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Managing the disruptive child
Analysing
Digesting
Acting
Tanya	Vollenhoven-Brown
MA	Clinical	Psychology,	UCT
e:	tvollenhoven@gmail.com
DYNAMICS
Patterns
Intensity
Frequency
EXPECTATION	
VERSUS	
CAPACITY
Socio	emotional	development
Cognitive	capacity
Environment
Load
CLARIFYING	OUR	
INTENTIONS	TO	
MANAGE
Control
Support
Direction
Containing
IMPACT	OF	A	
STRESSED	
MIND
Brain	under	stress
Thinking Feelings
Attention	and	concentration
Analysing the Situation
Digesting the Situation
Reflection
Examining	Patterns
Feelings	jump
Emotional	Wayfinding Environment
Demonstration	and	Practice
Preparation
Fortification
Nourishment
Confidence
Core BackboneEveryone	wobbles
Communication
Power	of	Story	and	fantasy
Visuals
This	does	not	work
Verbal	and	non	verbal
Emotion
Brevity	and	clarity
Warnings	and	gains
Pacts	and	codes
Framing
Affirmations
Transition	and	connection
Boundaries
Self	Awareness
Threats
+++Words
High	tone
Pointing	out	an	audience
Too	many	choices
Acting in the Situation
3Ds Action Plan
Define
Deactivate
Disarm
Questions?
Tanya	Vollenhoven-Brown
e:	tvollenhoven@gmail.com

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