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A P R E S E N T A T I O N O N :
• Physical Barriers
• People – Related Barriers
• Physiological Barriers
• Psychological Barriers
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P H Y S I C A L B A R R I E R S
• Noise
• Poor acoustics
• Defective mechanical devices
• Frequent interruptions
• Uncomfortable seating arrangements
• Uncomfortable environment
• Message overload
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P H Y S I O L O G I C A L
B A R R I E R S
• State of Health – State of health of the listener and
the speaker affects the listening ability. Fever, pain
or any other form of bodily discomfort makes it
difficult for a person to listen or speak comfortably.
• Disability – Hearing deficiencies may lead to poor
listening. Similarly, speech disorders of the speaker
may make a speech incoherent to the listener.
Speaker’s accent may also make it difficult for the
listener to comprehend.
• Wandering attention – Human mind can process
words at the rate of about 500 per minute, whereas a
speaker speaks at the rate of about 150 per minute.
The difference between the two leaves the listener
with sufficient time to let his mind wander.
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4
P S Y C H O L O G I C A L
B A R R I E R S
• Being unsure of the speaker’s ability –
Based on past experience or inputs from
sources, the listener may have a preconceived
notion of the speaker’s ability. He may perceive
the speaker to not be well informed, or to be
lacking in depth and ability. Hence the listener
will not listen to what the speaker has to say.
• Personal anxiety – Sometimes the listener is
preoccupied with personal concerns and
anxieties. This makes it difficult to perceive what
is being said by the speaker.
• Attitude – The listener may be highly
egocentric with a “know it all attitude” and may
not listen as he feels that he already knows what
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5
P S Y C H O L O G I C A L
B A R R I E R S
• Impatience – The listener may not have
patience to wait for the other person to finish
what he has to say. He may be intolerant or
may be eager to add his own points to the
discussion. As a result, his desire to speak
overcomes his desire to listen, thus acting as
a barrier.
• Emotional blocks – Our deep seated
beliefs in certain ideas may make it difficult
for us to listen to ideas which go against our
belief. We may hear such an idea wrongly or
it may get distorted in our mind to match our
perception or we may completely block it off
by not listening to it. Many a time, we block
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• Give your full attention on the person who is
speaking. Don't look out the window or at what
else is going on in the room.
• Make sure your mind is focused. It can be easy to
let your mind wander if you think you know what
the person is going to say next, but you might be
wrong! If you feel your mind wandering, change
the position of your body and try to concentrate
on the speaker's words.
• Let the speaker finish before you begin to talk.
Speakers appreciate having the chance to say
everything they would like to say without being
interrupted. When you interrupt, it looks like you
aren't listening, even if you really are.
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• Let yourself finish listening before you begin to
speak! You can't really listen if you are busy
thinking about what you want to say next.
• Listen for main ideas. The main ideas are the
most important points the speaker wants to get
across. They may be mentioned at the start or
end of a talk, and repeated a number of times.
Pay special attention to statements that begin
with phrases such as "My point is..." or "The
thing to remember is..."
• Ask questions. If you are not sure you
understood what the speaker has said, just ask.
For example, you might say, "When you said that
no two zebras are alike, did you mean that the
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 Give feedback. Sit up straight and look directly at the
speaker. Now and then, nod to show that you understand.
At appropriate points you may also smile, frown, laugh,
or be silent. These are all ways to let the speaker know
that you are really listening. Remember, you listen with
your face as well as your ears!
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Barriers to Effective Listening

  • 1. A P R E S E N T A T I O N O N :
  • 2. • Physical Barriers • People – Related Barriers • Physiological Barriers • Psychological Barriers 9/27/2016 6:59:43 AM 2
  • 3. P H Y S I C A L B A R R I E R S • Noise • Poor acoustics • Defective mechanical devices • Frequent interruptions • Uncomfortable seating arrangements • Uncomfortable environment • Message overload 9/27/2016 6:59:43 AM 3
  • 4. P H Y S I O L O G I C A L B A R R I E R S • State of Health – State of health of the listener and the speaker affects the listening ability. Fever, pain or any other form of bodily discomfort makes it difficult for a person to listen or speak comfortably. • Disability – Hearing deficiencies may lead to poor listening. Similarly, speech disorders of the speaker may make a speech incoherent to the listener. Speaker’s accent may also make it difficult for the listener to comprehend. • Wandering attention – Human mind can process words at the rate of about 500 per minute, whereas a speaker speaks at the rate of about 150 per minute. The difference between the two leaves the listener with sufficient time to let his mind wander. 9/27/2016 6:59:43 AM 4
  • 5. P S Y C H O L O G I C A L B A R R I E R S • Being unsure of the speaker’s ability – Based on past experience or inputs from sources, the listener may have a preconceived notion of the speaker’s ability. He may perceive the speaker to not be well informed, or to be lacking in depth and ability. Hence the listener will not listen to what the speaker has to say. • Personal anxiety – Sometimes the listener is preoccupied with personal concerns and anxieties. This makes it difficult to perceive what is being said by the speaker. • Attitude – The listener may be highly egocentric with a “know it all attitude” and may not listen as he feels that he already knows what 9/27/2016 6:59:43 AM 5
  • 6. P S Y C H O L O G I C A L B A R R I E R S • Impatience – The listener may not have patience to wait for the other person to finish what he has to say. He may be intolerant or may be eager to add his own points to the discussion. As a result, his desire to speak overcomes his desire to listen, thus acting as a barrier. • Emotional blocks – Our deep seated beliefs in certain ideas may make it difficult for us to listen to ideas which go against our belief. We may hear such an idea wrongly or it may get distorted in our mind to match our perception or we may completely block it off by not listening to it. Many a time, we block 9/27/2016 6:59:43 AM 6
  • 7. • Give your full attention on the person who is speaking. Don't look out the window or at what else is going on in the room. • Make sure your mind is focused. It can be easy to let your mind wander if you think you know what the person is going to say next, but you might be wrong! If you feel your mind wandering, change the position of your body and try to concentrate on the speaker's words. • Let the speaker finish before you begin to talk. Speakers appreciate having the chance to say everything they would like to say without being interrupted. When you interrupt, it looks like you aren't listening, even if you really are. 9/27/2016 6:59:43 AM 7
  • 8. • Let yourself finish listening before you begin to speak! You can't really listen if you are busy thinking about what you want to say next. • Listen for main ideas. The main ideas are the most important points the speaker wants to get across. They may be mentioned at the start or end of a talk, and repeated a number of times. Pay special attention to statements that begin with phrases such as "My point is..." or "The thing to remember is..." • Ask questions. If you are not sure you understood what the speaker has said, just ask. For example, you might say, "When you said that no two zebras are alike, did you mean that the 9/27/2016 6:59:43 AM 8
  • 9.  Give feedback. Sit up straight and look directly at the speaker. Now and then, nod to show that you understand. At appropriate points you may also smile, frown, laugh, or be silent. These are all ways to let the speaker know that you are really listening. Remember, you listen with your face as well as your ears! 9/27/2016 6:59:43 AM 9