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- By Prof. Rahul Kumavat
- Asist Prof. at JSPM, JSCOE, Hadapsar,Pune
- 8888228569
Semester-II
MBA– I
GenericElectiveCourse-Universitylevel
207– ContemporaryFrameworksinManagement
2 Credits
Unit-1
CourseObjective-Unit
1
Emotions
Emotions
 According to the American Psychological
Association, emotions are conscious mental
reactions that are usually directed toward a specific
object. They are often experienced as strong
feelings and are typically accompanied by
physiological and behavioural changes in the body.
Emotional Intelligence
(EI)
Well Managed Emotional
Intelligence
Well Managed Emotional
Intelligence
Benefits of EI in the
Workplace
Benefits of EI in the
Workplace
Benefits of EI in the
Workplace
Benefits of EI in the
Workplace
Benefits of EI in the
Workplace
Some more other Benefits of EI in the
Workplace
Understand the difference between
Trait EI and Ability EI
Trait EI is "a constellation of
emotional self-perceptions
located at the lower levels
of personality. In lay terms,
trait EI refers to an
individual's self-perceptions
of their emotional abilities.
Ability EI is defined as “ the
ability to perceive and
express emotion, assimilate
emotion in thought,
understand and reason with
emotion, and regulate in
social environment.
5 Dimensions of Trait EI Model
5 Dimensions of Trait EI
Model
5 Dimensions of Trait EI
Model
5 Dimensions of Trait EI
Model
5 Dimensions of
Trait EI Model
Seeing the other side
The skill of influencing others is a valuable
asset to have. It can help us sell products
and ideas, convince people and institutions
to assist us, and even affect change in the
world! We may not have the power to
control other people, but we can always do
our best to persuade them. This skill is
particularly critical for managers. How you
go about influencing and successfully
communicating your message determines
the results you will achieve.
To be a successful influencer,
some critical skills to possess
include the ability to see “the
other side,” build bridges, and
give in without giving up.
You must be able to “enter another
person’s world” in order to influence
them. This means setting aside your own
point of view, and looking at a situation
from that person’s perspective. How
they see the world becomes their reality.
Don’t assume that what’s clear to you is
clear to your partner in communication.
Seeing the other side
Seeing the other side involves knowing
what is important to the other person: their
values, interests, and preferences. Do you
understand their SOCIAL STYLE — their
preferred way of communicating and
behaving? Ask questions and ask for
feedback to make sure you “hear” them
and understand where they are coming
from. Another way to approach this is to
answer this question, on their behalf,
“what’s in it for me?”
The key to all of the above is
understanding and recognizing the
others point of view and the only way
to do that is to be open, ask lots of
open-ended and clarifying questions
and to be an active listener.
Giving in without giving
up
Life Positions – you and
only you can choose your
mindset
Life Positions – you and
only you can choose your
mindset
Managing Emotions (ME) - Self-
Regulation
OUR EMOTIONS ARE
DRIVEN BY BIOLOGICAL
IMPULSES. THESE
BIOLOGICAL IMPULSES
ARE BEYOND OUR
CONTROL, BUT THE
RESULTING EMOTIONS
ARE NOT. WHEN
EMOTIONS ARE RUNNING
HIGH, THEY CERTAINLY
CANNOT BE IGNORED –
BUT THEY CAN BE
CAREFULLY MANAGED.
SELF-REGULATION
CAN BE DEFINED IN
VARIOUS WAYS. IN THE
MOST BASIC SENSE,
IT INVOLVES
CONTROLLING ONE'S
BEHAVIOR, EMOTIONS,
AND THOUGHTS IN
THE PURSUIT OF
LONG-TERM GOALS.
MORE SPECIFICALLY,
EMOTIONAL SELF-
REGULATION REFERS TO
THE ABILITY TO MANAGE
DISRUPTIVE EMOTIONS
AND IMPULSES. IN OTHER
WORDS, TO THINK
BEFORE ACTING. IT ALSO
REFLECTS THE ABILITY TO
CHEER YOURSELF UP
AFTER DISAPPOINTMENTS
AND TO ACT IN A WAY
CONSISTENT WITH YOUR
DEEPEST HELD VALUES.
YOUR ABILITY TO SELF-
REGULATE AS AN ADULT
HAS ROOTS IN YOUR
DEVELOPMENT DURING
CHILDHOOD. LEARNING
HOW TO SELF-REGULATE
IS AN IMPORTANT SKILL
THAT CHILDREN LEARN
BOTH FOR EMOTIONAL
MATURITY AND LATER
SOCIAL CONNECTIONS.
Managing Emotions
THE ABILITY TO REALIZE,
READILY ACCEPT, AS WELL AS
SUCCESSFULLY CONTROL
FEELINGS IN ONESELF (AND
SOMETIMES OTHERS) IS
KNOWN AS THE EMOTION
MANAGEMENT SKILL. VERY
SIMPLY, EMOTION
MANAGEMENT SKILLS REFER
TO THE ABILITY TO MASTER
YOUR OWN EMOTIONS.
FOR DEVELOPING EMOTION MANAGEMENT
SKILLS, BEING OPEN TO ONE’S THOUGHTS
AND FEELINGS IS NOT ENOUGH. YOU MUST
HAVE COMPLETE AUTHORITY OVER
CHANGING YOUR THOUGHTS AND
FEELINGS THAT ARE GENERATED
WHENEVER YOUR VALUES ARE TOUCHED
BY THE ACTIONS OF A PERSON OR AN
EVENT. THIS IS IMPORTANT BECAUSE THE
CHANGE IN YOUR THOUGHTS AND
FEELINGS IS WHAT HELPS CHANGE YOUR
EMOTIONS, PREVENTING FROM REACTIVE
OUTBURSTS.
ONE CAN TRY TO CONTROL
EMOTIONS BY FOLLOWING
WAYS:
The ‘EQ brain’
and how it works
• Thenext thing we need is abrief
overview of how the brain works.
• Asyou canseein the photo,three
layerscontrol different aspectsof human functioning.
• Thetwo regions we are most interested in when it comestoEQare the limbic
region(where our emotions live) and the neocortex region(where our high-order
thinkingoperates).
• Thegoal in EQis to havethese two regions work in tandem withone another. The
challenge is that the limbic region caneasily hi-jack the neocortex region becauseit
is processingdata before if reachesthe neocortex. In his book, Emotional
Intelligence, DanGoleman puts it this way:
The science of
emotions
Thank you

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Emotional Intelligent In CFM (MBA)......

  • 1. - By Prof. Rahul Kumavat - Asist Prof. at JSPM, JSCOE, Hadapsar,Pune - 8888228569 Semester-II MBA– I GenericElectiveCourse-Universitylevel 207– ContemporaryFrameworksinManagement 2 Credits
  • 5. Emotions  According to the American Psychological Association, emotions are conscious mental reactions that are usually directed toward a specific object. They are often experienced as strong feelings and are typically accompanied by physiological and behavioural changes in the body.
  • 7.
  • 10. Benefits of EI in the Workplace
  • 11. Benefits of EI in the Workplace
  • 12. Benefits of EI in the Workplace
  • 13. Benefits of EI in the Workplace
  • 14. Benefits of EI in the Workplace
  • 15. Some more other Benefits of EI in the Workplace
  • 16. Understand the difference between Trait EI and Ability EI Trait EI is "a constellation of emotional self-perceptions located at the lower levels of personality. In lay terms, trait EI refers to an individual's self-perceptions of their emotional abilities. Ability EI is defined as “ the ability to perceive and express emotion, assimilate emotion in thought, understand and reason with emotion, and regulate in social environment.
  • 17. 5 Dimensions of Trait EI Model
  • 18.
  • 19. 5 Dimensions of Trait EI Model
  • 20. 5 Dimensions of Trait EI Model
  • 21. 5 Dimensions of Trait EI Model
  • 23. Seeing the other side The skill of influencing others is a valuable asset to have. It can help us sell products and ideas, convince people and institutions to assist us, and even affect change in the world! We may not have the power to control other people, but we can always do our best to persuade them. This skill is particularly critical for managers. How you go about influencing and successfully communicating your message determines the results you will achieve. To be a successful influencer, some critical skills to possess include the ability to see “the other side,” build bridges, and give in without giving up. You must be able to “enter another person’s world” in order to influence them. This means setting aside your own point of view, and looking at a situation from that person’s perspective. How they see the world becomes their reality. Don’t assume that what’s clear to you is clear to your partner in communication.
  • 24. Seeing the other side Seeing the other side involves knowing what is important to the other person: their values, interests, and preferences. Do you understand their SOCIAL STYLE — their preferred way of communicating and behaving? Ask questions and ask for feedback to make sure you “hear” them and understand where they are coming from. Another way to approach this is to answer this question, on their behalf, “what’s in it for me?” The key to all of the above is understanding and recognizing the others point of view and the only way to do that is to be open, ask lots of open-ended and clarifying questions and to be an active listener.
  • 25. Giving in without giving up
  • 26. Life Positions – you and only you can choose your mindset
  • 27. Life Positions – you and only you can choose your mindset
  • 28.
  • 29.
  • 30. Managing Emotions (ME) - Self- Regulation OUR EMOTIONS ARE DRIVEN BY BIOLOGICAL IMPULSES. THESE BIOLOGICAL IMPULSES ARE BEYOND OUR CONTROL, BUT THE RESULTING EMOTIONS ARE NOT. WHEN EMOTIONS ARE RUNNING HIGH, THEY CERTAINLY CANNOT BE IGNORED – BUT THEY CAN BE CAREFULLY MANAGED. SELF-REGULATION CAN BE DEFINED IN VARIOUS WAYS. IN THE MOST BASIC SENSE, IT INVOLVES CONTROLLING ONE'S BEHAVIOR, EMOTIONS, AND THOUGHTS IN THE PURSUIT OF LONG-TERM GOALS. MORE SPECIFICALLY, EMOTIONAL SELF- REGULATION REFERS TO THE ABILITY TO MANAGE DISRUPTIVE EMOTIONS AND IMPULSES. IN OTHER WORDS, TO THINK BEFORE ACTING. IT ALSO REFLECTS THE ABILITY TO CHEER YOURSELF UP AFTER DISAPPOINTMENTS AND TO ACT IN A WAY CONSISTENT WITH YOUR DEEPEST HELD VALUES. YOUR ABILITY TO SELF- REGULATE AS AN ADULT HAS ROOTS IN YOUR DEVELOPMENT DURING CHILDHOOD. LEARNING HOW TO SELF-REGULATE IS AN IMPORTANT SKILL THAT CHILDREN LEARN BOTH FOR EMOTIONAL MATURITY AND LATER SOCIAL CONNECTIONS.
  • 31. Managing Emotions THE ABILITY TO REALIZE, READILY ACCEPT, AS WELL AS SUCCESSFULLY CONTROL FEELINGS IN ONESELF (AND SOMETIMES OTHERS) IS KNOWN AS THE EMOTION MANAGEMENT SKILL. VERY SIMPLY, EMOTION MANAGEMENT SKILLS REFER TO THE ABILITY TO MASTER YOUR OWN EMOTIONS. FOR DEVELOPING EMOTION MANAGEMENT SKILLS, BEING OPEN TO ONE’S THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS IS NOT ENOUGH. YOU MUST HAVE COMPLETE AUTHORITY OVER CHANGING YOUR THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS THAT ARE GENERATED WHENEVER YOUR VALUES ARE TOUCHED BY THE ACTIONS OF A PERSON OR AN EVENT. THIS IS IMPORTANT BECAUSE THE CHANGE IN YOUR THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS IS WHAT HELPS CHANGE YOUR EMOTIONS, PREVENTING FROM REACTIVE OUTBURSTS. ONE CAN TRY TO CONTROL EMOTIONS BY FOLLOWING WAYS:
  • 32. The ‘EQ brain’ and how it works • Thenext thing we need is abrief overview of how the brain works. • Asyou canseein the photo,three layerscontrol different aspectsof human functioning. • Thetwo regions we are most interested in when it comestoEQare the limbic region(where our emotions live) and the neocortex region(where our high-order thinkingoperates). • Thegoal in EQis to havethese two regions work in tandem withone another. The challenge is that the limbic region caneasily hi-jack the neocortex region becauseit is processingdata before if reachesthe neocortex. In his book, Emotional Intelligence, DanGoleman puts it this way:
  • 33.