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1. How To Make Your
Frame Irresistibly
Attractive

2. I watched an old episode of "Criminal
Minds" last night on Netflix.

3. This one mastermind criminal was in
an interrogation with one of the
mastermind FBI agents.

4. Since they didn't have any evidence,
they had to get the guy to confess.

5. It was a great study in "frame wars," at
least how they're imagined by
Hollywood writers.

6. Each guy was basically having a
separate conversation.

7. The criminal was talking about how
quickly his case was going to dissolve,
and the FBI guy was talking about how
horrible the crimes were.

8. Each guy would completely ignore
what the other guy said, and continue
on with his own conversation.

9. This illustrated a crucial element of
Frame Control.

10. Never "bite" on the content of your
opponent.

11. The easiest way to maintain a frame is
to simply "out frame."

12. But in that TV show, each guy was
trying to "out frame" in a different
direction, since they had two
completely opposite intentions.

13. A true "Frame Master" will not only
out-frame, but out frame in to a frame
that still respects and validates the
frame of the other person.

14. You just go bigger, but bigger in a way
to include, not alienate, the other
person.

15. People will be much more likely to
voluntarily enter into your frame if
they can keep their own.

16. Kind of like working at a desk that
doesn't belong to you, at a company
where plenty of other people work.

17. Bosses have known for centuries that
if they let workers "personalize" their
workspace, they'll be much more
productive.

18. If you've got pictures of your friends,
family, etc., you've effectively created
your own frame within the larger
frame of the company.

19. And so long as the company keeps
paying you, and you have pretty good
leeway with how you can decorate and
"make home" your workspace, you'll
likely be a very loyal employee.

20. This is EXACTLY the best way to "out
frame."

21. The more people you learn how to do
this with, and the more natural it
becomes, the more people you'll have
that are literally BEGGING to enter into
your frame.

22. This is one of the PRIMARY reasons
some companies are FANTASTIC to
work for, while others, not so much.

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into which many people would love to
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