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Listening as the process of receiving, 
constructing meaning from, and responding to 
spoken and/or nonverbal messages”. 
- The International 
Listening Association 
The word “Listen” derives its roots in 
the Germanic language from the word 
“Hlysnan” which means to pay 
attention. The first communication 
skill we engage in the moment we are 
born is listening. It is how we learn 
and acquire language.
 HEARING 
THE SENSORY PERCEPTION OF SOUND 
ATTENDING 
A MENTAL AND PSYCHOLOGICAL 
EFFORT WHICH INVOLVES 
CATEGORISATION & 
PRIORITISATION OF MESSAGES.
COMPREHENDIN 
G 
REMEMBERING, 
UNDERSTANDING, 
INTERPRETING AND 
GRASPING THE 
MESSAGE. 
EVALUATING 
ANALYSING THE INFORMATION 
AND DRAWING THE 
CONCLUSIONS.
RESPONDING 
ACKNOWLEDGEMENT, REACTION, FEEDBACK THROUGH 
GESTURES, SMILES, NODDING ETC.,
TYPES OF LISTENING
It is the first and foremost type of 
listening in which we learn to 
discern the difference in sound. 
The best example of 
discrimnative listening as a 
phenomenon is the way a child 
learns to speak. 
For example: 
- Singling out a single noise from 
a noisy crowd. 
Listeners primary concern is to 
understand the message. 
Listeners are successful when the 
meaning they assign to messages 
is as close as possible to that 
which the sender intended. 
E.g; Listening to lectures
APPRECIATIVE 
LISTENING 
When the listener gains 
pleasure/satisfaction from 
listening to a certain type of 
music, poetry or even the stirring 
words of a great leader. 
Appreciative sources might also 
include: 
 Particular charismatic 
speakers or Entertainers 
COMREHENSIVE 
LISTENING 
Comprehensive listening is what 
the message means to the 
listeners and how they 
understand it in different ways. 
Listening comprehension involves: 
 Speech decoding (sound, word, 
accent recognition) 
 Comprehending (identify central 
theme, concentrate and 
understand, deduce incomplete 
information, decode unfamiliar 
words). 
 Oral discourse(critical skills, 
attitude analysis, inferential 
skills).
 Critical listening is that type of 
listening where listeners have to 
evaluate the message. 
 Listeners have to critically 
respond to the message and 
give their opinions. 
 This form of listening involves 
analysis, critical thinking as well 
judgment 
 It focuses on spoken message 
and the emotions of the 
individual. 
 It includes understanding the 
non-verbal cues. 
 Involves listening to other 
person by putting oneself in the 
physiological position of that 
other person .
 A way of listening and responding to another 
person that improves mutual understanding. 
 A way of paying attention to other people that can 
make them feel that you are listening them.
OBSERVE • NON VERBAL BEHAVIOR 
• NOT DOING ANY OTHER ACTIVITY 
WHILE LISTENING 
FOCUS 
• RESPONDING THROUGH GESTURES & 
FEEDBACK. 
ACKNOWLEDGE 
RESPECT • LET THE SPEAKER FINISH
Listening without responding. 
 Interest in understanding what 
the other person is saying. 
 The speaker is not interrupted in 
any way..
PRINCIPLES OF 
LISTENING
STOP TALKING 
Don't talk, listen. 
When somebody else is talking 
listen to what they are saying, do 
not interrupt, talk over them or 
finish their sentences for them. 
Stop, just listen 
PREPARE 
YOURSELF TO 
LISTEN 
Relax. 
Focus on the speaker. 
Put other things out of mind
Put the speaker 
at ease 
• Help the speaker to feel free to 
speak 
• Nod or use other gestures 
• or words to encourage them to 
continue 
• Maintain eye contact but don’t 
stare 
Remove 
distractions 
• Focus on what is being said. 
• Avoid unnecessary interruptions
Empathize.. 
Try to understand the 
other person’s point of 
view. 
Let go of pre-conceived 
ideas. 
By having an open mind 
we can more fully 
empathise with the 
speaker. 
Be Patient 
A pause, even a long pause, 
does not necessarily mean 
that the speaker has 
finished. 
Be patient and let the 
speaker continue in their 
own time, sometimes it 
takes time to formulate what 
to say and how to say it.
•Try to be impartial. 
•Don't become irritated. 
•Focus on what is being said and 
try to ignore styles of delivery 
Listen to the toneA 
good speaker will use both 
volume and tone to their 
advantage to keep an audience 
attentive 
It helps you to understand the 
emphasis of what is being 
said.
•Listen for ideas-not 
words 
•The most difficult aspects of 
listening is the ability to link 
together pieces of information to 
reveal the ideas of others. 
•You need to get the whole picture 
not just isolated pieces and bits. 
Wait and watch 
for non verbal 
communication
Determine the 
concepts and 
central ideas of 
the message 
The best gauge to know 
whether you are listening or just 
hearing is whether or not you 
are actively looking for the 
central idea of what is being 
said. 
Learn to adapt 
to the speakers 
Appearance, 
Personality and 
Delivery 
Don’t judge a book by its cover. 
Not every one is blessed with 
dashing looks 
Beyond appearance ,we should 
also spend some time coming to 
peace with the fact that there 
are different personalities, styles 
and levels of abilities.
 Curb and 
overcome 
distractions 
 It takes very little to jerk our 
attention away from the work of 
listening… 
 Obstacles… 
 External noises. 
 Psychological activity (worry, 
self consciousness, 
preoccupation) 
 Physical conditions ( 
temperature ,odour ,light , visual 
distractions etc) 
 Semantic distractions ( dialects , 
accents , vocabulary) 
 Technological distractions 
Show the speaker 
you are listening 
. 
 Head nods 
 Leaning forward 
 Making eye contact 
 
 Stop trying to Jump in and Talk
Listening 
is the most powerful form 
of acknowledgment 
…a way of saying, 
“You are important.”
Listening builds 
stronger 
relationships.. 
Creates a desire to cooperate 
among people because they feel 
accepted and acknowledged. 
Listening creates 
acceptance and 
openness 
Conveys the message that 
“I am not judging you.”
Listening is 
critical in 
conflict 
resolution 
Much conflict comes from the 
need to be heard. Successful 
resolution depends on being a 
non- anxious presence.
Listening is a far 
more complex process 
that most people think 
{THILL and BOVEE } 
Most of us listen at or below a 25% 
efficiency rate, remember only about half of 
what is said during a 10 minute conversation, 
and forget half of that within 48 hours. 
”.
Resisting Distractions 
 Distractions at physical or 
mental level. 
 We have a pace of thinking 
faster than speaking, our 
attention begins to wander 
while we listen to someone. 
 Make conscious effort to 
bring our mind back. 
 Be alert to the speakers 
message that is to be 
transmitted. 
 Don’t be distracted by 
physical appearance and 
mannerisms of the speaker. 
 Concentrate on the message 
that the speaker tries to 
convey. 
Focus More On the 
Manner Of Listening 
than on the Matter Of 
Listening 
Skilled listeners focus on 
listening more to the message 
than to the matter of listening. 
Each speech contains a limited 
number of points. 
Our adapting to a right manner 
of listening makes us identify 
these points which, together 
convey the main message.
DELAYING 
EVALUATION 
 Give speaker adequate 
time to say. 
 Do not jump to 
conclusions. 
 Premature judgment 
hampers effective 
listening. 
 Remember a good 
listener keeps 
his/her mind open for 
ideas or 
information and his/her 
eyes keen to 
TAKING 
NOTES 
 Learn how to record what we 
listen. 
 Learning to take notes to keep 
a track of the speaker’s 
message should be the main 
thrust of the listener. 
 How a listener drives the 
main thrust of the speakers 
message home is also very 
important 
 Note taking technique is to 
acquire main points by writing 
the key words used by he 
speaker.
Be alert to 
your Body 
Language 
What you do with your hands, 
eyes, face and postures sends 
out signals as to whether you 
are or aren’t listening to and 
understanding what the other 
person is saying. 
These include… 
Yawning, sighing ,Frowning 
Crossing arms at chest etc 
In conversations 
consider the 
following 
mannerisms 
Smiling frequently, looking 
into your eyes, keeping eyes 
wide open indicates that the 
person shows interest in you and 
what you are saying.
Acknowledging 
the Speaker 
In addition, the active listeners 
usually acknowledge the speaker 
verbally by comments such as 
‘Umm’, 
‘I see’, 
‘Really?’ 
Listen to 
someone by 
paying 
attention…..is the 
greatest 
compliment we 
can give to 
another person.
Noise: 
Interior, 
Semantic 
Situational 
Informatio 
n overload 
. 
All this information can weigh on 
our ability to take in or receive 
and adequately process and 
evaluate what we take in through 
our sensory channels.
Speaker 
Perception 
Sometimes we label the speaker 
as uninteresting, not a good 
speaker, boring or we can look 
beyond the perceptions we 
may have of the speaker. 
Self 
Perceptions and 
Personal Biases 
Self perceptions and personal 
biases can include: 
Egocentrism 
Ethnocentrism 
Personal biases 
Know-it-all attitude
- 
GOWSHIKA ELANGOVAN

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Listening skills

  • 1.
  • 2. Listening as the process of receiving, constructing meaning from, and responding to spoken and/or nonverbal messages”. - The International Listening Association The word “Listen” derives its roots in the Germanic language from the word “Hlysnan” which means to pay attention. The first communication skill we engage in the moment we are born is listening. It is how we learn and acquire language.
  • 3.
  • 4.  HEARING THE SENSORY PERCEPTION OF SOUND ATTENDING A MENTAL AND PSYCHOLOGICAL EFFORT WHICH INVOLVES CATEGORISATION & PRIORITISATION OF MESSAGES.
  • 5. COMPREHENDIN G REMEMBERING, UNDERSTANDING, INTERPRETING AND GRASPING THE MESSAGE. EVALUATING ANALYSING THE INFORMATION AND DRAWING THE CONCLUSIONS.
  • 6. RESPONDING ACKNOWLEDGEMENT, REACTION, FEEDBACK THROUGH GESTURES, SMILES, NODDING ETC.,
  • 8. It is the first and foremost type of listening in which we learn to discern the difference in sound. The best example of discrimnative listening as a phenomenon is the way a child learns to speak. For example: - Singling out a single noise from a noisy crowd. Listeners primary concern is to understand the message. Listeners are successful when the meaning they assign to messages is as close as possible to that which the sender intended. E.g; Listening to lectures
  • 9. APPRECIATIVE LISTENING When the listener gains pleasure/satisfaction from listening to a certain type of music, poetry or even the stirring words of a great leader. Appreciative sources might also include:  Particular charismatic speakers or Entertainers COMREHENSIVE LISTENING Comprehensive listening is what the message means to the listeners and how they understand it in different ways. Listening comprehension involves:  Speech decoding (sound, word, accent recognition)  Comprehending (identify central theme, concentrate and understand, deduce incomplete information, decode unfamiliar words).  Oral discourse(critical skills, attitude analysis, inferential skills).
  • 10.  Critical listening is that type of listening where listeners have to evaluate the message.  Listeners have to critically respond to the message and give their opinions.  This form of listening involves analysis, critical thinking as well judgment  It focuses on spoken message and the emotions of the individual.  It includes understanding the non-verbal cues.  Involves listening to other person by putting oneself in the physiological position of that other person .
  • 11.
  • 12.  A way of listening and responding to another person that improves mutual understanding.  A way of paying attention to other people that can make them feel that you are listening them.
  • 13. OBSERVE • NON VERBAL BEHAVIOR • NOT DOING ANY OTHER ACTIVITY WHILE LISTENING FOCUS • RESPONDING THROUGH GESTURES & FEEDBACK. ACKNOWLEDGE RESPECT • LET THE SPEAKER FINISH
  • 14.
  • 15.
  • 16. Listening without responding.  Interest in understanding what the other person is saying.  The speaker is not interrupted in any way..
  • 18. STOP TALKING Don't talk, listen. When somebody else is talking listen to what they are saying, do not interrupt, talk over them or finish their sentences for them. Stop, just listen PREPARE YOURSELF TO LISTEN Relax. Focus on the speaker. Put other things out of mind
  • 19. Put the speaker at ease • Help the speaker to feel free to speak • Nod or use other gestures • or words to encourage them to continue • Maintain eye contact but don’t stare Remove distractions • Focus on what is being said. • Avoid unnecessary interruptions
  • 20. Empathize.. Try to understand the other person’s point of view. Let go of pre-conceived ideas. By having an open mind we can more fully empathise with the speaker. Be Patient A pause, even a long pause, does not necessarily mean that the speaker has finished. Be patient and let the speaker continue in their own time, sometimes it takes time to formulate what to say and how to say it.
  • 21. •Try to be impartial. •Don't become irritated. •Focus on what is being said and try to ignore styles of delivery Listen to the toneA good speaker will use both volume and tone to their advantage to keep an audience attentive It helps you to understand the emphasis of what is being said.
  • 22. •Listen for ideas-not words •The most difficult aspects of listening is the ability to link together pieces of information to reveal the ideas of others. •You need to get the whole picture not just isolated pieces and bits. Wait and watch for non verbal communication
  • 23.
  • 24.
  • 25. Determine the concepts and central ideas of the message The best gauge to know whether you are listening or just hearing is whether or not you are actively looking for the central idea of what is being said. Learn to adapt to the speakers Appearance, Personality and Delivery Don’t judge a book by its cover. Not every one is blessed with dashing looks Beyond appearance ,we should also spend some time coming to peace with the fact that there are different personalities, styles and levels of abilities.
  • 26.  Curb and overcome distractions  It takes very little to jerk our attention away from the work of listening…  Obstacles…  External noises.  Psychological activity (worry, self consciousness, preoccupation)  Physical conditions ( temperature ,odour ,light , visual distractions etc)  Semantic distractions ( dialects , accents , vocabulary)  Technological distractions Show the speaker you are listening .  Head nods  Leaning forward  Making eye contact   Stop trying to Jump in and Talk
  • 27.
  • 28. Listening is the most powerful form of acknowledgment …a way of saying, “You are important.”
  • 29. Listening builds stronger relationships.. Creates a desire to cooperate among people because they feel accepted and acknowledged. Listening creates acceptance and openness Conveys the message that “I am not judging you.”
  • 30. Listening is critical in conflict resolution Much conflict comes from the need to be heard. Successful resolution depends on being a non- anxious presence.
  • 31.
  • 32. Listening is a far more complex process that most people think {THILL and BOVEE } Most of us listen at or below a 25% efficiency rate, remember only about half of what is said during a 10 minute conversation, and forget half of that within 48 hours. ”.
  • 33. Resisting Distractions  Distractions at physical or mental level.  We have a pace of thinking faster than speaking, our attention begins to wander while we listen to someone.  Make conscious effort to bring our mind back.  Be alert to the speakers message that is to be transmitted.  Don’t be distracted by physical appearance and mannerisms of the speaker.  Concentrate on the message that the speaker tries to convey. Focus More On the Manner Of Listening than on the Matter Of Listening Skilled listeners focus on listening more to the message than to the matter of listening. Each speech contains a limited number of points. Our adapting to a right manner of listening makes us identify these points which, together convey the main message.
  • 34. DELAYING EVALUATION  Give speaker adequate time to say.  Do not jump to conclusions.  Premature judgment hampers effective listening.  Remember a good listener keeps his/her mind open for ideas or information and his/her eyes keen to TAKING NOTES  Learn how to record what we listen.  Learning to take notes to keep a track of the speaker’s message should be the main thrust of the listener.  How a listener drives the main thrust of the speakers message home is also very important  Note taking technique is to acquire main points by writing the key words used by he speaker.
  • 35. Be alert to your Body Language What you do with your hands, eyes, face and postures sends out signals as to whether you are or aren’t listening to and understanding what the other person is saying. These include… Yawning, sighing ,Frowning Crossing arms at chest etc In conversations consider the following mannerisms Smiling frequently, looking into your eyes, keeping eyes wide open indicates that the person shows interest in you and what you are saying.
  • 36. Acknowledging the Speaker In addition, the active listeners usually acknowledge the speaker verbally by comments such as ‘Umm’, ‘I see’, ‘Really?’ Listen to someone by paying attention…..is the greatest compliment we can give to another person.
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  • 38. Noise: Interior, Semantic Situational Informatio n overload . All this information can weigh on our ability to take in or receive and adequately process and evaluate what we take in through our sensory channels.
  • 39. Speaker Perception Sometimes we label the speaker as uninteresting, not a good speaker, boring or we can look beyond the perceptions we may have of the speaker. Self Perceptions and Personal Biases Self perceptions and personal biases can include: Egocentrism Ethnocentrism Personal biases Know-it-all attitude
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