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Active Listening
Skills
-Sakshi Bhatt
B.PHARM 1st & 3rd SEMESTER
COMMUNICATION SKILLS
“ One of the most sincere forms of respect is actually listening to what another has to say”
- Bryant H. McGill
• Active listening is a valuable technique involving all the senses of
the listener, that requires the listener to thoroughly absorb,
understand, respond, and retain what is being said.
• Comprehend. The listener pays attention to
the speaker’s verbal and non-verbal
language to fully understand what they’re
trying to communicate.
• Retain. The listener tries to remember key
points of the speaker’s message using their
memory or via note-taking.
• Respond. Listener responds to the speaker to
confirm his/her understanding of speaker’s
message and to further their discussion on
the subject. This only happens after
analyzing and remembering what the speaker
How to practice active listening?
• Sophisticated Skill- Takes practice.
• If grown in an environment where it was not practiced, then
learning this skill gets even more difficult.
For example- Dealing with parent’s queries on technology. some
children listen actively teach patiently and some get irritated. The
latter one can grew up and consider listening actively as very difficult
task
• Importance- better communication and problem solving
• To practice- listen carefully with eyes and ear open!
pay attention!
• Skills required- communicating with intent, listening with your
senses, searching for feeling word, clarifying message
Communication with Intent
• Listen actively – one of important barrier to effective communication ,
people often listen to speak, instead of listening to understand.
This can be over come by reflective listening.
• Open healthy dialogue- communication or discussion between groups
or people, dialogue should be meaningful, constant, honest ,
constructive .
• Choose the right format- by watching tone and body language,
choose words wisely and listening carefully.
• Positive body language- while in conversation person should have
open body posture, stand with straight spine ,communicate with fully
focused and bearing good energy level.
• Expression- speaker should express himself as per situation ,not to
be over reactive while conversation.
“Most people do not listen with intent to understand; they listen with the
intent to reply”
Listening with sense &
Feeling words
• Reinforce what others feel , not just what they say
The starting point for emotional listening is reinforcement – nodding
your head and saying yes and “ I understand encourages others to open
up and share their feelings .
• Read nonverbal cues
Emotional listening requires studying someone’s expressions , tone of
voice , and body language to draw conclusions about how they are
feeling .
• Acknowledge your own feelings without succumbing to them
If you feel yourself getting annoyed , acknowledge that to yourself and
then immediately move on toward trying to understand what motivates
the other person.
• Probe for more details
If someone says , “ I’m happy with that raise , ” you can assume she is .
But sometimes words need to be deconstructed. For example , when
Clarifying with words
Clarification is the skill we use to ensure that we have understood
the message of the speaker in an interpersonal exchange. We should
use some steps..
• Admit if you are unsure about what the speaker means.
• State what the speaker has said as you understand it, and check
whether this is what they really said.
• Ask for specific examples, use non directive questions
Example:
“I'm not quite sure I understand what you are saying.”
“Why do you feel this way?”
Thank You!

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Active listening skills, Communication Skills, B.pharm 1st & 3rd sem

  • 1. Active Listening Skills -Sakshi Bhatt B.PHARM 1st & 3rd SEMESTER COMMUNICATION SKILLS
  • 2. “ One of the most sincere forms of respect is actually listening to what another has to say” - Bryant H. McGill • Active listening is a valuable technique involving all the senses of the listener, that requires the listener to thoroughly absorb, understand, respond, and retain what is being said. • Comprehend. The listener pays attention to the speaker’s verbal and non-verbal language to fully understand what they’re trying to communicate. • Retain. The listener tries to remember key points of the speaker’s message using their memory or via note-taking. • Respond. Listener responds to the speaker to confirm his/her understanding of speaker’s message and to further their discussion on the subject. This only happens after analyzing and remembering what the speaker
  • 3.
  • 4. How to practice active listening? • Sophisticated Skill- Takes practice. • If grown in an environment where it was not practiced, then learning this skill gets even more difficult. For example- Dealing with parent’s queries on technology. some children listen actively teach patiently and some get irritated. The latter one can grew up and consider listening actively as very difficult task • Importance- better communication and problem solving • To practice- listen carefully with eyes and ear open! pay attention! • Skills required- communicating with intent, listening with your senses, searching for feeling word, clarifying message
  • 5. Communication with Intent • Listen actively – one of important barrier to effective communication , people often listen to speak, instead of listening to understand. This can be over come by reflective listening. • Open healthy dialogue- communication or discussion between groups or people, dialogue should be meaningful, constant, honest , constructive . • Choose the right format- by watching tone and body language, choose words wisely and listening carefully. • Positive body language- while in conversation person should have open body posture, stand with straight spine ,communicate with fully focused and bearing good energy level. • Expression- speaker should express himself as per situation ,not to be over reactive while conversation. “Most people do not listen with intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply”
  • 6. Listening with sense & Feeling words • Reinforce what others feel , not just what they say The starting point for emotional listening is reinforcement – nodding your head and saying yes and “ I understand encourages others to open up and share their feelings . • Read nonverbal cues Emotional listening requires studying someone’s expressions , tone of voice , and body language to draw conclusions about how they are feeling . • Acknowledge your own feelings without succumbing to them If you feel yourself getting annoyed , acknowledge that to yourself and then immediately move on toward trying to understand what motivates the other person. • Probe for more details If someone says , “ I’m happy with that raise , ” you can assume she is . But sometimes words need to be deconstructed. For example , when
  • 7. Clarifying with words Clarification is the skill we use to ensure that we have understood the message of the speaker in an interpersonal exchange. We should use some steps.. • Admit if you are unsure about what the speaker means. • State what the speaker has said as you understand it, and check whether this is what they really said. • Ask for specific examples, use non directive questions Example: “I'm not quite sure I understand what you are saying.” “Why do you feel this way?”