Founded by Willliam Schultz 1960
Foundational Inter-Relations Orientation
6 Scales
9 item questions
AIG
2015.NOV.04
Who's Who , Reference
 Gary smalley ] 5 way of love
 Edward Deci ] Internal Needs C R A
 John Maxwell ]
 Anne Manning
 Trainer: Achieve global
Key Questions
1. Biggest challenges for leaders? Empowerment + retain
2. Why so ? Approvals + positive path
Key Areas
 Individual Performance
 Dealing with Ambiguity
 Team Performance
 Building Effective Teams
 Developing Direct Reports and Others
 Managerial Courage
 Peer Relationships
 Client Relationships
 Informing
 Business Performance
 Drive for Results
Create a Leadership Profile
 B-DRIPS ] Zones
 business diversity reflection
ingenuity people society
 zones tension short term mental energy assess hail
 Johari Kaplan learning model
 USDB
 unknown struggle doing being
 John Maxwell 5 levels of leadership permission productive .
 JM LEADERSHIP = influence * inspire
Profile * template * interpret * swot == WAC
learn engage remember practice
Link to strategy.. 6 principles
CLIMatIC
 Confidence / Self esteem ] insult defense + resilience and
embrace change
 Lead by example ] hail +open to new overseas
 Situation Issues not people ] focus
 Moment beyond ] long term+ trust+ outcome +
 Initiative ] forward+ anticipate + not victim
 Constructive relationship ] leverage divergences
5 Leadership qualities VICtIM
 Visionary ]
 Intelligent ]
 Collaborative ]
 Inventive ]
 Mindful ] hail
Line of sight DiSC-CC
 Firearm etymology
 Deliver ] tailor
 Spheres of control influence message
 Control influence out of
 Clarify ] org external emotion
 Compose ] WAC = goal factors as is Plan action roles
Crafting the message
affirmation+ acts of service + touch + gift +quality
time
needs based feedback
 Genuine 2 way
 clear reasons for structures and actions
 collaboration on solutions next steps
 links solution to psychological needs
3 psycho needs
 Edward deci
 self determination theory
 Competence
 Relatedness
 Autonomy
Better than External which is rewards and
recognition
Situ + needs + impacts + solutions
Frame + needs perspective + impact+ solutions
way forward
Language as a barrier?
 Control words and needs supported lang
 3v = verb 7 + vocal 38 + visual 55
 Albert maraubin UCLA
Receiving feedback
 Ease the exchange ] courage + non defensive + receptivity +
encourage to express
 Focus on message = irritation, motives, not person,
explaining
 Listen understand ]
 Decide action
Tony Buzan Cues
 201. NeCTar Nectar drips == understand leadership profile B-drips [ business diversity
reflection ingenuity people society ] Assess leader profile
 202. NiShaNA == target [ USDB [ Johari Kaplan learning model [ unknowns struggle
doing being
 203. 5 Levels Leader John Maxwell== permission productive .
 204. NeCRo [ influence * inspire JM LEADERSHIP
 205. NoZZLe [ Leader WAC = Profile * template * interpret * swot * plan * do
 206. 6 principles for Msg CLIMatIC [ Confidence/SE, Lead by Ex , Issues, Moment
beyond, Initiative, Constructive Rel
 207. 5 Leader Quals VICtIM [ Vision, Inventive, Collaborative, Intelligent, Mindful
 208. MSG = Clarity, Compose, , Deliver, Tailor
 209. 4 Steps Review = benchmark ++ outcome / merits ++ highlight / value ++
express/smart, Timing
 210 5 Lang of Love Dr Gary Smalley ] STTAG affirmation+ acts of service + touch +
gift +quality time
 211 5 ways of saying sorry [ Dr Gary Smalley
 212 feedback Mind SACRiLeGiCS== Genuine 2 way ++ clear reasons ++ Str..actions
++ collaborative solutions ++ links to needs
 213 3 Psycho Needs [ Edward deci, SDT , [ Competence, Relatedness, Autonomy
 214 Feedback Method [ SINuS ] Situ + needs + impacts + solutions
 215 Language barriers [ Control words ++ 3V, Albert maraubin UCLA ++ Listen
Dale Carnegie high Impact
Presentations
 2015.1119
 AIG
 Purabi Mitra >> DC 1/15 ++ HSBC, 13Y [
purabi_mitra@dalecarnegieIndia.com [
 Sushant Singha >> Airtel, 15Y, 1.%Y in DC
40% Bored ++ 44% Sleepy ++ 3 % Impact
Albert Meharabiyan UCLA
research on how we impact others 3V 7 + 38 + 55
You are the message
The guy who trained presidents like Bush, clinton ,
Obama
Prepare, 48H for a 30 Min presentation [ DRL GV
PRasad ]
A speaker who starts nowhere, usually gets there!!
Talk is a voyage, mmust be charted, planned like in
combat like Art of War, A Science
if you have a specific point, be a pile driver, dont be
subtle or clever, repeat atleast 3 times
I make it a point to believe only what i Understand
the most immutable barrier in nature is between 1
mans thoughts and anothers
speak not so that you may be understood, but so
that you may not be misunderstood
my way of openning and winning an argument is to
first find a common ground of agreement
If you want to cut a tree spend 80% of the time
sharpening the Axe
Presentation Zen >> 3 rules = simple, brevity,
clarity
Structure
CONTENT
DELIVERY
Habit [ Charles Duhigg
Switch [ D&C Heath
Ben Horowitz
5 Drivers
 Professionalism
 Clarity & FORCE
 Positive Impressioons
 Natural & Relaxed
 Sell Ideas & Inspire
NOTE on Impact
 Appearance ++ How we communicate ++ Attitude, self
control ++ Relate to people ++ prof competence
 outcomes >> Impact ++ Pressure ++ Motivate ++ Enable
Change
 LOOK ++ DO ++ SPEAK [HOW ] ++ SAY [ What ]
NOTE on build Rapport
 feel the honor ++ HAIL ++ mention names ++ play yourself
down ++ we not you ++ listeners interests ++ have a good
time ++ dont apologize ++ NObler emotions ++ welcome
criticism ++ be a Good person skilled in speaking
 3P [ Present ++
Message the HOw
 CRA internal needs
 What ++ Why - Purpose ++ Business Objectives
 Selling session >> pitch to Carlos on increased resources
EXEX Sci Value Add Deal
 spoke for 90 s on pitching Value add to sci
 Feedback >> -- Movement shifty -- Eye Contact cna improve
-- pleasing, smile -- assertion ++ composture, engaging, ++
fluency 66% ++ Hand gesture
Key aspects to knowing the
audience
 Profile the Audience ++ 7C of communication {g44}
 Power of 3 [ bring on Tomorrow ] not more than 3 words,
nemes! 13:00
 How does that help us do our work better >> Hidden
positives
TRUST ++ RESPECT ++ CREDIBILITY Triangle
3 parts to the message
 Open
 Statements {analogy, startle, good news} , Questions { gain info,
participation, agreement }, Stories, Compliments
 Body
 Argument .. For Choice… then 3 options, going from negative to
positive
 Benefit, Value, Evidence
 Evidence ] Truth DEFEATS Doubt
○ Demos + Examples + Facts + Exhibits + Analogies + Testimonials +
Statistics
 Message == Magic Formula of Dale Carnegie
○ Incident 90 ++ Action 5 ++ Benefit 5 [ spend most time relating to a
incident that inspires motivates that relate an action and a benefit
 Close
 Impress {benefit, quote} , Inform {steps, Actions, key points} ,
Persuade {Action/Benefit, Reco }, Inspire {challenge, noble motives
appeal}
Managing PR
 composure ++ Results Oriented ++ pleasing ++ not personal
but Facts ++ Attitude ++ staid and steadfast
Open2 ++ Close2 ] MJ MD and VR
4P..
 Plan Prepare, Practice Presence
 Knowing the audience
 Sales Pitch
 Start with soft positives
 Power of 3 ..
 convince ++ Inflluence ++ Persuade
Control, Direction, LIsten to understand dont react
++ Paraphrase ++ Empathy / Cushion ++ Respond
not react

HR Training Sessions

  • 1.
    Founded by WillliamSchultz 1960 Foundational Inter-Relations Orientation 6 Scales 9 item questions
  • 2.
  • 3.
    Who's Who ,Reference  Gary smalley ] 5 way of love  Edward Deci ] Internal Needs C R A  John Maxwell ]  Anne Manning  Trainer: Achieve global
  • 4.
    Key Questions 1. Biggestchallenges for leaders? Empowerment + retain 2. Why so ? Approvals + positive path
  • 5.
    Key Areas  IndividualPerformance  Dealing with Ambiguity  Team Performance  Building Effective Teams  Developing Direct Reports and Others  Managerial Courage  Peer Relationships  Client Relationships  Informing  Business Performance  Drive for Results
  • 6.
    Create a LeadershipProfile  B-DRIPS ] Zones  business diversity reflection ingenuity people society  zones tension short term mental energy assess hail  Johari Kaplan learning model  USDB  unknown struggle doing being  John Maxwell 5 levels of leadership permission productive .  JM LEADERSHIP = influence * inspire
  • 7.
    Profile * template* interpret * swot == WAC
  • 8.
  • 9.
    Link to strategy..6 principles CLIMatIC  Confidence / Self esteem ] insult defense + resilience and embrace change  Lead by example ] hail +open to new overseas  Situation Issues not people ] focus  Moment beyond ] long term+ trust+ outcome +  Initiative ] forward+ anticipate + not victim  Constructive relationship ] leverage divergences
  • 10.
    5 Leadership qualitiesVICtIM  Visionary ]  Intelligent ]  Collaborative ]  Inventive ]  Mindful ] hail
  • 11.
    Line of sightDiSC-CC  Firearm etymology  Deliver ] tailor  Spheres of control influence message  Control influence out of  Clarify ] org external emotion  Compose ] WAC = goal factors as is Plan action roles
  • 13.
  • 14.
    affirmation+ acts ofservice + touch + gift +quality time
  • 17.
    needs based feedback Genuine 2 way  clear reasons for structures and actions  collaboration on solutions next steps  links solution to psychological needs
  • 18.
    3 psycho needs Edward deci  self determination theory  Competence  Relatedness  Autonomy
  • 19.
    Better than Externalwhich is rewards and recognition
  • 20.
    Situ + needs+ impacts + solutions Frame + needs perspective + impact+ solutions way forward
  • 21.
    Language as abarrier?  Control words and needs supported lang  3v = verb 7 + vocal 38 + visual 55  Albert maraubin UCLA
  • 22.
    Receiving feedback  Easethe exchange ] courage + non defensive + receptivity + encourage to express  Focus on message = irritation, motives, not person, explaining  Listen understand ]  Decide action
  • 23.
    Tony Buzan Cues 201. NeCTar Nectar drips == understand leadership profile B-drips [ business diversity reflection ingenuity people society ] Assess leader profile  202. NiShaNA == target [ USDB [ Johari Kaplan learning model [ unknowns struggle doing being  203. 5 Levels Leader John Maxwell== permission productive .  204. NeCRo [ influence * inspire JM LEADERSHIP  205. NoZZLe [ Leader WAC = Profile * template * interpret * swot * plan * do  206. 6 principles for Msg CLIMatIC [ Confidence/SE, Lead by Ex , Issues, Moment beyond, Initiative, Constructive Rel  207. 5 Leader Quals VICtIM [ Vision, Inventive, Collaborative, Intelligent, Mindful  208. MSG = Clarity, Compose, , Deliver, Tailor  209. 4 Steps Review = benchmark ++ outcome / merits ++ highlight / value ++ express/smart, Timing  210 5 Lang of Love Dr Gary Smalley ] STTAG affirmation+ acts of service + touch + gift +quality time  211 5 ways of saying sorry [ Dr Gary Smalley  212 feedback Mind SACRiLeGiCS== Genuine 2 way ++ clear reasons ++ Str..actions ++ collaborative solutions ++ links to needs  213 3 Psycho Needs [ Edward deci, SDT , [ Competence, Relatedness, Autonomy  214 Feedback Method [ SINuS ] Situ + needs + impacts + solutions  215 Language barriers [ Control words ++ 3V, Albert maraubin UCLA ++ Listen
  • 24.
    Dale Carnegie highImpact Presentations  2015.1119  AIG  Purabi Mitra >> DC 1/15 ++ HSBC, 13Y [ purabi_mitra@dalecarnegieIndia.com [  Sushant Singha >> Airtel, 15Y, 1.%Y in DC
  • 25.
    40% Bored ++44% Sleepy ++ 3 % Impact Albert Meharabiyan UCLA research on how we impact others 3V 7 + 38 + 55
  • 26.
    You are themessage The guy who trained presidents like Bush, clinton , Obama
  • 27.
    Prepare, 48H fora 30 Min presentation [ DRL GV PRasad ]
  • 28.
    A speaker whostarts nowhere, usually gets there!! Talk is a voyage, mmust be charted, planned like in combat like Art of War, A Science
  • 29.
    if you havea specific point, be a pile driver, dont be subtle or clever, repeat atleast 3 times
  • 30.
    I make ita point to believe only what i Understand
  • 31.
    the most immutablebarrier in nature is between 1 mans thoughts and anothers
  • 32.
    speak not sothat you may be understood, but so that you may not be misunderstood
  • 33.
    my way ofopenning and winning an argument is to first find a common ground of agreement If you want to cut a tree spend 80% of the time sharpening the Axe
  • 34.
    Presentation Zen >>3 rules = simple, brevity, clarity
  • 35.
  • 36.
    Habit [ CharlesDuhigg Switch [ D&C Heath Ben Horowitz
  • 37.
    5 Drivers  Professionalism Clarity & FORCE  Positive Impressioons  Natural & Relaxed  Sell Ideas & Inspire
  • 38.
    NOTE on Impact Appearance ++ How we communicate ++ Attitude, self control ++ Relate to people ++ prof competence  outcomes >> Impact ++ Pressure ++ Motivate ++ Enable Change  LOOK ++ DO ++ SPEAK [HOW ] ++ SAY [ What ]
  • 39.
    NOTE on buildRapport  feel the honor ++ HAIL ++ mention names ++ play yourself down ++ we not you ++ listeners interests ++ have a good time ++ dont apologize ++ NObler emotions ++ welcome criticism ++ be a Good person skilled in speaking  3P [ Present ++
  • 40.
    Message the HOw CRA internal needs  What ++ Why - Purpose ++ Business Objectives  Selling session >> pitch to Carlos on increased resources
  • 41.
    EXEX Sci ValueAdd Deal  spoke for 90 s on pitching Value add to sci  Feedback >> -- Movement shifty -- Eye Contact cna improve -- pleasing, smile -- assertion ++ composture, engaging, ++ fluency 66% ++ Hand gesture
  • 42.
    Key aspects toknowing the audience  Profile the Audience ++ 7C of communication {g44}  Power of 3 [ bring on Tomorrow ] not more than 3 words, nemes! 13:00  How does that help us do our work better >> Hidden positives
  • 43.
    TRUST ++ RESPECT++ CREDIBILITY Triangle
  • 44.
    3 parts tothe message  Open  Statements {analogy, startle, good news} , Questions { gain info, participation, agreement }, Stories, Compliments  Body  Argument .. For Choice… then 3 options, going from negative to positive  Benefit, Value, Evidence  Evidence ] Truth DEFEATS Doubt ○ Demos + Examples + Facts + Exhibits + Analogies + Testimonials + Statistics  Message == Magic Formula of Dale Carnegie ○ Incident 90 ++ Action 5 ++ Benefit 5 [ spend most time relating to a incident that inspires motivates that relate an action and a benefit  Close  Impress {benefit, quote} , Inform {steps, Actions, key points} , Persuade {Action/Benefit, Reco }, Inspire {challenge, noble motives appeal}
  • 45.
    Managing PR  composure++ Results Oriented ++ pleasing ++ not personal but Facts ++ Attitude ++ staid and steadfast
  • 46.
    Open2 ++ Close2] MJ MD and VR
  • 47.
    4P..  Plan Prepare,Practice Presence  Knowing the audience  Sales Pitch  Start with soft positives  Power of 3 ..  convince ++ Inflluence ++ Persuade
  • 48.
    Control, Direction, LIstento understand dont react ++ Paraphrase ++ Empathy / Cushion ++ Respond not react