The document provides tips for easily approaching and opening a conversation with anybody. It recommends pacing yourself by acknowledging that you are interrupting them and keeping things brief initially. The suggested introductory line does this by explaining that you became interested after making eye contact and introducing yourself while implying your conversation will be short. This approach aims to make the person feel relaxed by having them listen to a description of what just occurred rather than putting them on the spot.

1. How To Easily
Approach And
Open Anybody

2. Any time you start a conversation with
somebody, you are breaking rapport.

3. Unless they've specifically and
consciously asked you to come over
and start talking to them, you're going
to be interrupting them.

4. Even if they were speaking, they were
thinking about something, which
means you've basically made that
"record scratch" sound in their brain as
you interject yourself.

5. That's why the first few moments of
any pick up is crucial.

6. On the one hand, you've got to be
confident, on the other hand, you
don't want to seem to aggressive.

7. Movie stars that have parades of
women following them everywhere
can quickly turn a girl off by being to
arrogant and abrasive.

8. So, what's the best way?

9. Firstly, you want to make it as EASY on
her as possible.

10. If you walk up and just say, "hi," you'll
put her on the spot.

11. Unless you are super gorgeous, she
will start to feel a little anxiety.

12. Luckily, this is easy to overcome.

13. The easiest way to create rapport is to
pace.

14. Pace means simply saying or doing
things that are congruent with what's
going on.

15. Either in the world around her, and in
her mind.

16. So here's the perfect "line:"

17. "Excuse me, I know I'm interrupting,
and I just wanted to say something.

18. I saw you sitting over here, and after
we made eye contact, I suddenly
became interested in you.

19. My name's George, what's yours?"

20. This does a bunch of things.

21. One is you say right off the bat that
you are interrupting her.

22. Second, you use the phrase "just
wanted" which implies you aren't
going to launch into some three hour
political diatribe.

23. Next is more pacing.

24. You just described what you were
doing, what she was doing, and what
you just did.

25. Of course, you'll need to change this
up to match whatever actually
happened.

26. Think of this from her perspective.

27. First she makes eye contact.

28. Then you approach.

29. Then you say "excuse me," which
indicates you've got some level of
social awareness.

30. Then you say you're interrupting,
which shows her you know exactly
what you're doing.

31. Then you let her off the hook, so she
doesn't really have to worry about
answering questions or anything.

32. Then she just listens to you describe
what just happened.

33. All of this adds up to a nice, relaxing,
"Yes" feeling in her head.

34. She can't disagree with, argue with, or
reject anything you've just said.

35. So, now that you've effectively
"merged" your two worlds, at least
briefly, what next?

36. Use the powerful language patterns of
covert hypnosis, and she'll be eating
out of the palm of your hand, that's
what!

37. Learn more:

38. mindpersuasion.com/natural-influence/