of need. Nicholas Christakis and
James Fowler, social-network researchers and authors of the book Connected, find
that the average person has about six close ties—though some have more, and
many have only one or none.

16. Romantic partnerships, including marriage, are close relationships formed
between two people that are built upon affection, trust, intimacy, and
romantic love. We usually experience this kind of relationship with only one
person at a time.

17. Mixed
LVOE

18. Basic
- strong affection for another arising out of kinship
or personalities.
- attraction based on sexual desire: affection and
tenderness felt by lovers
- affection based on admiration, benevolence, or
common interests.

19. Mixed
CMMOTIMNET

20. Basic
- the act of binding yourself
(intellectually or emotionally) to
a course of action.

21. Mixed
ARTTATCION

22. Basic
- attractive quality; magnetic charm;
fascination; allurement; enticement
- a person or thing that draws, attracts,
allures, or entices.

23. Mixed
RSEPNOISIBLITY

24. Basic
- a form of trustworthiness; the trait
of being answerable to someone for
something or being responsible for
one’s conduct.

25. Important?
Healthy relationships are a vital component of
health and well-being.
There is compelling evidence that strong
relationships contribute to a long, healthy, and
happy life. Conversely, the health risks from
being alone or isolated in one's life are
comparable to the risks associated with
cigarette smoking, blood pressure, and
obesity.

26. Research shows that healthy relationships can
help you:
• Live longer. A review of 148 studies found that people
with strong social relationships are 50% less likely to
die prematurely.
• Deal with stress. The support offered by a caring
friend can provide a buffer against
the effects of stress.
• Be healthier. According to research by psychologist
Sheldon Cohen, college students who reported having
strong relationships were half as likely to catch a
common cold when exposed to the virus.

27. How do you
express your love?

28. M. Scott Peck defined love as a energy in
oneself that seeks the goodness and welfare of
the other.
Here are 10 ways to express love to your
special someone, your friends, family,
children. By expressing love, we bring
ourselves joy knowing that love is not just a
Valentine's

29. 1. Express gratitude.
Tell someone how much
you appreciate their
presence in
your life.
2. Send Flowers.
Do it for no reason
other than to say
“ Thank you for being
you”.

30. 3. Set aside time. Give
the gift of listening.
Make a date if you must,
in your own home or at
a quiet little
neighborhood place, for
coffee or a drink and
just listen to each other’s
thoughts.
4. Keep anger at bay.
During stressful times
think of this image. If
an ember flies
from a fireplace onto
your rug, it will burn a
hole. Flick it off
immediately and the
rug is safe.

31. 5. Be thoughtfully
generous with gifts.
Remember what is
special about a person
in your life and buy gifts
that are unique to them.
6. Order fortune
cookies. Find ones
with love sayings. You
might also intersperse
with gratitude sayings.

32. 7. Offer an act of
kindness. Say to your
love or someone you
care about, “What
can I do for you today
that will make your life
easier and less
stressful?” Then
do it.
8. Write a note. Here’s
a simple start: “I am
so grateful that you
are in my life. I
love you for a million
reasons. Here are the
top three.”

33. 9. Make time. Arrange
to be together for events
that bring you both
pleasure.
10.Be forgiving. We all
have quirks. When
one surfaces that
makes you want to
scream, either gently
say something or
switch to the positive-
quality channel.

34. HOW TO BE RESPONSIBLE
IN A RELATIONSHIP?
WHAT ARE THE WAYS TO
BE RESPONSIBLE IN A
RELATIONSHIP?

35. In a healthy relationship, both partners:
✓ Are treated with kindness and respect
✓ Are honest with each other
✓ Like to spend time together
✓ Take an interest in things that are important
to each other
✓ Respect one another’s emotional, physical and
sexual limits
✓ Can speak honestly about their feelings.

36. Love should never hurt
Dating relationships can be wonderful! But while it’s important
that dating partners care for each other, it’s just as important that
you take care of yourself!
About 10% of high school students say they have suffered
violence from someone they date. This includes physical abuse
where someone causes physical pain or injury to another person.
This can involve hitting, slapping, or kicking.
Sexual abuse is also a type of violence, and involves any kind of
unwanted sexual advance.
Emotional abuse is anything that harms your self-esteem or
causes shame. This includes saying things that hurt your feelings,
make you feel that you aren’t worthwhile, or trying to control
who you see or where you go.

37. Remember: You deserve healthy, happy relationships. Abuse of any
type is never okay.
BASIC RIGHTS IN A RELATIONSHIP
❖ The right to emotional support
❖ The right to be heard by the other and to respond
❖ The right has your own point of view, even if this differs from
your partner’s
In addition to these basic relationships’ rights, consider how you can
develop patience, honesty, kindness, and respect.

38. Patience: Patience is essential to a healthy relationship. There are
times when others will respond to us in a way that is disappointing.
Honesty: Honesty is another essential quality in healthy
relationships.
Kindness: Kindness is extremely important to maintaining healthy
relationships. Kindness will nurture your relationship.
Respect: Respect is cornerstone of all healthy relationships. If you
don’t have respect for another person, it will have a negative impact
on all of your interactions.

39. ” It’s Time to Show”,
this activity is about performing an activity
that shows the importance of personal
relationships through differentiated tasks.
The teacher will group the students into
group and they will perform the task that
was assigned to them.

40. Group 1: Song
Imagine that one of your siblings will
get married and you are asked to
compose a song expressing your
feelings with your sibling on her
wedding day.

41. Group 2: Role Play
The Christmas Day is coming! Perform a
role play on how you express your love in
your family especially during holiday.

42. Group 2: Role Play
The Christmas Day is coming! Perform a
role play on how you express your love in
your family especially during holiday.

43. Group 3: Poem
Imagine that you were chosen as one of
the presenters in “Family Day” activity in
your school. Your task is to write a poem
expressing your feelings to your family.

44. Group 4: Letter
One of your friends wrote a letter to you
asking your advice about strengthening
personal relationship. Your task is to write a
response letter to your friend giving
expressing your sympathy and giving advice
about personal relationship.

45. Criteria:
Content - 10
Organization - 10
Cooperation - 10

46. You