As a Parent
- Frustrated from kids not listening?
- Tired from yelling at the people you love the most?
- Exhausted from feeling everything being a battle?
Being a parent is one of the most challenging roles we will ever have in our lives and unfortunately our contemporary society gives absolutely no training on how to be a good parent. We all love our kids but from my experience the ABC’s of parenting which are the love, common sense and natural instinct were not enough for me to help me raise my kids in a way that was serving them.
Learning the EFG’s of Parenting helped me transform my life and the lives of parents who learn them.
This document provides guidance on counseling children. It discusses that children have their own ideas and personalities, so counseling them can be challenging but important. The first step is to sit and play with younger children, do preferred activities with older children, and use age-appropriate language. Active listening is key. Techniques like drawing, drama, role-play, storytelling, music and games can be used. Factors like learning disabilities, social development, home environment, and comparisons to others should be considered. Parents and communities should spend quality time with children, encourage expression, provide civic responsibilities and outdoor activities, and accept all children. Death, relationships and personal questions may arise and require understanding responses.
The passage discusses whether adults can praise children too much. While praise is generally seen as important for developing self-esteem, some experts argue that constantly praising everything children do may cause the praise to lose meaning or make children dependent on approval. These experts suggest focusing praise on specific accomplishments rather than everything. However, other psychologists believe that if a choice must be made, it is better to err on the side of more praise rather than less. The passage explores differing views without reaching a clear conclusion.
This document provides an overview of understanding and responding to bullying. It discusses what bullying is, myths about bullying, risk and protective factors, and tools for strong families. The document outlines steps for successful family meetings, using emotional intelligence and coaching, and maintaining a positive relationship with children. It concludes by advertising an upcoming part 2 that will discuss understanding and helping bullies and targets, and the role of parents and schools.
George teaches his children about emotional intelligence to help them understand and control their feelings. He provides resources on developing emotional intelligence in children, including apps that teach about different emotions, articles on teaching problem solving and raising emotionally intelligent children, and books with specific strategies. The resources discuss topics like children's happiness, temperament, self-esteem, and facilitating emotional intelligence.
The document discusses six modes of attachment that help children feel a sense of belonging: senses, sameness, belonging and loyalty, significance, love, and being fully known. It provides guidance on using each mode to strengthen attachment, such as using ongoing orientation to help children relax in new contexts, promoting feelings of belonging through affirming statements, and looking for signs of improved attachment from students. Overall, the document offers tools and strategies for educators to enhance children's sense of belonging through different aspects of attachment.
This document discusses the important role that parents play in their children's social and emotional learning. It outlines how children learn emotional skills from observing their parents' relationships and interactions. When parents are emotionally competent and can help children work through feelings, children develop healthier emotional regulation. The document also discusses how schools and parents can collaborate to support children's social, emotional, and academic development through activities like parenting workshops, interactive homework, and family-school teams. Strong school-family partnerships benefit students' learning and well-being.
The document discusses pediatric counseling and play therapy. It notes that children experience stressors like adults but lack a shield from them. Counseling for children is different due to factors like age, brain development, and emotions. Play therapy is described as using toys and games to help children express feelings and deal with behavioral/emotional difficulties. The goals are to improve expression, self-observation, coping skills, and relationships. Elements of play therapy include safety, love, security, reassurance and diversion.
As a Parent
- Frustrated from kids not listening?
- Tired from yelling at the people you love the most?
- Exhausted from feeling everything being a battle?
Being a parent is one of the most challenging roles we will ever have in our lives and unfortunately our contemporary society gives absolutely no training on how to be a good parent. We all love our kids but from my experience the ABC’s of parenting which are the love, common sense and natural instinct were not enough for me to help me raise my kids in a way that was serving them.
Learning the EFG’s of Parenting helped me transform my life and the lives of parents who learn them.
This document provides guidance on counseling children. It discusses that children have their own ideas and personalities, so counseling them can be challenging but important. The first step is to sit and play with younger children, do preferred activities with older children, and use age-appropriate language. Active listening is key. Techniques like drawing, drama, role-play, storytelling, music and games can be used. Factors like learning disabilities, social development, home environment, and comparisons to others should be considered. Parents and communities should spend quality time with children, encourage expression, provide civic responsibilities and outdoor activities, and accept all children. Death, relationships and personal questions may arise and require understanding responses.
The passage discusses whether adults can praise children too much. While praise is generally seen as important for developing self-esteem, some experts argue that constantly praising everything children do may cause the praise to lose meaning or make children dependent on approval. These experts suggest focusing praise on specific accomplishments rather than everything. However, other psychologists believe that if a choice must be made, it is better to err on the side of more praise rather than less. The passage explores differing views without reaching a clear conclusion.
This document provides an overview of understanding and responding to bullying. It discusses what bullying is, myths about bullying, risk and protective factors, and tools for strong families. The document outlines steps for successful family meetings, using emotional intelligence and coaching, and maintaining a positive relationship with children. It concludes by advertising an upcoming part 2 that will discuss understanding and helping bullies and targets, and the role of parents and schools.
George teaches his children about emotional intelligence to help them understand and control their feelings. He provides resources on developing emotional intelligence in children, including apps that teach about different emotions, articles on teaching problem solving and raising emotionally intelligent children, and books with specific strategies. The resources discuss topics like children's happiness, temperament, self-esteem, and facilitating emotional intelligence.
The document discusses six modes of attachment that help children feel a sense of belonging: senses, sameness, belonging and loyalty, significance, love, and being fully known. It provides guidance on using each mode to strengthen attachment, such as using ongoing orientation to help children relax in new contexts, promoting feelings of belonging through affirming statements, and looking for signs of improved attachment from students. Overall, the document offers tools and strategies for educators to enhance children's sense of belonging through different aspects of attachment.
This document discusses the important role that parents play in their children's social and emotional learning. It outlines how children learn emotional skills from observing their parents' relationships and interactions. When parents are emotionally competent and can help children work through feelings, children develop healthier emotional regulation. The document also discusses how schools and parents can collaborate to support children's social, emotional, and academic development through activities like parenting workshops, interactive homework, and family-school teams. Strong school-family partnerships benefit students' learning and well-being.
The document discusses pediatric counseling and play therapy. It notes that children experience stressors like adults but lack a shield from them. Counseling for children is different due to factors like age, brain development, and emotions. Play therapy is described as using toys and games to help children express feelings and deal with behavioral/emotional difficulties. The goals are to improve expression, self-observation, coping skills, and relationships. Elements of play therapy include safety, love, security, reassurance and diversion.
This document discusses strong-willed children and provides guidance for parenting them effectively. It defines strong-willed children as spirited, passionate, and self-motivated individuals who see rules as guidelines and are creative problem-solvers. The document advises building strong relationships with unconditional love and respect to influence children, using calm, firm communication, explaining rules' purposes, and holding children accountable in a way that involves them in problem-solving. It emphasizes adapting to each child's unique needs and seeking help if safety is threatened.
Sibling issues can arise when one child has a mental disability. This can require adjustment and impact future relationships. However, children with disabled siblings often develop positive traits like empathy.
When working with youth in the criminal justice system, more focus should be placed on addressing underlying mental health issues rather than just restraining behaviors. Counselors need to help determine what is causing misbehavior.
Children who have experienced trauma like abuse, neglect, family separation, or disasters may react in various ways and need long-term support through counseling to rebuild trust and cope with their experiences. It is important counselors understand youth needs and can refer clients to outside services if needed.
The document summarizes a presentation by two experts in child psychology and interventions. Dr. Larry Radner is a licensed clinical psychologist who uses play therapy to help children express their feelings and improve relationships. Emily Stevens is a school psychologist who works to identify learning disabilities resulting from social and emotional issues using a neuropsychological approach. Disruptions in a child's thoughts or feelings can lead to problems in school. The experts discussed different assessments and interventions to help children with emotional disturbances and learning disabilities.
This document discusses common reactions and developmental considerations for children of different ages coping with divorce. For toddlers, common reactions include expressing feelings behaviorally and regression, while caregivers should label feelings, validate them, and provide reassurance. For preschoolers, regressive behaviors and insecurity are common, and caregivers should reassure them it's not their fault and help them cope. Older children may feel guilt or want parents to reunite; caregivers should validate feelings and encourage appropriate expression of anger. Teenagers can withdraw or blame parents, so open communication and involvement are important.
The document discusses how children of different ages cope with stress. For infants, coping is dominated by behavioral rather than cognitive responses due to their limited executive functioning. Caregiver sensitivity and secure attachment are essential for healthy development and better coping. As children age into toddlerhood and preschool, their ability to regulate emotions and use problem-focused coping strategies develops slowly. During middle childhood, children can verbalize feelings and seek social support outside the family, with girls doing so more than boys. In adolescence, peers and siblings become important sources of support while parents still influence coping strategies. The family environment plays a key role in children's coping abilities at all stages.
This document discusses raising emotionally intelligent children by teaching them skills in self-awareness, social awareness, self-management, relationship skills, and responsible decision making. It outlines the five emotional intelligence competencies and describes appropriate development of these competencies from elementary through high school. It also discusses different parenting styles like dismissive, disapproving, and laissez-faire parenting and how to become an "emotion coach" by validating, labeling, and problem-solving with children during emotional moments.
Kindle Raising Human Beings Creating a Collaborative Partnership with Your Ch...redescendaient
Renowned child psychologist and New York Times bestselling author of Lost at School and The Explosive Child explains how to cultivate a better parentchild relationship while also nurturing empathy honesty resilience and independence.Parents have an important task figure out who their child is8212his or her skills preferences beliefs values personality traits goals and direction8212get comfortable with it and then help them pursue and live a life according to it. Yet parents also want their kids to be independent but not if they are going to make bad choices. They want to avoid being too overbearing but not if an apathetic kid is what they have to show for it. They want to have a good relationship with their kids but not if that means being a pushover. They don8217t want to scream but they do want to be heard. Good parenting is about striking the balance between a child8217s characteristics and a parent8217s desire to have influence. Dr. Ross Greene 8220makes a powerful case for rethinking typical approaches to parenting and disciplining children8221 (The Atlantic). Through his wellknown model of solving problems collaboratively parents can forgo timeout and sticker charts stop badg
This document provides guidance for parents on motivating their children. It discusses common myths about motivation and outlines eight key forces of motivation: gregariousness, autonomy, status, inquisitiveness, aggression, power, recognition, and affiliation. The document emphasizes that children are influenced by their parents' attitudes and behaviors. It recommends that parents find a balance when emphasizing learning, model lifelong learning, show interest in their child's education and work, and allow children to develop responsibility.
The document provides parenting advice focused on teaching virtues to children through open communication, quality time spent together, and leading by example. It emphasizes developing the child's intellect through knowledge, strong will through practicing virtues, and helping them become mature and responsible. Parents are advised to gain knowledge themselves, show trust in their children, and help children set goals in order to attain true freedom through choosing good.
Marielle Evertsz offers various parenting workshops for parents of children from early childhood through high school age. The workshops provide practical parenting strategies and focus on topics such as positive parenting, discipline, temper tantrums, sibling rivalry, introverted/extroverted children, understanding teens and their developing brains, communicating with teens, and raising teen boys and girls. Evertsz aims to empower parents and start conversations by sharing experiences and strategies parents can use. Workshops are 2 hours and cost varies.
Mr D.M Vilakazi bullying presentation (Focus is on, what to do as a parent)David Vilakazi
Mr. David Vilakazi's document discusses bullying from multiple perspectives. It provides advice for parents if their child is bullying others, such as explaining bullying is wrong, understanding why the child acts that way, and creating a behavior plan with consequences. It also discusses the importance of empathy, how it is key to relationships and allows one to understand other people's feelings. The document contrasts bullying with peer conflicts and provides references on research about bullying.
This document summarizes research on parenting and family relationships. It discusses how physical closeness and understanding feelings can increase closeness. Parents who are aware of and help children process their emotions tend to have children who do better socially and academically. Conflict between parents is stressful for children and impacts their development, but constructive problem-solving can help. Economic hardship stresses families, but resilient families maintain close bonds and focus on solving problems. Grandparents, friends, and community support help parents cope with challenges. Children of depressed or substance-abusing parents are at risk but positive parenting and treatment can help.
How to support your child develop healthy relationshipsFortes Education
- WHY ARE RELATIONSHIPS IMPORTANT
- CHARACTERISTICS OF HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS
- RELATIONSHIP BUILDING SKILLS
- HELPING YOUR CHILD DEVELOP SKILLS TO BUILD HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS
- RESOURCES AND EXTENDED SUPPORT
Responding to the emotional needs of childrenjaclynne
This document discusses responding to children's emotional needs and helping them develop emotional regulation. It outlines Erik Erikson's stages of psychosocial development and why children experience emotional outbursts. It recommends removing upset children from the situation until they calm down, and providing opportunities for children to express emotions through activities like drawing, storytelling, music and play. The document stresses the importance of helping children identify, label and talk about their feelings to help them develop emotional intelligence. Caregivers should be sensitive to children's communication styles and monitor them for signs of distress.
Session Two Presentation: Attachment TheoryAndriaCampbell
Attachment theory proposes that secure attachment to caregivers is essential to child development. John Bowlby's research found that infants develop internal working models of relationships based on interactions with primary caregivers. These models influence how children view themselves, relationships, and regulate emotions. Secure attachment arises from caregivers being consistently sensitive and responsive to children's needs and signals. This allows children to develop self-esteem, empathy, emotional regulation, and view caregivers as a secure base for exploration.
Helping adolescents deal with peer pressuremervemerve123
This document discusses strategies for helping adolescents deal with peer pressure. It begins by outlining the challenges of peer pressure during adolescence and defines positive versus negative peer pressure. It then provides tips for educators, such as making students aware of common pressures and teaching strategies and skills to resist negative pressure. Specific strategies are described, like asking questions, identifying consequences, suggesting alternatives, and removing oneself from problematic situations. The document also covers identifying at-risk students, signs of bullying, steps to address bullying, and resources for further information.
Children with Depression Exhibit Blunted Response to RewardsMiriam Galindo
Dr. Miriam Galindo is a licensed clinical psychologist and social worker with a private psychology practice in Irvine, California. Dr. Miriam Galindo is experienced in multiple areas, including child psychology.
The document discusses play therapy as a form of counseling for children. It describes play therapy as utilizing play and toys to help children express themselves and understand problems in a way that is developmentally appropriate. Key aspects of play therapy discussed include selecting toys that facilitate emotional expression and mastery, creating a playroom environment, qualities and skills of play therapists, and common themes that emerge in children's play. The overall goal of play therapy is for children to better understand and cope with issues in a manner they can comprehend.
Presented by Tami DeCoteau
I’ve entitled my presentation “Relationships Matter” because I am going to talk to you about the important bond between a child and his caregiver, and how that bond occurs and how it impacts the child at all level of development.
The document discusses attachment development in children and the implications of insecure attachment, such as when children are separated from their primary caregivers before certain developmental phases. Insecure attachment can lead to problems with emotional regulation, relationships, self-worth, and accepting care or control from others according to the child's internal working model developed from their early experiences. Intervention approaches should focus on providing structure, engagement, nurturing experiences, and challenges to help change insecure internal working models over time.
Attachment is an emotional bond with another person. John Bowlby described attachment as a "lasting psychological connectedness between human beings.“
Earliest bonds formed by children (with caregivers) have a tremendous impact that continues throughout life and Attachment so developed
Serves to keep the infant close to the mother, thus improving the child's chances of survival.
Are innate drive Children are born with and is a product of evolutionary processes
Emerges and are regulated through the process of natural selection,
Are characterized by clear behavioural and motivation patterns.
Nurturance and responsiveness were the primary determinants of attachment.
Children who maintained proximity to an attachment figure were more likely to
Receive comfort and protection, and
More likely to survive to adulthood.
This document discusses strong-willed children and provides guidance for parenting them effectively. It defines strong-willed children as spirited, passionate, and self-motivated individuals who see rules as guidelines and are creative problem-solvers. The document advises building strong relationships with unconditional love and respect to influence children, using calm, firm communication, explaining rules' purposes, and holding children accountable in a way that involves them in problem-solving. It emphasizes adapting to each child's unique needs and seeking help if safety is threatened.
Sibling issues can arise when one child has a mental disability. This can require adjustment and impact future relationships. However, children with disabled siblings often develop positive traits like empathy.
When working with youth in the criminal justice system, more focus should be placed on addressing underlying mental health issues rather than just restraining behaviors. Counselors need to help determine what is causing misbehavior.
Children who have experienced trauma like abuse, neglect, family separation, or disasters may react in various ways and need long-term support through counseling to rebuild trust and cope with their experiences. It is important counselors understand youth needs and can refer clients to outside services if needed.
The document summarizes a presentation by two experts in child psychology and interventions. Dr. Larry Radner is a licensed clinical psychologist who uses play therapy to help children express their feelings and improve relationships. Emily Stevens is a school psychologist who works to identify learning disabilities resulting from social and emotional issues using a neuropsychological approach. Disruptions in a child's thoughts or feelings can lead to problems in school. The experts discussed different assessments and interventions to help children with emotional disturbances and learning disabilities.
This document discusses common reactions and developmental considerations for children of different ages coping with divorce. For toddlers, common reactions include expressing feelings behaviorally and regression, while caregivers should label feelings, validate them, and provide reassurance. For preschoolers, regressive behaviors and insecurity are common, and caregivers should reassure them it's not their fault and help them cope. Older children may feel guilt or want parents to reunite; caregivers should validate feelings and encourage appropriate expression of anger. Teenagers can withdraw or blame parents, so open communication and involvement are important.
The document discusses how children of different ages cope with stress. For infants, coping is dominated by behavioral rather than cognitive responses due to their limited executive functioning. Caregiver sensitivity and secure attachment are essential for healthy development and better coping. As children age into toddlerhood and preschool, their ability to regulate emotions and use problem-focused coping strategies develops slowly. During middle childhood, children can verbalize feelings and seek social support outside the family, with girls doing so more than boys. In adolescence, peers and siblings become important sources of support while parents still influence coping strategies. The family environment plays a key role in children's coping abilities at all stages.
This document discusses raising emotionally intelligent children by teaching them skills in self-awareness, social awareness, self-management, relationship skills, and responsible decision making. It outlines the five emotional intelligence competencies and describes appropriate development of these competencies from elementary through high school. It also discusses different parenting styles like dismissive, disapproving, and laissez-faire parenting and how to become an "emotion coach" by validating, labeling, and problem-solving with children during emotional moments.
Kindle Raising Human Beings Creating a Collaborative Partnership with Your Ch...redescendaient
Renowned child psychologist and New York Times bestselling author of Lost at School and The Explosive Child explains how to cultivate a better parentchild relationship while also nurturing empathy honesty resilience and independence.Parents have an important task figure out who their child is8212his or her skills preferences beliefs values personality traits goals and direction8212get comfortable with it and then help them pursue and live a life according to it. Yet parents also want their kids to be independent but not if they are going to make bad choices. They want to avoid being too overbearing but not if an apathetic kid is what they have to show for it. They want to have a good relationship with their kids but not if that means being a pushover. They don8217t want to scream but they do want to be heard. Good parenting is about striking the balance between a child8217s characteristics and a parent8217s desire to have influence. Dr. Ross Greene 8220makes a powerful case for rethinking typical approaches to parenting and disciplining children8221 (The Atlantic). Through his wellknown model of solving problems collaboratively parents can forgo timeout and sticker charts stop badg
This document provides guidance for parents on motivating their children. It discusses common myths about motivation and outlines eight key forces of motivation: gregariousness, autonomy, status, inquisitiveness, aggression, power, recognition, and affiliation. The document emphasizes that children are influenced by their parents' attitudes and behaviors. It recommends that parents find a balance when emphasizing learning, model lifelong learning, show interest in their child's education and work, and allow children to develop responsibility.
The document provides parenting advice focused on teaching virtues to children through open communication, quality time spent together, and leading by example. It emphasizes developing the child's intellect through knowledge, strong will through practicing virtues, and helping them become mature and responsible. Parents are advised to gain knowledge themselves, show trust in their children, and help children set goals in order to attain true freedom through choosing good.
Marielle Evertsz offers various parenting workshops for parents of children from early childhood through high school age. The workshops provide practical parenting strategies and focus on topics such as positive parenting, discipline, temper tantrums, sibling rivalry, introverted/extroverted children, understanding teens and their developing brains, communicating with teens, and raising teen boys and girls. Evertsz aims to empower parents and start conversations by sharing experiences and strategies parents can use. Workshops are 2 hours and cost varies.
Mr D.M Vilakazi bullying presentation (Focus is on, what to do as a parent)David Vilakazi
Mr. David Vilakazi's document discusses bullying from multiple perspectives. It provides advice for parents if their child is bullying others, such as explaining bullying is wrong, understanding why the child acts that way, and creating a behavior plan with consequences. It also discusses the importance of empathy, how it is key to relationships and allows one to understand other people's feelings. The document contrasts bullying with peer conflicts and provides references on research about bullying.
This document summarizes research on parenting and family relationships. It discusses how physical closeness and understanding feelings can increase closeness. Parents who are aware of and help children process their emotions tend to have children who do better socially and academically. Conflict between parents is stressful for children and impacts their development, but constructive problem-solving can help. Economic hardship stresses families, but resilient families maintain close bonds and focus on solving problems. Grandparents, friends, and community support help parents cope with challenges. Children of depressed or substance-abusing parents are at risk but positive parenting and treatment can help.
How to support your child develop healthy relationshipsFortes Education
- WHY ARE RELATIONSHIPS IMPORTANT
- CHARACTERISTICS OF HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS
- RELATIONSHIP BUILDING SKILLS
- HELPING YOUR CHILD DEVELOP SKILLS TO BUILD HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS
- RESOURCES AND EXTENDED SUPPORT
Responding to the emotional needs of childrenjaclynne
This document discusses responding to children's emotional needs and helping them develop emotional regulation. It outlines Erik Erikson's stages of psychosocial development and why children experience emotional outbursts. It recommends removing upset children from the situation until they calm down, and providing opportunities for children to express emotions through activities like drawing, storytelling, music and play. The document stresses the importance of helping children identify, label and talk about their feelings to help them develop emotional intelligence. Caregivers should be sensitive to children's communication styles and monitor them for signs of distress.
Session Two Presentation: Attachment TheoryAndriaCampbell
Attachment theory proposes that secure attachment to caregivers is essential to child development. John Bowlby's research found that infants develop internal working models of relationships based on interactions with primary caregivers. These models influence how children view themselves, relationships, and regulate emotions. Secure attachment arises from caregivers being consistently sensitive and responsive to children's needs and signals. This allows children to develop self-esteem, empathy, emotional regulation, and view caregivers as a secure base for exploration.
Helping adolescents deal with peer pressuremervemerve123
This document discusses strategies for helping adolescents deal with peer pressure. It begins by outlining the challenges of peer pressure during adolescence and defines positive versus negative peer pressure. It then provides tips for educators, such as making students aware of common pressures and teaching strategies and skills to resist negative pressure. Specific strategies are described, like asking questions, identifying consequences, suggesting alternatives, and removing oneself from problematic situations. The document also covers identifying at-risk students, signs of bullying, steps to address bullying, and resources for further information.
Children with Depression Exhibit Blunted Response to RewardsMiriam Galindo
Dr. Miriam Galindo is a licensed clinical psychologist and social worker with a private psychology practice in Irvine, California. Dr. Miriam Galindo is experienced in multiple areas, including child psychology.
The document discusses play therapy as a form of counseling for children. It describes play therapy as utilizing play and toys to help children express themselves and understand problems in a way that is developmentally appropriate. Key aspects of play therapy discussed include selecting toys that facilitate emotional expression and mastery, creating a playroom environment, qualities and skills of play therapists, and common themes that emerge in children's play. The overall goal of play therapy is for children to better understand and cope with issues in a manner they can comprehend.
Presented by Tami DeCoteau
I’ve entitled my presentation “Relationships Matter” because I am going to talk to you about the important bond between a child and his caregiver, and how that bond occurs and how it impacts the child at all level of development.
The document discusses attachment development in children and the implications of insecure attachment, such as when children are separated from their primary caregivers before certain developmental phases. Insecure attachment can lead to problems with emotional regulation, relationships, self-worth, and accepting care or control from others according to the child's internal working model developed from their early experiences. Intervention approaches should focus on providing structure, engagement, nurturing experiences, and challenges to help change insecure internal working models over time.
Attachment is an emotional bond with another person. John Bowlby described attachment as a "lasting psychological connectedness between human beings.“
Earliest bonds formed by children (with caregivers) have a tremendous impact that continues throughout life and Attachment so developed
Serves to keep the infant close to the mother, thus improving the child's chances of survival.
Are innate drive Children are born with and is a product of evolutionary processes
Emerges and are regulated through the process of natural selection,
Are characterized by clear behavioural and motivation patterns.
Nurturance and responsiveness were the primary determinants of attachment.
Children who maintained proximity to an attachment figure were more likely to
Receive comfort and protection, and
More likely to survive to adulthood.
Parenting & Role Modelling guide to parentsJamsheedHamza2
1. Islam considers children to be a sacred trust and obligates parents to raise children righteously.
2. Effective parenting and mentoring techniques include accompanying, sowing, catalyzing, showing, and harvesting. These involve actively participating in a child's learning process.
3. Parenting styles and the mentoring approach should depend on a child's situation, mindset, and teachable moments. The goal is to help guide their development from childhood to adulthood.
This chapter discusses theories of social and personality development in infancy. It covers psychoanalytic perspectives from Freud and Erikson, attachment theories from Bowlby and Ainsworth, and the development of temperament and self-concept. Key points include Freud's oral stage and Erikson's trust vs mistrust stage. Bowlby identified 4 phases of attachment and Ainsworth described secure and insecure attachments. Temperament is influenced by both heredity and environment. The effects of nonparental care depend on the quality of care and can impact cognitive and social development, especially if started before age 1.
Respond to the students Do you agree with each learners comment.docxcarlstromcurtis
Respond to the students Do you agree with each learner's comments? Why or why not? What can you add from research you have found or from your own experience?
Lisa post
Temperament is described as personality, makeup, or disposition of a person or child. This is a way in which a child is unique in their own way but the temperament is strongly influenced by heredity. When a child has positive interaction with their parent or environment they are more prone to develop a positive happy temperament. It was stated that when an infant is born they are born with their own temperament. As they grow their temperament begins to change and is influenced by the stability of their experiences. This is when it develops into nature because they are born with a temperament. They show and develop fears, anger and sadness which is also a part of positive growing (Berk and Meyers 2015).
Nurture from temperament develops when a child has a bond with the primary caregiver. When a child experiences a negative environment they are affected and their temperament changes. After reading the different ways temperament are developed I remembered a student I once had a couple years ago. In the beginning of the school year he was emotional but yet he was shy and quiet. He always stayed to himself and didn't interact with the other children or myself. After a month of being in my classroom his temperament began to change. He would come in the class like all the other children cheerful, laughing and on task.
This child went from being withdrawn to being fearless and more active. He played with the boys and spoke with all the other students. In the text Berk and Meyers (2015), states that a positive environment can be change a child's temperament as they grew. Also, because of my temperament which is active and happy the students were much happier. He had shown some evidence of a temperament change from day one until he left my classroom.
Desiree post
Temperament is described as “early-appearing, stable individual differences in reactivity and self-regulation” (Laura E. Berk, 2016). In regards to temperament as it relates to the parent and child interaction, there are many factors that rear a child’s behavior. The environment that the child is introduced and raised in plays a major role in their emotional development. Take for instance, an aggressive child, in comparison to an outgoing, welcoming child are more than likely being raised in different environments. The aggressive child may experience aggression at home, where he may be unable to express his emotions or do it in a healthy way. His feelings are dismissed and he is more likely to blow up due to his inability to properly communicate. The friendly child, on the other hand, probably is growing up with supportive parents, who encourage them to express themselves.
One particular experience that comes to mind happened to my five-year-old just this week. She was in her Kindergarten class, rea ...
John Bowlby, Mary Ainsworth, and Melanie Klein were early contributors to attachment theory. Attachment theory proposes that there are four main attachment styles in children - secure, anxious-ambivalent, avoidant, and disorganized - which depend on the quality of care and interaction with primary caregivers, especially mothers. High-quality caregiving where caregivers are consistently responsive helps children develop secure attachment and the ability to depend on others.
Social development involves learning the skills to relate effectively to others. It is supported by modeling appropriate behavior, building problem-solving skills, encouraging exploration, and play. Peer interaction is important for language, cognitive, and social development from a young age. Both positive and negative peer relations can influence children's development. Positive relationships foster skills like cooperation, while negative ones like rejection can increase risks of issues like loneliness or depression.
Scsn early years annual conference - heather stack - presentation oct 2013joyoneill
The document discusses the impacts of parental absence, relocation, and disability on babies and young children. It notes that parental stress, depression, absence, and other challenges can negatively impact children's development by affecting brain activity and attachment relationships. However, it also discusses factors that can promote resilience, such as social support, secure family contexts, and parents' ability to buffer stress. The document emphasizes that early experiences and relationships play a crucial role in children's social-emotional development and future mental health outcomes.
The document discusses how empathy can be taught and developed in children. It involves more than just being a good role model, as developing empathy requires understanding the psychology behind it and skills like understanding others' thoughts and feelings. Empathy involves both innate traits and skills that can be learned. Developing empathy in children is influenced by their experiences, relationships, and ability to cope with shared emotions. Positive parenting that makes children feel secure can help them develop empathy by taking risks to help others and regulate their own emotions. Asking children to reflect on others' feelings can also increase their display of empathy according to research.
The document discusses building self-esteem. It defines self-esteem as one's judgment of their own worth and capabilities. Self-esteem is learned from experiences and can change over time. Low self-esteem results from feeling incompetent in important areas of life and is characterized by behaviors like excessive bragging or blaming others. The foundation for happiness and success is having a positive self-view, which develops from unconditional love and acceptance as a child. Five feelings that build high self-esteem are security, self-knowledge, belonging, purpose, and competence. The document provides ideas to enhance these feelings in children.
Tim Sweeney, Licensed Clinical Social, presents The Special Needs Family as part of the 2009 Spring Brown Bag Autism series at the University of Mary Washington.
The document provides information about quality improvement initiatives for early childhood programs in New Mexico. It announces that the current quality rating and improvement system, called AIM HIGH, is being phased out and replaced by a new system called FOCUS by January 1, 2018. Programs have until this deadline to transition to the new criteria under FOCUS. It also notes that 5-star accredited programs' accrediting agencies may no longer be recognized after this date, so they must transition to a new accrediting body or apply to participate in FOCUS. The document provides contact information for programs to learn more about FOCUS and apply. It also lists upcoming trainings on FOCUS and other topics to support programs in strengthening quality.
CHAPTER 4Building an Anti‑Bias Education Program Clarifying andWilheminaRossi174
CHAPTER 4
Building an Anti‑Bias Education Program: Clarifying and Brave Conversations with Children
Everything teachers do—setting up the learning environment; planning the curriculum; observing, assessing, and thinking about individual children; and so much more—rests upon establishing strong, caring, and trusting relationships with children and families. Without such relationships with their teachers, children find it hard to open up, to learn, to grow, to feel safe. These relationships are built onSeeing each individual child as a member of a unique family with many, often complex, social identities that shape their learning and ways of beingRespecting each child’s individual way of learning and being rather than imposing an expected behaviorKnowing how children learn to think and how they are, and are not yet, able to discern what is happening around themUnderstanding that children are in the process of learning at all times and that it takes many experiences before they master an idea or a behaviorListening carefully to each child to understand how each is making sense of experiences and/or behavior
An essential element in building strong relationships is your willingness to engage in conversations that support children’s sense of self, that let them know they are safe and honored exactly as who they are. Children live in a world that sends multiple, stereotype‑laden messages about their comparative value, their right to be visible, and how they are expected to behave based on their economic class, ethnicity, gender, abilities, racial identity, and religion. These overt and covert messages affect their own sense of self‑worth and how they think about people who are different. Avoiding conversations about identity and fairness is a disservice to children who are developmentally dependent upon adults to help them make sense of the complex and contradictory societal messages they receive.
When programs do not demonstrate respect for and acknowledgement of human diversity, children and families cannot feel truly seen or honored. When a teacher avoids directly addressing comments or behaviors that can hurt another child, no child feels safe. Keeping silent not only does not help children, it actively hurts them. Learning how to break this silence, how to talk about anti‑bias issues with clarity, courage, and caring, is an essential skill not only in the world of early childhood education but in the world at large. This chapter explores ways to build trusting relationships with children by directly talking about identity, diversity, injustice, and activism, which correspond to the four goals of ABE.The Hurtful Power of Silence
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~ Learn about things that may thwart development
~ Identify protective factors for healthy development
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1. What if belongingness is
misunderstood?
Schools are inclusive & promote
student wellness
“Village Effect” (Pinker, 2014)
Loneliness is an early warning sign to
seek social safety
Universal hunger to connect
Being denied secure & trustworthy
relationships disposes us to overblown
bio reactions to stress
“Mom’s hug is the secret to inner calm”
(Dalai Lama, 2006)
Relationships, Trust, Hope
5 essentials for belonging:
Neurobiological legacy of trauma webinar series (Fisher,
2015)
1. Attachment is a pre-eminent need
2. Safety and agency
3. Significance
4. New skills
5. Hope – never expect a child to arrive with
their own hope
1 Question 1
2. Attachment Modes
Question 12
Central to emotional
openess, emotional
availability, emotional
responsiveness to others
Foundational for sufficient
emotional readiness for
school
Separation gives us
alarming feelings
Attachment modes
create relationship when
children are alarmed by
feelings of separation
6 Attachment Modes
“Rest Play Grow” (Macnamara, 2016)
1. Senses
2. Sameness
3. Belonging & Loyalty
4. Significance
5. Love
6. Being fully known
3. Attachment through senses
Question 13
Smells, sights, sounds
can be overwhelming
Pace is too fast/slow
Personal space
Senses guide/interrupt
our conscious attention
Rest/digest mechanism
Use ongoing “orientation” to
guide & coach to relax a
child in this new context
4. Attachment through sameness
Question 14
Sameness evokes
emulation of adult
Child tends to take our
point of view, repeat our
words, believe what we
say, follow our directions
Child needs sameness when:
they feel “different”
say they don’t belong
fear they are not normal
say they don’t have friends
cannot initiate play with
others
cannot work in groups
5. Attachment through belonging
and loyalty
Question 15
Promote feelings of belonging
by saying:
I chose you
I care about you
I missed you
you come up with good ideas
Legitimize strong emotions by
saying:
that is frustrating
that is alarming
that is a lonely feeling
A child needs to know they are
important to us, to other staff, to
peers, to the class
6. Attachment through belonging
and loyalty
Question 16
Promote feelings of loyalty by
saying:
I understand that
I hear that
I see your strong feelings
I like to hear what you think
I like to see what you make
I will wait, I will listen
Comments need to be
personalized and heart felt
Not comparing, shaming,
controlling
Point out the better person this
child is trying to be
Use mentoring, sheparding
Using connecting, priming &
debriefing
Be creative, silly, playful to shift
into positive moods
7. Attachment through significance
Question 17
1. Senses are no longer
hypervigilant
2. Sameness is abundantly
apparent
3. B&L is dependable, durable,
and sustained by the teacher
Child feels worthy of
protection & comfort
Each child has their own
journey through sameness,
belonging and loyalty, toward
significance
Significance creates personal
agency “I can try, I want to
try”
8. Attachment Modes
Question 18
Attachment is truly about
the journey of human
development
Love and Being known
are part of the self-
actualized person we are
all trying to be
Tips:
Investigate sensory
sensitivities
Our brain dwells on
differences, especially
strangeness in others
6 Attachment Modes
“Rest Play Grow” (Macnamara, 2016)
1. Senses
2. Sameness
3. Belonging & Loyalty
4. Significance
5. Love
6. Being fully known
9. What if belongingness is
misunderstood?
2. Safety and agency
Trauma research notes
that we cannot take
action if we feel unsafe
”protect me, comfort me,
delight in me, & organize
my feelings”
”Circle of Security Intervention” (Powell, et al. 2014)
Enhance relationships to
improve the foundation
for future relationships
9 Question 1
10. What if belongingness is
misunderstood?
3. Significance 4. New Skills
Feeling significant is a basic
emotional need
Many challenges to feeling
significant in this world
Need relationships with
interesting, active adults
Peer attachment is a
desperate attempt to feel
more significant
Peer attachments create a
triangle squeezing out the
adult
Need to “win back” youth
Active minds need novelty &
surprise
10 Question 1
11. What if belongingness is
misunderstood?
1. Attachment
2. Safety & agency
3. Significance
4. New skills
5. Hope
never expect a child to
arrive with their own hope
Teachers personify hope
School should be a
natural habitat for
children and youth
11 Question 1
12. Tools for Belongingness
Be aware of individual sensory sensitivities
Ongoing “orientation”
Procedural or Emotional orientation
Use “sameness” to build connections
“Connect before you direct”
Enhance connections with statements of
belonging, loyalty, & significance
Look for signs of improved Attachment from
students
12 Question 1
13. References
Question 113
Fisher, J. (2016). Working with the neurobiological legacy of trauma
[Webinar series].
Macnamara, D. (2016). Rest play grow: Making sense of
preschoolers or anyone who acts like one. Vancouver: Aona Books.
Neufeld, G. (2007). Neufeld’s intensive one: Making sense of kids
[DVD]. http://www.neufeldinstitute.com
Pinker, S. (2014). The village effect: How face-to-face contact can
make us healthier and happier. Toronto: Random House.
Powell, B., Cooper, G., Hoffman, K. & Marvin, B. (2014). The circle
of security intervention: Enhancing attachment in early parent-child
relationships. New York: The Guilford Press.