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2. How do you relax and just "let
something happen?"

3. This is often give advice when talking
to girls.

4. Detach from outcome.

5. Live your life and the girls will show
up.

6. Don't ever go out specifically to "pick
up" etc. etc.

7. But how specifically do you do this?

8. It's great advice.

9. It sounds great.

10. But how do you do it?

11. Many people have the question,
"Where can I go to find quality girls?"

12. As if all the low quality girls hang out
in one side of town, and all the high
quality girls have this secret clubhouse
they go to.

13. One way is to simply get into the habit
of talking to interesting people.

14. Make this part of who you are.

15. Have the intention of finding out
something interesting of anybody you
meet.

16. This will have the side effect of
increasing your social skills, and
increasing your "experience" with
other people.

17. It can also give you some pretty
interesting stories.

18. Sure, you'll be a lot of boring people.

19. But you'll also meet a few gems
who've got some REALLY incredible
stories.

20. Then if the person you happen to be
talking to is a cute girl that you're
interested in, you simply tell her.

21. "Hey I like talking to you. You seem
pretty interesting. Why don't we
exchange numbers so we can hang out
sometime?"

22. You can tell by how she answers
whether or not she's interested in you.

23. If she seems to be conflicted, or now
sure, don't worry.

24. Just tell her it's no big deal and move
on.

25. Because it IS no big deal.

26. This is the side effect of really
jettisoning any conscious "plan" of
meeting girls.

27. If you go out with the intention of
meeting somebody, and you see
somebody interesting and get shot
down, it feels pretty bad.

28. But if you're the kind of guy who just
talks to anybody as a matter of habit, it
will sting a lot less.

29. And guess what?

30. As your social skills and confidence
increase, you'll naturally become more
attractive.

31. Girls will enjoy talking to you. Girls will
be more likely to exchange numbers to
hang out.

32. If you keep this up, just talking to
random people wherever you go,
you'll eventually have a list of numbers
of girls who are HIGHLY INTERESTED in
you.

33. Let's be honest.

34. Any clown can go out and collect ten
or twenty numbers.

35. Ask enough girls and you'll get plenty
of numbers.

36. But most of them won't know
anything about you, won't remember
you, and will likely flake.

37. But if you talk to her, and ONLY ask for
her number is she seems interesting
TO YOU and interested IN YOU, you'll
have almost zero flakes.

38. Sure, it may take a while to get to this
"level," but don't you think it's worth
it?

39. To have the option of SEVERAL GIRLS
who are interested in you?

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