The document discusses strategies for attracting women. It suggests taking an initial assertive approach by starting conversations and asking for numbers, but then pulling back slightly to gauge interest and see if women follow. Some signs that a woman is interested include maintaining her half of the conversation, making eye contact, reciprocating light physical contact, and offering additional personal details without needing to be pulled from her. The key is to take the initial risks while also testing for interest before pursuing further.

2. What's better, to chase women, or to
get women to chase you?

3. In reality, you need a mix of the two.

4. If you try to get women to do
EVERYTHING, you're going to be
lonely.

5. Go to any club and you'll plenty of
guys hugging the walls waiting for the
girls to make a move.

6. On the other hand, if you are always
pushing forward no matter WHAT,
she's going to be put off.

7. The trick is to first assert yourself, then
pull back a little, and make sure she
follows.

8. This can be physical, or conversational,
or even attention wise.

9. But make no mistake, get used to the
idea that you're going to have to make
the first approach.

10. You're going to have to get the
conversation started.

11. You're going to have to assume the
authority position and make it easy for
her to talk to.

12. You are going to have to take the initial
risks.

13. Then you pull back, and see if she's
interested enough to follow you.

14. Nothing dramatic, just small "tests" to
see if she's interested.

15. Of course, the most basic test is to
simply ask for her number.

16. If she gives it to right away with a
smile on her face, you're doing pretty
good.

17. But as you know, many girls will give
our their numbers without really being
interested.

18. They aren't being mean or deceptive,
it's just VERY hard sometimes to say
"no."

19. So if you're the type that makes it a
point to collect tons of numbers, you
realize it's a "numbers" game.

20. But you CAN tell whether or not she's
into you or not BEFORE you ask for the
number, if you know what to look for.

21. Does she carry her half of the
conversation?

22. Does she offer up "free information"
or do you feel like you are pulling
teeth?

23. If you touch her lightly on the forearm,
does she pull her arm back in disgust,
or does she seem to warm up to you
slightly, or even reciprocate within a
few moments?

24. Are her eyes wandering around the
place while you're talking to her or is
she looking at you most of the time?

25. These are all fantastic signs that you're
doing well with her.

26. When this happens, don't draw it out.

27. She'll never say, "Let me give you my
number so you can ask me out!"

28. It's your job to approach, it's your job
to "read the air" and determine if she's
into you, AND it's your job to get her
number and get out before you blow
it.

29. A lot to remember, to be sure.

30. But one thing that will make it easier if
you think of EVERY SINGLE GIRL you
talk to ask practice.

31. Only by her showing significant and
continued interest in you does she
move from the "practice" to "potential
relationship" category in your mind.

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