This document outlines an agenda for a 2-hour Crucial Conversations training. It will be split between discussing concepts and practicing skills in groups. The training will cover how to identify high-stakes conversations, understand different approaches people take and make better choices. Participants will learn about seeking shared understanding rather than just fighting or fleeing, and how to manage strong emotions. Role plays are used to practice applying the skills, such as making conversations safe by being honest yet respectful. The overall goal is to empower people to have better quality conversations that improve their lives.
Whether they take place at work or at home, with your neighbors or co-founder, crucial conversations can have a profound impact on your career, your happiness, and your future. You will learn how to: Prepare for high-impact situations, Make it safe to talk about almost anything, Be persuasive, not abrasive, Keep listening when others blow up or clam up, Turn crucial conversations into the action and results you want
Dealing with difficult conversations at work Richard Riche
Difficult conversations can be challenging in the workplace and can lead to conflict if handled poorly. Tips on how to prepare for these conversations, get the right mindset and build an Engaged workforce using Emotional Intelligence and the Neuroscience of the brain.
Whether they take place at work or at home, with your neighbors or co-founder, crucial conversations can have a profound impact on your career, your happiness, and your future. You will learn how to: Prepare for high-impact situations, Make it safe to talk about almost anything, Be persuasive, not abrasive, Keep listening when others blow up or clam up, Turn crucial conversations into the action and results you want
Dealing with difficult conversations at work Richard Riche
Difficult conversations can be challenging in the workplace and can lead to conflict if handled poorly. Tips on how to prepare for these conversations, get the right mindset and build an Engaged workforce using Emotional Intelligence and the Neuroscience of the brain.
These are the slides from a workshop I am running, it definitely doesn't quite translate to self paced online, but you get an idea of some of the stuff. Please provide comments if you have any feedback!
We all have difficult conversations in our lives that we have a natural tendency to avoid. However, effective organizations and effective individuals know how and when to hold these conversations.
Managing Difficult Conversations:9 Questions to Ask YourselfBarbara Greene
Do you avoid difficult conversations? There is no need to avoid them if you focus on the constructive possibilities. Start by asking yourself these 9 critical questions.
The objective of this module is to
Identify difficult interpersonal situations
Learn how to initiate and close conversations in difficult situations
Minimize destructive conversations
Develop precise questions to conduct a skillful conversation.
Engage in open and productive conversations
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Team troubles — techniques to solve conflictHollie Lubbock
Whether you’ve been in a team for a while or one that has just formed; sometimes troubles can arise. Getting these troubles out into the open, discussed and solved quickly is good for team health and everyone's happiness. However, these are not easy conversations to have. Today I'm going to walk you through a few techniques to tackle these issues in a positive safe space.
These are the slides from a workshop I am running, it definitely doesn't quite translate to self paced online, but you get an idea of some of the stuff. Please provide comments if you have any feedback!
We all have difficult conversations in our lives that we have a natural tendency to avoid. However, effective organizations and effective individuals know how and when to hold these conversations.
Managing Difficult Conversations:9 Questions to Ask YourselfBarbara Greene
Do you avoid difficult conversations? There is no need to avoid them if you focus on the constructive possibilities. Start by asking yourself these 9 critical questions.
The objective of this module is to
Identify difficult interpersonal situations
Learn how to initiate and close conversations in difficult situations
Minimize destructive conversations
Develop precise questions to conduct a skillful conversation.
Engage in open and productive conversations
The Power of Gravitas: Finding Your Executive PresenceHilary Potts
When we don't feel confident and comfortable in a situation, it's hard to perform at our best. Here are ten ways to hone your gravitas skills and show up with the presence to navigate any situation.
Negotiation is aimed to resolve points of difference, to gain advantage for an individual or collective, or to craft outcomes to satisfy various interests. Here you can find new ways to improve your negotiation skills.
Team troubles — techniques to solve conflictHollie Lubbock
Whether you’ve been in a team for a while or one that has just formed; sometimes troubles can arise. Getting these troubles out into the open, discussed and solved quickly is good for team health and everyone's happiness. However, these are not easy conversations to have. Today I'm going to walk you through a few techniques to tackle these issues in a positive safe space.
Focus on Intentional Dialogue (for understanding) and Intentional Confrontation (for change). But looks at the concept of intentional conversation also in more general terms.
pdf Xenocentrism is the preference for other people's cultural practices which entails how they live, what they eat, rather than of one's own way of life.[1] One example is the romanticization of the noble savage in the 18th-century primitivism movement in European art, philosophy and ethnography.[2] Xenocentrism is countered by ethnocentrism, the perceived superiority of one's own society to others.[3] Both xenocentrism and ethnocentrism are a subjective take on cultural relativism.
2. Crucial Conversations Facilitator Guide
(31-60 Minutes) Master My Stories
4. Start with Heart, when conversations become crucial, 3 problems:
a. Our Motives degrade first, into Unhealthy Goals (Discuss Chart):
b. Heart Problems (As Emotions Escalate)
1.) We Become Blind to Our Own Role
2.) We Limit Our Choices
c. What We Can Do
1.) Hold Stories Lightly
2.) Ask / Know Exactly What You Want and What You Don’t Want
a.) Complex Thoughts Counter our Adrenalin (fight or flight nature)
b.) We Get Unstuck
d. Practice
1.) Play Mother and Daughter Argument Video (1:05)
a.) What happened?
b.) How can Crucial Conversations change this conversation?
c.) What were the motives?
d.) How could motives change the results of a conversation?
(61-90 Minutes) Make It Safe
5. Be Honest
a. You can’t be too honest.
b. If it’s safe, you can talk about anything with almost anyone.
c. Video: Salomeh Diaz (6:27)
d. Our stories create our emotions, and we create our stories
e. We take information in through our eyes ~80%
f. We need to hold our stories lightly, then engage our brains rationally
g. Victor Franco: in Man’s Search for Meaning “When everything is taken from us there is
one thing that remains-- the power to choose one’s attitude in any given
circumstance.”
3. Crucial Conversations Facilitator Guide
6. Role Play #2
7. Contrasting Statements
a. Step Out, Use Contrast Statements to Fix Misunderstanding
1.) Use “Don’t” Statements to Express What You Did Not Intend
2.) Use “Do” Statements to Confirm Respect and Clarify
b. Role Play # 3 Practice Contrast Statements With a Partner
(91-120 Minutes)
8. Stories are the Master Key Mutual Purpose
a. Mutual Respect
1.) You might not have any
2.) Get Some!
3.) Mutual Purpose
9. Paths to Success
a. Look for early warning signs
b. Step out of the context of the conversation, re-establish safety
1.) You Care About Their Best Interests
2.) You Care About Them
c. Step Back Into Conversation
d. Ask Yourself, “What do I really want?”
e. Safety is the Foundation of Trust
f. Step Out of Content, Rebuild Mutual Trust, then Return to Content
10. Role Play #3
11. Conversation Planner:talk through each line item
1.) See Participants Guide and work with a partner to plan this conversation
Mission: “Empower People to create quality conversations & thereby improve the quality of their life.”
1. Welcome: Firefighters First Culture
a. Competence
b. Excellence
c. Positivity