Influence without Authority: Establishing and Transforming Power
1. Influence without Authority:
Establishing and Transforming Power
Andrea Ames @aames http://about.me/AndreaLAmes
IBM Senior Technical Staff member
Information Experience Strategist
LavaCon Unified Content Strategy Workshop
24 April 2013
3. About Andrea
Technical communicator since 1983
Areas of expertise
Information experience design: Content strategy,
information architecture, and interaction design for
content display and delivery, within products and
interactive information delivery systems
Architecture, design, and development of embedded assistance (content within
or near the product user interface)
Information and product usability, from analysis through validation
User-centered process for information development and
information experience design
IBM Senior Technical Staff Member on corporate Total Information
Experience team in IBM CIO’s office
University of CA Extension certificate coordinator and instructor
STC Fellow, past president (2004-05), former member of
Board of Directors (1998-2006), and Intercom columnist (with Alyson Riley)
of The Strategic IA
ACM Distinguished Engineer
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5. Why influence?
If you can:
Design two UI panels
Write three pages
Create five icons
Drive 10 marketing campaigns
Track 45 project work items
Write 90 lines of code
in a day, how many are accomplished when three people are driving,
tracking, writing, designing, creating? 50? 500? 5,000?
Are you expert at every aspect of technical communication, marketing,
support, strategy, project management, and your product function? If so, do
you have the bandwidth to be a one-person show?
Most complex situations require multiple judgments, skills, and experiences
And most importantly…
Have you ever had a great, innovative idea—like the need for a unified content
strategy??—and wanted it implemented in your organization?
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6. From Wikipedia, influence is…
When the actions or thoughts of individuals are changed
by another individual
Amount of influence you exert often determined by your
confidence/self-esteem and perceived persona
Ability to influence also affected by your perceived
expertise, or credibility—others’ trust of you and your
knowledge or skill
Sometimes seen as persuasion, guiding people toward
the adoption of an idea, attitude, or action by rational and
symbolic (though not always logical) means; a problem-
solving strategy relying on "appeals" rather than strength
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7. Black magic?
Lots of people think of it this way
Charisma
Good looks
Money
It’s a talent
You’re born with it
It can’t be learned,
developed, refined,
improved
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8. How I like to think of it
It’s something you
acquire via your actions
and attitude
Managing yourself and
your attitude
Leadership—the ability to
(from Tom Peters)
Inspire
Liberate
Achieve
Gaining respect and trust
Leading in every direction
Setting and
communicating a clear
vision with enthusiasm
Inspiring enthusiasm
in others
Getting things done
through others that you
could not achieve alone
It’s not black magic
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9. What does this mean for us, as
individual leaders?
“With great power comes great responsibility”
Understanding why people follow others means using
that understanding responsibly
There is a hard way and an easy way—and they will
seem counterintuitive
Harder: Causing others to change their minds
Easier: Creating an environment of influence
Others trust you
They recognize value in your ideas
The buy into and sponsor your ideas
They execute those ideas 9
10. Causing others to change
Why is this hard?
It’s outward-focused
You can’t change others
Focusing on your sphere of influence vs.
your sphere of control (which will affect
your sphere of influence)
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11. Creating an environment of
influence
Become a leader
Lead/manage yourself, first
Focus on your sphere of control (you)
That will positively impact your
sphere of influence (our
relationships with others)
Our biggest hurdle is us
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15. 5 Ways to be Influential
Joel Garfinkle, Getting Ahead: Three Steps to Take Your Career to the Next Level
16. 5 Practices of Exemplary Leadership
James Kouzes and Barry Posner, The Leadership Challenge
Model the way—go first, set the example
Inspire a shared vision—enlist others in the
vision, know constituents and speak their
language
Challenge the process—innovate, grow,
improve, experiment, take risks
Enable others to act—foster collaboration and
build trust
Encourage the heart—recognize contributions,
celebrate values and victories
18. Where do you start?
Goleman’s emotional intelligence
and (in backup)
Covey’s 7 habits
Maxwell’s approach to attitude
& 360-degree leadership
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19. What is “emotional intelligence?”
“The capacity for
recognizing our own feelings
and those of others,
for motivating ourselves,
for managing emotions well
in ourselves and
in our relationships.”
-- Daniel Goleman
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20. Emotional intelligence domains
Source: Primal Leadership, by Daniel Goleman, Harvard Business School Press, 2002. (my numbers/arrows
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Self Others
Self-
Awareness
Knowing what we feel at
the moment and using that
to guide our decision-
making
Self
Management
Handling our emotions
so that they enhance
rather than interfere with
performance
Social
Awareness
Sensing what people are
feeling, understanding the
perspectives of others, and
cultivating rapport
Relationship
Management
Handling emotions in relationships
well, being able to read social
situations accurately, and using
these skills to persuade, lead,
and negotiate
Actions
Awareness
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21. Emotional Intelligence Skills
Assessment (EISA)
authors: Steven J. Stein, Derek Mann, Peter Papadogiannis, and Wendy Gordon
Perceiving—the ability to accurately recognize,
attend to, and understand emotion
Managing—the ability to effectively manage,
control, and express emotions
Decision making—the application of emotion to
manage change and solve problems
Achieving—the ability to generate th enecessary
emotions to self-motivate in the pursuit of
realistic and meaningful objectives
Influencing—the ability to recognize, manage,
and evoke emotion within oneself and others to
promote change
22. Work from the body, as well
as the mind
Amy Cuddy, Your Body Language Shapes Who You Are TED Talk
http://www.ted.com/talks/amy_cuddy_your_body_language_shapes_who_you_are.html
Fake it ’til you ARE it
1. Stand up
2. Raise your arms in a victory stance
3. You ARE powerful
Cesar Millan, Cesar’s Rules
Own the space
24. Once you have power…
How do you use it?
Only for good, not evil.
25. Influence Model: Reciprocity
Allan Cohen and DavidBradford, Influence without Authority
Think in terms of currencies
Inspiration-related
Task-related
Position-
related
Personal
27. Power style—how we use our
power
Jay Hall and James Hawker, Power Management Inventory
Discussion 1: .5 / .5 (share)
Discussion 2: 0 / 1 (give it up)
Discussion 3: 1 / 0 (keep it)
Power spectrum
28. Power motivation—why we use our
power, part 1
Jay Hall and James Hawker, Power Management Inventory
Personalized: achievement of personal
gain
Socialized: need to influence others’
behavior for the common good
Affiliative: need to be liked by others
29. Power motivation—why we use our
power, part 2
Jay Hall and James Hawker, Power Management Inventory
Effective use of power within the org is
necessary
Strong power motivation is essential to
good leaders (managers)
Socialized power leads to more successful
leadership (management) than
personalized power
30. Interpreting PMI
Jay Hall and James Hawker, Power Management Inventory
Both Socialized and Personalized should be higher than
Affiliative—ideally 25% higher
If Affiliative is higher than both Socialized and
Personalized, indicates aversion to power
For maximum leadership (managerial success), score
should reflect greater preference for Socialized power
If Personalized Motive is dominant, you might be doing a
creditable job, but not without difficulties
If Personalized is higher, stay alert to signs of potential
abuse of power
Goal: Power motivation and power style consistency,
which indicates consistent intention vs. effect
33. Components of emotional intelligence
Definition Hallmarks
Self-Awareness • The ability to recognize and understand
your moods, emotions, and drives, as
well as their effect on others
• Self-confidence
• Realistic self-assessment
• Self-deprecating sense of humor
Self-Regulation
(Self management)
• The ability to control or redirect
disruptive impulses and moods
• The propensity of suspend judgment—
to think before acting
• Trustworthiness and integrity
• Comfort with ambiguity
• Openness to change
Motivation
(Self management)
• A passion to work for reasons that go
beyond money or status
• A propensity to pursue goals with
energy and persistence
• Strong drive to achieve
• Optimism, even in the face of failure
• Organizational commitment
Source: “What Makes a Leader?” Daniel Goleman, Harvard Business Review, Nov-Dec 1998.
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34. Components of emotional intelligence (cont.)
Definition Hallmarks
Empathy
(Social awareness)
• The ability to understand the emotional
makeup of other people
• Skill in treating people according to their
emotional reactions
• Expertise in building and retaining talent
• Cross-cultural sensitivity
• Service to clients and customers
Social Skill
(Social awareness)
• Proficiency in managing relationships
and building networks
• An ability to find common ground and
build rapport
• Effectiveness in leading change
• Persuasiveness
• Expertise in building and leading teams
Source: “What Makes a Leader?” Daniel Goleman, Harvard Business Review, Nov-Dec 1998.
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35. Components of emotional intelligence (cont.)
Definition Hallmarks
Influence
(Relationship management)
• Finding the right appeal for a given listener
• Knowing how to build buy-in from key
sponsors
• Building a network of support for an initiative
• Very persuasive
• Engaging when addressing a
group
Developing Others
(Relationship management)
• Understanding goals, strengths and
weaknesses
• Providing timely and constructive feedback
• Show genuine interest in others
• Natural mentor or coach
Source: Primal Leadership, by Daniel Goleman, Harvard Business School Press, 2002.
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36. The seven habits
Dependence Independence Interdependence
Private victory:
1. Be proactive
2. Begin with the end in mind
3. Put first things first
Public victory:
4. Think win/win
5. Seek first to understand…
then to be understood
6. Synergize
7. Sharpen the saw
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Source: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, by Stephen Covey, Simon & Schuster, Inc., 1989.
37. Attitude is everything
Our attitude determines our approach to life
Our attitude determines our relationships
with people
Often our attitude is the only difference between
success and failure
Our attitude at the beginning of a task will affect its
outcome more than anything else
Our attitude can turn our problems into opportunities
Our attitude can give us an
uncommonly positive perspective
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Source: Attitude 101, by John Maxwell, Thomas Nelson, 2003.
38. Lead in every direction
Key lead-up principles
Lead yourself exceptionally well
Lighten your leader’s load
Invest in relational chemistry
Become a go-to player
Be better tomorrow than you are today
Key lead-across principles
Understand, practice, and complete the leadership loop
Put completing fellow leaders ahead of competing with them
Expand your circle of acquaintances (network)
Let the best idea win
Key lead-down principles
See everyone as a “10” (give them an “A”)
Develop each team member as a person
Model the behavior you desire
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Source: The 360° Leader, by John Maxwell, Thomas Nelson, 2003.